My wife misses her lover, what should I do?

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It's Friday, April 1st, 2016. Since I had nothing much to do today, I cleaned the house and reflected on my conversation with my wife, Lili, before going to bed last night. I felt a bit helpless and wanted to ask the kind friends on 69.com for advice on our issue.
Previously, I posted about my wife Lili and Xiaotian on 69.com. From October 2014 until now, Lili and Xiaotian have been dating. Their story was passionate and joyful, but as time went on, I noticed some unclear communication between them, which made me feel particularly awkward. I will post about their past when I have time later, so everyone can refer to and learn from it. As a husband with a cuckold fetish, how should I better manage the situation?
This year, the 19th day of the first lunar month is my wife Lili's birthday. For us, after more than ten years of marriage, our lives have become very peaceful and ordinary. I felt unsure what kind of birthday gift to give Lili; everything seemed too ordinary and conventional. In my helplessness, I still bought flowers and a cake, waiting for my Lili to come home. In the endless wait, I suddenly thought of Xiaotian. I felt I should let him know it was Lili's birthday today, and I hoped he could celebrate with her and add some festive atmosphere. I also planned to let Lili and Xiaotian enjoy a wonderful evening alone. Immediately, I called Xiaotian, told him my idea, and explained that I intended to give him to Lili as a birthday present. Xiaotian was very happy to hear this and immediately drove from Lishui, 160 kilometers away, to Yiwu. However, Lili had already finished get off work when Xiaotian arrived. We went out for dinner together. Since Xiaotian hadn't been to Yiwu much, we drove him around the streets of Yiwu to enjoy the night view before heading to the hotel. We brought a cake and some red wine to the hotel room. I planned to leave the hotel after eating the cake, letting them fully enjoy this precious time together. While eating cake, we smeared cream on each other's faces. The three of us were playing around in the room, and ended up covering Lili's clothes with cake. Xiaotian then naturally took off Lili's clothes, leaving her completely naked, and then carried her to take a shower (while showering, they only kissed, they didn't have sex). When they came out, I saw Lili completely naked and couldn't resist smearing cream on her breasts. Then I hugged her and started kissing her breasts. Xiaotian saw this and joined in. He smeared cream on Lili's genitals and kept licking them, teasing them with his tongue. Before long, Lili couldn't take it anymore and desperately wanted Xiaotian to penetrate her, but Xiaotian wouldn't give in. She made Lili smear cream on his penis and eat it. And just like that, the two of them started having sex right in front of me. I could only step aside and quietly watch their passion. They were both extremely excited. Xiaotian then pressed Lili down and began to penetrate her, slowly thrusting in and out until he ejaculated inside her (during her safe period). I couldn't take it anymore. I took off my clothes and, with Xiaotian's semen still inside me, I frantically thrust into Lili's vagina. After a while, I couldn't hold back anymore and ejaculated too. Then I washed up, said goodbye to my wife Lili and Xiaotian, and went home alone. I left the rest of the time to them, hoping this night would bring Lili endless joy.
And so our frustration and distress began. After Xiaotian left the next day, Lili sent him a WeChat message, but he didn't reply. Until today (February 24th on the lunar calendar), Xiaotian hasn't sent Lili a single WeChat message or made a single phone call. Since the day Lili sent the message, she's been waiting for news from Xiaotian. We've seen some of his posts on WeChat Moments, but there's no sign of him contacting us. I asked Lili if they had a fight that night, and she said no. Lili told me she was very happy and joyful that day, without any unpleasantness. Why is that? We have no idea. But Lili's longing is palpable; she even avoids me mentioning Xiaotian during our intimate moments. She feels very angry. Why is he ignoring her? They've been dating for over a year and a half. Even if he didn't want to continue, he should have told her, instead of making her so unhappy. In all this time, Lili hasn't had anything with other men. She's a devoted woman; we shouldn't treat her like this.
I've considered bringing in another man to help Lili relax and stop thinking about him, but she seems to be just like I was when we first started dating—she has difficulty accepting other men. Perhaps she hasn't met the right man yet, and isn't finding the feeling she's looking for. Frustrated, I suggested Lili try contacting him again to avoid the stalemate. She agreed. At the same time, I've been trying to persuade her to accept a new man and change her restrictive views on sex. Friends in 69, do you think I'm doing the right thing?

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