"Rules for Single Men on the Road" (Title added by the author, content reprinted)

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It seems many single men in the group are complaining. Indeed, life is quite awkward for single men in these communities. Many couples explicitly state "No single men please," while those who do accept single men have various conditions, making the single men's hopes seem very slim. In my opinion, if single men are just here complaining, then their hopes are truly slim.
For couples seeking single men, the single men must first understand one thing: these couples must have an exceptionally good relationship. And to take the first step, you must understand a crucial premise: in this kind of friendship, the wife often takes the lead. That is, whether a couple will meet you and become friends is not up to the husband, but up to the wife. I think most single men have experience chatting with female netizens online. Are these single women the type to go to a hotel after just a few words? Yes, but definitely not the majority, especially considering these are already happily married women. In this kind of friendship, the husband usually vets first. If he thinks it's suitable or they get along well, then the wife will step in. Of course, some will be very proactive, but that depends on the single man's luck.
For single men seeking friends with married couples, the second key point is, as always, to pay attention to the couple's stated conditions for friendship. These conditions are usually set by the wife and directly affect the outcome, so it's best not to add them if you can't meet them.
Thirdly, treat these couples, especially the wife, with the mindset of pursuing a girl for the first time, not just seeking sex. As the saying goes, men are driven by their lower bodies, while women are driven by their upper bodies (reason). Besides the mysterious excitement of a stranger, a crucial factor for the wife is that her husband hasn't given her the feeling of being pampered and cherished in a long time.
Fourthly, not all couples participating in these friend-seeking events are as promiscuous or open as you might imagine, so respecting their habits is important. Fifthly
, if the couple accepts your friend request (whether in the community or on QQ), single men have a significant advantage if they take the initiative. Remember, in community settings, supply far exceeds demand. If you don't actively seek out the couple and then hide away looking at their photos, you'll likely be removed from their friend list. Since the couple accepted your application, it means they've initially approved of you. You can confidently greet them more often; even without chatting, the initial impression will form.
Sixthly, regarding the most basic element of sincerity. Many single men claim to be very sincere, which we don't know the full story of, but at least one thing is certain: before getting to know them better, the completeness of your information will be the most direct standard for judging your sincerity. If you don't even have your most basic information, how can you claim sincerity? Where are you from? How old are you? A basic self-introduction? If you don't even have these, and aren't even willing to let them see your personal photo, where is your sincerity? In words? Furthermore, couples' photos, blogs, and status updates—you just glance at them each time you visit, leaving a comment—is that sincerity? Couples may be hypocritical, but aren't single men the same? Their purpose is merely to add the couples as friends and admire their photos and charm, nothing more.
So, I want to say that we accept single men and are looking for suitable single men, but single men, can you meet our requirements?
So what I want to say is that we accept single men and are looking for suitable single men, but single men, can you meet our requirements?

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