Making friends is not just about sex.

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Online, when I add new friends, many people immediately ask: "Are you a couple? Are you two together? How many times have you changed accounts?"
Even though they are supposedly a couple, and the woman's profile picture is often a woman's, the man is usually in the background. They ask for a video call after only a few words, and some even call without any prior greeting.
At first, I patiently explained, but later I just told them we were a couple, but to be friends first. If they didn't understand, I would sometimes show them articles, or ask them to figure it out themselves. As for video calls, most people are very averse to them and refuse; those who persist are blocked on the spot.
Making friends and engaging in casual sex has become a hurdle, allowing me to quickly judge a person's character and maturity in making friends.
A friend who had left the group once told me: "This is really boring, everyone's just all talk and no action." I just smiled and didn't reply. "
When people don't see eye to eye, even half a sentence is too much," as the saying goes!
Another friend angrily said: "How can it be like this? Even animal pairings aren't this simple and vulgar!" You should write an article to educate people about this!
Making friends and sex seem to have become markers of people grouping themselves around each other.
But I can say definitively: making friends is not sex, but it may include sexual content! (Note, only possibly.)
I strongly dislike those who use sex as their sole purpose. Such people automatically reduce themselves from human beings to the level of animals. Aside from reproductive needs, they seem to have no other needs.
Couples making friends is essentially couples making friends together; men and women alike have their own choices. Since they are adults and couples are friends, there are virtually no restrictions on the content of their conversations. Sex is often an important part of the discussion, but it's not the only one. People group themselves around each other, and like attracts like. People always need to find friends who share their interests. All aspects of life, national affairs, family matters, private matters—as long as you can talk to each other and trust each other, you can talk about anything. If
things feel good, video chat, meet in person, and if it feels right, sex might happen—that's perfectly normal.
In real life, because of various concerns, we certainly can't find couples with whom we can communicate without any boundaries, can we? This is a need of ours, both spiritual and physical—a perfectly normal need. I call this kind of interaction "close friendship."
This state of being is beautiful, but not easy to achieve; you could say it's something you can only hope for, not something you can force.
Moreover, not all couples who are friends are suited for intimacy. Some couples get along very well, are kindred spirits, and feel like they've known each other forever. But once intimacy occurs, it's not pleasant, and
may even ruin this beautiful relationship. In fact, those with experience in couples making friends know that the most beautiful feeling comes from the process of getting to know each other. Couples who can enjoy this process without rushing into intimacy are truly psychologically mature.
And couples who can still understand and connect with each other after intimacy are truly happy.

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