A woman's views on 3P, 4P, and multiple partners

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I haven't been involved in group sex or swapping for very long. I've occasionally seen the term "******" somewhere before, and a couple of nights ago, I couldn't sleep and suddenly had this thought. I searched it on Baidu and was shocked to find a long list of information and forums related to ******. I just can't understand how there could be people who would be willing to let others have sex with their women! As for myself, I'm the kind of woman who's open-minded but conservative in behavior. At least before I got married, before I became a woman, I was always conservative. In high school, my roommates said that oral sex felt disgusting, but after being with my husband, I gradually got used to and even liked it. I used to find scenes of multiple people having sex in porn disgusting, thinking, "How can people like that exist?" But after getting married and becoming a woman myself, I experienced it firsthand. My husband often tells me not to think of sex as something disgusting, but as something enjoyable. Gradually, under his guidance, I went from being a virgin to a more mature woman. I also accepted the methods in those porn films and try them with my husband. My husband is great; he always makes sure I'm aroused before he goes at it, and as long as I'm engaged, I'll definitely reach orgasm. I've always thought sex wasn't very important to me, or rather, I'm the kind of person who can live without it. People often ask me, "Aren't you afraid your husband will cheat on you?" First of all, I believe my husband thinks he probably wouldn't, but many people say it's impossible for a man who frequently socializes outside the home not to touch women. So, I think if my husband were to cheat, even if I found out, I probably wouldn't scold him or anything, because I understand him. But that doesn't mean I support him cheating. I've told him, firstly, not to let me know, and secondly, to always use condoms so he doesn't bring any problems home. I'm speaking from the heart. People in society are more open-minded these days. Even if he really did have an affair, what could I do? Fight with him over it? Impossible. Our relationship is still very good, isn't it? Besides, how many men in society don't have a wife at home and a mistress outside? Among my classmates and friends, not to mention the men, even some girlfriends have more than one lover. I used to absolutely not accept that. I thought it was shameless. But now, my thinking has changed. When you're open-minded about everything, nothing matters anymore. Frankly speaking, what's shameless about it? Historically, men could have multiple sexual partners, and that was considered romantic. But women, even the slightest hint of something, would be labeled as open-minded and shameless. That's unfair. Or perhaps the trend of couples traveling together has changed this unfairness; a woman can travel with two or more men at the same time… Before, I wouldn't have dared to imagine it; I'd think it was perverted. However, after reading so many articles about swapping, I suddenly had a change of heart and a more open-minded perspective. Life is short; we can only have such experiences before the age of 45 at most. Whether someone is shameless or not, open-minded or not, there's no fixed rule. Where is there a rule saying you can't have passionate encounters with multiple people? Emperors of the past had hundreds of concubines, and they weren't breaking the law. So personally, I think that as long as both husband and wife agree and are willing, and there's no blame afterward, there's nothing wrong with it. Who...? Regardless of gender, who doesn't crave a little excitement and passion? While we might verbally criticize couples traveling together or engaging in group sex as shameless, how many of us don't secretly yearn for it, thinking how amazing it would be to be the protagonist? Humans are hypocritical, aren't we? We might want it but dare not say it, or perhaps we have a sour grapes mentality. As for morality and customs, I think there are no fixed definitions. As long as it doesn't harm others and is consensual, there's nothing morally wrong with it. In this new era, for new people, seeking excitement occasionally is normal. Like many say, masturbation can enhance marital relationships and sex life. So, young people, if you're interested, give it a try! Life is short. Some women never experience an orgasm in their entire lives; wouldn't that be a bit of a regret in old age?

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