Unforgettable exchange

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We've been married for several years now. Perhaps due to work pressure, or perhaps it's the so-called aesthetic fatigue and monotonous married life, sometimes our sex life has become unsatisfactory, even worse than casual sex. If my energy is low, I can't get an erection. Although our relationship is good, love without sex is dangerous.

When having sex with my wife, if I imagine it's with another woman (often a specific person), it works very well. But if I realize it's just a fantasy, it's ineffective. Besides, I can't possibly go to a prostitute. So, my wife and I discussed the idea of having sex.
To have sex as a couple, you first need to convince yourself. My wife and I both had male friends and similar experiences before marriage, so after some internal struggle, I was able to accept it. Secondly, convincing my wife was more difficult because women are reserved and have many concerns, but ultimately, she agreed.

Society generally refers to sex as "sexual intimacy," which might be a deliberate misrepresentation, intended to portray this behavior as disrespectful to women by men. I won't elaborate too much here, but I just want to say that, in fact, determining the specific partner requires the mutual agreement of both parties. In this activity, men and women are equal, but usually, the woman's requests are more stringent. Therefore, "exchange" is more in line with the true nature of the situation.

Choosing an exchange partner is a very troublesome matter. Online, there are many fake couples or people driven by mere curiosity; although it's relatively easy to distinguish them, it still takes a lot of effort. Of the remaining people, most are unsuitable. After all, our desire for excitement is occasional; we need new experiences, but we don't want to become deeply involved and unable to extricate ourselves.

By chance, I chatted with a couple from another city. We both thought the other was nice. Although their appearance was average, they were both presentable, and their manner of speaking was similar to ours. We neither hoped for nor were interested in finding handsome men and beautiful women, so we decided to try exchanging with this couple.

We met in a small city in the middle, a place we had both traveled to for work before, so we were somewhat familiar with it. After agreeing on a time, we prepared to set off on the appointed day.

Upon arriving in this intermediate city, we each booked a standard room at a hotel and met. The other person looked quite different from their online persona, but we were still able to accept it. After having lunch together, we went to one of the rooms. The two men tried to chat for a while, but their conversations were strained. So I suggested switching rooms, with the two men going to each other's rooms. After everyone agreed, I stayed in the room with the other man's wife.

To be honest, I was very nervous at that moment. I tried to talk to the wife, attempting to break the awkward atmosphere, but she was very quiet. Usually, I would say something, and she would give a simple reply. Although her expression was kind, it did nothing to alleviate my anxiety.

She sat on the edge of the bed watching TV, while I sat on the other side, trying to make small talk. So I said I would take a shower first. After showering, I returned to the bed in shorts and said, "I usually sit under the covers to watch TV." She nodded. I then asked, "Would you like to sit in?" She said, "Okay."
My thigh touched her skin, and she didn't pull away from the sudden contact. Once I confirmed she was also waiting for her moment, I grew bolder and embraced her. I heard her rapid breathing and felt a strange excitement myself. The beginning is always the hardest, but the rest was a familiar process, so it proceeded naturally. For safety reasons, we used condoms and didn't kiss.

After resting for a while, it was time for dinner. A call came from the other room, asking if we were awake. So we got up and went back to our respective rooms. My wife was also excited, sharing some details and feelings. Actually, I had been worried about her having problems, but it seemed everything was normal. She said she felt a bit excited, since her partner and I had different ways of making love, adding a fresh thrill.

The four of us had dinner together, took a short walk in the small town, but didn't find much interest, so we went back to the hotel. That night, we still swapped partners and slept separately. My partner's wife and I had become somewhat familiar with each other, but the atmosphere during our conversation was still a little awkward. After watching TV for a while, we made love again. There wasn't much conversation. The next morning, I woke up early, and she woke up too. I coaxed her again, and we did it again.

After getting up, my wife and I spent some time alone, talking about our feelings, some details, and even funny things. Then we had breakfast together and said goodbye.
After returning home, I rarely went online on QQ because I didn't want another time too soon. But I could see that she was often online, seemingly waiting for us. After a while, we went online again and chatted. Her husband said that his work had been relatively relaxed lately and he wanted to travel. I knew what he meant, so I said that if they were willing, they were welcome to come to our place, and they happily agreed.

When they came to our place, we arranged for them to stay at our home.

This time, the atmosphere was very harmonious, and his wife was much more cheerful. That evening, when I was with his wife, we talked a lot, including many private things and even some slightly cheesy things. This wasn't intentional; I genuinely wanted to talk to her more. Putting aside the gradually fading awkwardness and unfamiliarity, she felt like a close female friend besides my wife. Moreover, I could be intimate with her like a lover, without any emotional guilt.
They stayed at my house for two days. They left in the morning; they had gotten up before dawn. When she got up, she gently touched my face. I was half-asleep, actually enjoying the feeling.

I'm a person of principle. After they left, I didn't miss them. I cherish the feeling of being together; after separation, we each have our own world. However, my wife and I had more to talk about, fewer secrets, a more harmonious relationship, and a much better interest in our sex life. I have to thank this friendship for that.
Afterwards, I didn't have any further contact with her, partly because of the distance, and partly because work gradually became busier. Also, we only considered our interactions as a spice of life; we treated each other as friends with whom we could have sexual relations, just friends in our social circle, and only lovers when we were together.
After that, we lost contact. Firstly, the distance was too great, and secondly, work gradually became more demanding. Also, we only considered our relationship as a diversion from each other's lives; we saw each other as friends with whom we could have sexual relations, just friends within our social circles, and lovers only when we were together.

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