Enjoy five kinds of happiness

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I. Bondage, Command, Obedience, and Masochism. Don't be surprised by this acronym, BD, which stands for Bondage, Command, Obedience, and Masochism. Now let's look at the letters B and D, which represent Bondage and Command, and these might be more fashionable than you think. "When she's bound, the intense sexual desire excites them, and many women find this very interesting," says Dr. Carol, a sexologist who also owns a successful sex toy store. "Their rebellious nature creates an impulse, and when they're bound and restrained, the real show begins." First: While you're playfully frolicking, cover her head with your hands to immobilize her. If she likes this, then you should consider how to take control of her further. Grab a tie, her long scarf, or a pair of stockings and gently tie her up. Keep tying her up, don't stop, and be sure to do it slowly. Shouting loudly can make the game even more exciting. “Whether or not to go all out with shouting is entirely up to you,” says Emma Taylor, co-author of *The Sexual Nerve Guide*. “Being too conservative can lead to missed opportunities; you should learn to be a little ‘rough.’ This is your sex spice. If she laughs, laugh along with her. Let her keep moaning. And then: let’s hear the advice of Old—a sex researcher: “BDSM can be dangerous for those who have no experience in it or are too enthusiastic about it. Do your research beforehand to avoid hurting your partner.” Before you begin, you should instill the word “safety” in your mind to manage the time and boundaries while you’re playing. “‘Rejection’ can be a crucial part of sexual fantasies and can ignite unimaginable passion, so you should keep the word ‘safety’ in mind throughout,” says sex educator Wexman. If you haven’t tried all these risky games, you should be cautious. Her story: "Everything felt so natural to us. My husband and I didn't go out and buy handcuffs. But during one of our sexual encounters, he said to me, 'Come on, baby, don't use your hands,' and honestly, I found we were both performing at an extraordinary level. Then we would take turns doing this: he would grab the headboard, and I would continue doing what I was supposed to do, and then we would switch. I could feel that he was completely absorbed in it, and I simply couldn't get him to stop. This is the kind of completely captivating sex we've always wanted."
II. Safety Tip #1 for Sex Videos: Lock up your sex videos and never post them online. They are personal items; do not leak them. Safety Tip #2 for Sex Videos: Giving her the key to the handcuffs will make her feel safer. Remember: this is just a game. Don't expect too much. In our survey, only 15% of women record their bedroom activities, probably because they are afraid others will see them. "They are curious about what they are like when they are passionate; that's their most authentic self," says Candida, author of *How to Tell Your Naked Man What to Do*. You can try to see if she is comfortable with sex videos, but success is not guaranteed. If she is nervous but cooperative, you should give her the tape as soon as you're done, or destroy it once the excitement has subsided. If you absolutely must keep it, lock it away and make sure it cannot be copied. First: "Try to forget about the tape," says Candida. “We can connect the VCR to the TV,” she said. “It’s best to position the screen at a suitable angle so that we can see ourselves even in the most passionate moments. In the beginning, consider using a safer still-life camera, digital or with an artificial polarizing plate, to minimize the startle experience for beginners. Then: Sex is a wonderful experience, but it can feel unsettling when we see it directly. “Don’t hang the camera lights on the ceiling,” Candida said. “It creates shadows, and lights overhead can make you look terrible,” said Dr. Robert. This clinical sexologist also reminds us that while men are engrossed in visual stimulation, “women rely more on hearing. The louder the moans and cries, the more a woman can enjoy it.” Her story: “My husband and I bought a digital camera for our trip to South America. He spent an entire evening fiddling with it in the hotel, and after I finished showering, I was wringing out a towel while doing all sorts of silly, but sexy, things.” Later we watched a clip, and I felt a pleasant surprise: it was so beautiful, and honestly, I felt a surge of heat. So, we got an idea, and we used it all night to film ourselves having sex. The camera was amazing because it was a long-distance shot, avoiding anything too erotic, yet still showing us how beautiful sex can be. I was heartbroken when we had to cut it all to make room for filming the Inca temples later in the days.” — Susan, 27, Engineer. III. Role-Playing. Two people can switch between various roles, such as boss and secretary, teacher and student, cleaner and resident, but all of this must have a theme, such as one person being the weaker party, and the other showing them boundless tolerance and compassion. This is a powerful motivator that can even improve your health and the fun of your sexual relationship. First: We can have this feeling of transformation in the bedroom. “Wearing different underwear, in bed you feel like a different person, becoming very sensual, crazy, and powerful.” "Kun said. Go to a bar neither of you knows well, and you can still create a different feeling in public. www.smage.com Arrive 20 minutes earlier than her, and act like neither of you knows the other. If you can come up with a story for your 'first time,' then do it. Also, design a name, profession, and a somewhat ambiguous scene for your meeting; this will make it more interesting. Then, you discover each other and hug each other more passionately than usual. After that: play a little prank to 'make her forget.' Wear an outfit she's never seen before, and spray on different colognes, because smell is always closely tied to memory. What you need to do is make her forget who you are. Try to make yourself happy, but not in a hysterical way. For example, if you work in sales, then play the role of a traveling salesman, leaving her alone at home, making her a lonely wife waiting at home. A rapid sexual storm will leave you both unable to extricate yourselves. Her story: 'When we first met at the bar, we both laughed like idiots.'" But when we suddenly realized that this carefully crafted scenario could be a huge driving force in our sexual relationship, we immediately prepared for what would be the most unforgettable sex scene of our lives. Long ago, I liked to imagine myself as that fickle woman standing on the street beckoning customers, but unfortunately, I met my husband very young. Playing this role allowed me to show another side of myself, and now we do it once a month. "—Juliet, 24, postgraduate student. IV. Sex Toys: Be aware that when you're not around, she might already be using something like a vibrator—that's a sex toy. Men are probably most worried about whether they'll be replaced, or that women will become addicted to it, and later, even if they want women to orgasm, they won't be able to," says Johnson, an experienced sex therapist. First: Start with a shower and prepare a bottle of massage oil. Methods that give women intense physical stimulation are often linked to unconventional sexual activities. The best time to use sex toys is on Friday nights. A complete set includes a bath sponge, orange mango body oil, massage oil, and a mini vibrator with magic properties. Tell her you'll have a new toy whenever she's ready. Then: Her orgasm could come at any moment. “If this woman is using one of those vibrators that attach to her vagina, she can reach orgasm very quickly when you enter her body,” said Luo Yali. She recommended a vibrator with a simple outline, which, although very sexy in design, looked very cozy. When we brought a group of normally well-behaved girls to the vibrator, they all found it interesting. “They don’t scare me like those ‘Y’ shaped dildos or anything like that,” said Carrie. So what about the men? They can still work inside the woman’s body. “Once they get used to the idea, these guys really like the vibrator,” said Johnson. “It’s very stimulating when she’s wearing the vibrator and gently wrapping her body around his vagina.” Lubricant also plays a role. Her story: “My boyfriend is really great in bed, but my biggest worry is that we can’t orgasm at the same time. I really want us to feel the excitement of orgasm at the same time. When my boyfriend brought me that vibrator that looked like a lipstick, I was really surprised, but we eventually found the feeling we wanted with it, and I think it’s everything to me.” "—Melissa, 32, accountant. V. Exhibitionism. 'The tremor after being stared at by passersby is definitely related to the focus of so many eyes,' Quinn said. 'For women, it's a feeling of being the center of attention, of feeling incredibly attractive and sexy, even though they look really different from ordinary people.' First: When you rush out of a room in a skirt, immediately make a decision to take advantage of any opportunity to fulfill your desire to show off. 'After a fast food meal, I was going to have a drink with a friend. As I rushed to change, I suddenly decided not to wear my underwear,' Karen, a 25-year-old writer, said. 'I think if the bar lights hadn't been so dim and we hadn't drunk so much, maybe none of this would have happened, but I'm still glad I did it.' Then: Outdoor sex. 'You have to make sure you're completely sober and think about how much sexual experience you actually have,' Quinn said. 'When you're exposed to almost no privacy, those pitifully few sexual experiences, like teenagers, make you worry for them.'" Her story: "This is the hottest thing that ever happened to me. This guy asked me to have drinks with him on the rooftop of his apartment building. Then what happened was that, in no time, my legs were wrapped tightly around his body. I'm a very shy person, but my exposed body almost made me give up struggling. In the end, I was a law-abiding citizen. And his vague, threatening tone at the time was really exciting."

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