My principles for making friends (repost)

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If you or someone who is open to dating, please carefully read the following requirements. If you believe you meet our requirements, we can try to communicate slowly and honestly to find common ground. If you don't meet them, there's no need to continue contacting each other, as we don't want meaningless and fruitless chatter to avoid wasting each other's time. Everything has rules, and we hope everyone is sincere, friendly, and abides by them. Only genuine and sincere people create and follow rules; those who lack sincerity trample on them. Playing the dating game without following the rules will only lead to endless trouble.
If you dislike or disregard rules, please look elsewhere. I never deal with people who break the rules. Please understand, and I wish you good luck in finding your own happiness!
1. Must have a college degree or above. I find it hard to imagine good communication with a couple lacking cultural literacy.
2. Must be a white-collar worker or above with a formal job. I do not associate with unemployed people, petty criminals, or migrant workers. I don't discriminate against anyone, but I feel insecure dating these three types of couples or single men.
3. I require the man to be bald, healthy in body and complexion, and have a decent appearance and demeanor. I strongly dislike slovenly men and women who are unkempt and don't care about their appearance.
4. I require the man to be between 35 and 55 years old. The man's height should be between 170cm and 180cm, and his weight between 120 and 165 kg. The woman's height should be between 158cm and 170cm, and her weight between 90 and 125 kg.
[Therefore, those who pride themselves on being skinny will have to look elsewhere, as my husband and I don't agree with the idea that skinny is beautiful, haha.]
5. We are looking for couples to meet, but single men are also acceptable.
6. There are all sorts of people online, and a friend of mine had a bad experience where a single man stole her bag, phone, and other valuables while she was showering. Therefore, for personal safety reasons, please refrain from asking to meet up with strangers online. Because I do not accept invitations for one-on-one dates from men who have not had any real-life interactions with my spouse. However, I will consider accepting one-on-one invitations from men with whom my spouse and I have already had real-life interactions, provided that my husband is unavailable. This is the bottom line of our agreement.
7. We do not want to associate with people who live too far away and are only looking for casual online chats for wishful thinking, as there is no real meaning to such interactions, and we do not want to engage in meaningless and fruitless idle chatter. We generally do not accept single men from the same city, because we are afraid of encountering people of low character who may cause harassment and future troubles in our lives. Therefore, we prioritize making friends in the areas surrounding Anqing, Tongling, and Wuhu. We are looking for excellent couples with whom we can have long-term relationships and frequent meetings.
8. We require the other party to have excellent physical characteristics, elegant skills, be rugged but not rude, wild but not thuggish; have endurance, be cultured, sincere, honest, and friendly; be able to understand women's feelings, appreciate romance, and be good at creating atmosphere. I strongly dislike men who are dull-witted and rarely utter a word. Ideally, the other person should have experience with swapping and threesomes, as this facilitates communication. It's difficult to communicate with someone who lacks experience, and I have no interest in answering their endless questions or instructing them on what to do or not to do.
[Also, let me clarify: I don't engage in pornography or SM games. Other than these two points, any other form of sex is fine.]
9. Men should be generous, not stingy. If you can't even afford basic necessities and live a meager life, then you shouldn't be out socializing. Save your travel and hotel expenses for a comfortable life. As the saying goes, "When people are well-fed and warm, they think of sex," but I despise men who spend lavishly on women. Such nouveau riche men are the least cultured and least secure. I'm not a prostitute, and I'm not short of money. There's no need for you to flaunt your wealth in front of me like a nouveau riche. I greatly admire and respect men who are generous without being extravagant, and frugal without being stingy. 10. We strongly dislike those who don't communicate beforehand, only make last-minute arrangements, and impulsively message someone to arrange a meeting. These are the most tasteless men, and we have no respect for them. Humans aren't animals; we need connection, especially in romantic relationships. That connection comes from frequent, honest, friendly, and humorous communication beforehand. If you struggle to communicate even online, if you can't find the right feeling or reason to meet, what's the point of a forced meeting? Many couples complain about unsuccessful online relationships, saying they didn't feel good afterward—that's treating themselves like animals. Meeting someone without honest and friendly communication, without understanding their personality or habits, without even seeing their photos or videos, and not knowing what they look like—is like mating with an animal. How can there be any connection?! For me, let alone sex, even sitting together for tea would be incredibly awkward and uncomfortable. Therefore, we never accept invitations to meet without prior communication and understanding. Unlike some couples who agree to meet, travel a long way to invite each other for dinner or tea, only to find they have no feelings for each other and then make excuses like being on their period, standing each other up—why didn't they do that earlier?! Why not communicate beforehand beforehand?! It makes the other person come all the way excitedly, only to leave disappointed. When we meet, we don't feel awkward or uncomfortable; we interact easily and happily like old friends, both of us eager to get closer and embrace each other. This makes the other person come with passion and leave with reluctance. That's because we value frequent, honest, friendly, and humorous communication beforehand. Therefore, our friendships are always very successful. We never engage in one-night stands or casual sex; we become close friends with those we've met, staying in touch and meeting up frequently.
11. Couples who meet the above requirements, if sincere, please send a recent, clear full-body photo. As a reciprocal gesture, I will also send you a real photo. Then, both parties can arrange a time for video verification before deciding on further communication. [Video verification can only be done on weekends or evenings. Other times are not suitable for video calls at work.] Once a relationship is established, especially for single men seeking friendship, please communicate more with my husband at appropriate times. I hope you men can become friends and buddies. I cannot imagine how awkward and unpleasant it would be for two men to hang out if they don't communicate well or are even strangers. Only when men are harmonious can there be a good process and atmosphere. Because our friendship is not primarily about sexual satisfaction, but rather seeking a sense of passion and excitement, when I see my beloved husband or wife intimately with someone else, my psychological and physiological feelings already exceed my sexual needs. If it were merely about seeking physical satisfaction, I wouldn't need an exchange; my husband can fully satisfy me. Although we have been married for 25 years, it doesn't prevent us from pursuing and yearning for another realm of humanity. With stable jobs and growing children, many young and middle-aged couples today crave a higher quality of life. While family bonds strengthen, passion gradually fades. Couples know each other too well, losing the initial freshness and mystery. A sense of aesthetic fatigue sets in intimacy and marriage. Therefore, we chose to reflect on and address these signs of fatigue and boredom, seeking to reclaim what has been lost… Our relationship is great! Couples with strained relationships only fight their own battles! They will never share the most beautiful things in life… We need a different level of understanding, one that can only be truly appreciated through personal experience.
12. We hope our partners will abide by the rules, strictly distinguishing between love and friendship, lovers and husbands, and sex and love, without affecting each other's lives and families. Although we haven't been dating for long, through communication, we've met and interacted with many excellent couples. We never engage in one-night stands or casual sex; those we've actually dated have become good friends, and we stay in touch. Therefore, we highly value character, sincerity, and friendliness, especially a positive mindset in our interactions.
Finally, I need to clarify that this article is not my original work, but the feelings expressed in it resonate very strongly with my spouse and me. I simply made appropriate modifications based on our requests. If the original author sees this, please accept my gratitude for expressing what we wanted to say. Furthermore, I hope you won't blame me for using your copyright without your permission.

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