(Forwarded from: We accept single men, what can you offer?)

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It seems many single men are complaining these days, and I understand the awkward situation. Many couples explicitly state "No single men please," and if we accept a single man but then impose various conditions, his chances seem very slim. In my opinion, if a single man is just complaining, his chances are even slimmer. For couples seeking single men, the first thing single men need to understand is that these couples must have a very good relationship. And to take the first step, you must recognize a crucial premise: in this kind of friendship, the wife usually takes the lead. That is, whether a couple will meet you and become friends is not up to the husband, but the wife. I think most single men have experience chatting with female netizens online. Are these single women the type to go to a hotel after just a few words? Yes, but definitely not the majority, especially considering these are already happily married women. In this kind of friendship, the husband usually vets the woman first. If he thinks she's suitable or they get along well, then the wife will step in. Of course, some wives are very proactive, but that depends on the single man's luck. For single men seeking friends with married couples, the second key point is crucial: Remember the conditions the couple specifies for making friends. These conditions, often set by the wife, directly impact the outcome. If you can't meet them, it's best not to add them. Third, treat married couples, especially the wife, with the same mindset you'd have when pursuing a new girl, not for sex or excitement. As the saying goes, men are driven by their lower instincts (emotions), while women are driven by their upper instincts (reasons). Besides the mystery and excitement of a stranger, a crucial factor for the wife is the feeling of being pampered and cherished that her husband hasn't given her in a long time. Fourth, not all couples participating in the friend-making event are as promiscuous or open as you might imagine. Respecting their habits is important. Fifth, if the couple accepts your friend request, the single man has a significant advantage. Remember, the reality is that supply exceeds demand. If you don't actively seek out the couple and then hide away looking at their photos, you'll likely be removed from their friend list. Since the couple accepted your application, it means they have initially approved of you. You can confidently greet them more often; even without chatting, the more you say hello, the better. Sixthly, regarding the most basic element of sincerity. Many single men claim to be sincere, and we don't know for sure, but at least one thing is certain: before getting to know you better, the completeness of your information will be the most direct standard for judging your sincerity. If you don't even have your most basic information, how can you claim sincerity? Where are you from? How old are you? A basic self-introduction? If you don't even have these, and the couple is afraid of running into acquaintances and won't even let you video chat first, where is your sincerity? In words? Furthermore, if you just glance at the couple's photos, blogs, and status updates each time you visit, leaving a comment, is that sincerity? Couples may be hypocritical, but aren't single men the same? Their purpose is simply to add the couple as a friend and admire their photos, nothing more. Seventhly, if things go smoothly and you meet in person, single men, please prepare a small gift for your wives. The first impression online is important, but the real-life impression is even more crucial, determining the final outcome. The gift doesn't need to be expensive, but it's a token of affection, conveying sincerity and warmth, and serving as a bridge from the virtual world to reality. So, I want to say that we accept single men and are also looking for suitable single men, but single men, can you meet our criteria? Indeed, some single men lack manners these days. No chatting, no communication, straight to the point. "Can we play together?" "When can we play together?" "Look at my big penis!" Women need respect. Don't you know how to make a woman happy? How can you survive in society if you don't understand basic etiquette? As a husband, it's very difficult. You brainwash your wife every day. After much effort, your wife finally agrees. But the single man doesn't perform well on the first meeting. The husband loses face completely. Sigh...

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