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First, let's talk about the classification of threesomes. Based on the gender of the participants, we naturally divide them into two types: one man and two women, and two men and one woman. However, in the one-man-two-woman type, the man is more likely to ejaculate due to excessive stimulation. Generally, after ejaculation, men need a period of time to recover, but by then the women's desire has already been aroused, and they may not have reached orgasm yet, which is unfair to the wife. Medical research shows that sexual intercourse is most pleasurable when both partners reach orgasm. Therefore, whether it's a threesome or group sex, most people consider combinations with more men than women. The two-man-one-woman type is therefore more stimulating than the previous one. In fact, the two-man-one-woman type avoids many of the disadvantages mentioned above. The wife's orgasm can be continuous, and after orgasm and ejaculation, the man watching another live performance of erotic scenes, especially the husband seeing other men's semen flowing from his wife's vagina, will quickly regain his desire and be able to resume sexual activity. Furthermore, after orgasm and ejaculation, the man's sensitivity decreases, allowing him to last longer.
Numerous studies have shown that the average woman needs at least three to five orgasms during a single sexual encounter to achieve satisfaction, and even after achieving satisfaction, she can continue sexual activity. Generally healthy women can tolerate dozens of rounds of passionate sex in a single day and maintain orgasms throughout. Women also have the significant advantage of being able to engage in sexual intercourse, masturbation, oral sex, and other forms of intercourse with multiple men simultaneously. Furthermore, women have far more erogenous zones than men, often leading to a lack of focus when a man is having sex with a woman. The presence of a third party can enhance a woman's satisfaction. For example, while one man is penetrating his wife, another can caress her breasts or kiss her. If penile sensitivity decreases during the second round, the wife can perform oral sex to maintain arousal. Ideally, all three should participate fully in a threesome, ensuring no one is left out. However, is having more men always better? Research reports indicate that, with very few exceptional cases, having sex with two to three men is actually the limit of what women can accept; any more than that might feel like gang rape to most women. Regarding women's attitudes towards threesomes, we can divide them into two categories: unmarried and married. Unmarried women engage in threesomes out of curiosity, playfulness, or a desire for excitement; they often do so with their boyfriend's friends, or out of a desire to be ahead of the curve, for money, or simply to have some fun with strangers. For married women, while their motivations also include many of the above, they need to consider more factors. More progressive women might ask their husbands to participate in threesomes, but due to societal constraints, it's mostly the men who make the requests.
In fact, the vast majority of those who enjoy watching others have sex are men, and given that everyone experiences jealousy to some extent, it's easier for a wife to accept a husband suggesting a threesome with another man than with another woman. This is another reason why threesomes with two men and one woman are relatively popular. On the other hand, a threesome can involve three unmarried individuals or a married couple with one other person, but the significance of these two sexual activities differs greatly. If all three are unmarried, the excitement and stimulation for each individual will be significantly reduced. This is because the activity merely involves intercourse, full exposure of each person's body, demonstration of their sexual abilities, and a certain degree of curiosity. The only difference is the addition of another person; no one bears any responsibility, and there is little special excitement or stimulation, similar to regular sex. However, if a married couple participates in a threesome, the situation is very different. In addition to the above, this sexual behavior also includes elements of voyeurism, extramarital affairs, and infidelity. It represents a transgression that challenges social and familial moral responsibilities, and reflects the couple's sexual attitudes and sexual openness. If the other participant is male, watching his wife have sex with another man allows the husband to better understand his wife's sexual experience and also tests her feelings towards him, sex, and achieving extramarital orgasm. All of these factors make it appealing to many married couples, including myself. Therefore, this is the true form of 3P sexual activity.
In fact, for couples married for many years, the longer they are together, the stronger their bond becomes, but the passion fades. Although they are still very loving, the passion between them is not what it used to be. If they want to rekindle their desire, they might try some new sexual activities—a 3P is an excellent choice. It is especially important to remind husbands who want to engage in 3P to pay attention to their wives' wishes and obtain their consent. This is an opportunity to show both your love and respect for her. Convincing your wife to participate in a threesome requires some skill, but remember not to use overt deception or manipulation. Generally, you can subtly ask her if she's still unsatisfied after one or two encounters, then express your love for her and your desire for her satisfaction. Depending on the situation, you can then suggest finding her a man, provided you're present, while assuring her you're generous and won't be jealous. You can also find articles about threesomes; descriptions of sexual sensations and exciting moments can influence her emotions. While convincing your wife to participate in a threesome may take some effort, since it's the man's suggestion, her main concerns will likely be safety and health. If you can address these two points, most open-minded women will be interested. The most important first step is to work together to overcome psychological and emotional pressure, choosing a relaxed, natural, and gradual approach, letting things unfold naturally. Moreover, once your wife has experienced one or two orgasms in a threesome, she will enjoy sex even more. Many women who were previously frigid have experienced orgasm for the first time after engaging in threesomes, gaining confidence in their sex life and even starting to actively seek out threesomes with their husbands. Some husbands have also observed other women's techniques and found themselves more satisfied with their wives. Besides safety and health considerations mentioned above, it's important to ensure that threesomes don't disrupt the family. Therefore, it's generally advisable for one couple to participate with a stranger, so that separation won't affect either partner's life or family. If the man is married, both wives can take turns experiencing the pleasure of a threesome. Furthermore, it's best not to maintain this relationship with the same person for more than six months. This helps maintain novelty and allows for exchanging experiences with more sexually experienced individuals; this should be discussed before choosing a partner. If you are a couple new to threesomes, having an experienced man guide you is ideal. You should also pay attention to your schedules, location, and whether your wives' safe periods are compatible. It's important to note that threesomes can sometimes be very passionate. During these encounters, using condoms for contraception or disease prevention isn't always a safe method. In a full threesome, each man may ejaculate two to three times. In moments of extreme excitement, the penis's transition from de-erection to re-erection, and the process of changing condoms, greatly increases the likelihood of semen contaminating or leaking onto the new condom. There are also numerous cases of condoms breaking during threesomes. Therefore, strictly selecting sexual partners and accurately calculating the wife's fertile window is more crucial than using condoms for disease prevention or contraception.
In fact, many couples, in the heat of the moment, may allow their partners to freely thrust inside the wife's vagina, even to the point of ejaculation, after an "unintentional slip-up." Therefore, I recommend using the currently popular liquid condoms. They provide contraception, lubrication, and rapid killing of various STIs. Using them eliminates the need for a condom, creating a more realistic experience and increasing sexual stimulation. The frequency of threesomes can vary from person to person; personally, I recommend about once a month. In addition, one should try to maintain this relationship with only one partner at a time to avoid complications and also to prevent disease.
After you've decided on your partners... going straight to a hotel for your first time? How awkward! Playing some games or engaging in some interactive activities will make you both more comfortable. Go shopping together and sit in a coffee shop chatting, finding topics to lighten the mood while subtly anticipating the adventure to come. Or, the three of you can have a meal together, chat, play a fun sport, or go on an outdoor trip to get to know each other better. Husbands, try to let your wives share with your partners, allowing them to feel comfortable and happy. If possible, you can even subtly suggest some playful gestures between your wives or partners. You'll be delighted to see your wife blushing as she holds hands with a man you don't know very well. More importantly, you'll be conveying your wife's desires and preferences to a stranger. If the interaction goes well, you'll both sense a subtle, ambiguous relationship brewing. Since you've decided to travel together, don't be stingy with your partner; let others share as much as possible. Alcohol can enhance the experience. Even if you're a teetotaler, try a light and smooth champagne or red wine. A slight flush on your cheeks is enough; don't get drunk. While drinking, play some flirtatious games, like drinking games or striptease. A good atmosphere is key to enhancing the fun of a threesome.
After an hour or two of drinking and chatting, the effects of the alcohol begin to wear off. When you feel a slight flush on your cheeks, it's when a woman is most sensual. At this moment, you can embrace your wife and let your partner caress her body from behind through her clothes, reducing any potential awkwardness later. Your partner should get ready. He should get up and leave, ideally taking a shower alone. The preparation depends heavily on the husband's ability and performance. Creating this atmosphere isn't easy. It's best if the wife and husband shower together, naturally setting the stage for sex. When showering, the wife must wash her hair, but not completely dry it; leaving it about 70% dry is more attractive. She should use a plant-scented shampoo instead of regular shampoo. She should also use a special body wash with a natural fragrance to wash her body, leaving her skin clean, smooth, and fragrant. Before showering, she must urinate and defecate, and ideally, use a special vaginal wash to thoroughly cleanse the vagina and eliminate any possible odors. Many women neglect to clean their anus; a simple method is to apply soap to your ring finger and repeatedly rotate and thrust it inside the anus to clean it (or you can use a smooth, clean cotton ball soaked in soap). (Wrap soap around your fingers and insert them as far as possible until they are odorless. Then apply a lubricating cream or lotion to the anus. This will not only clean and lubricate but also leave a pleasant fragrance. Do not spray too much perfume on the genitals, and never spray perfume inside the vagina, as some men are particularly sensitive to the smell of perfume, and some may even vomit from the strong scent. Furthermore, the strong perfume combined with the smell of vaginal fluid will create an even more unpleasant odor. Therefore, apply a small amount of perfume to the pubic hair and perineum with your fingers.) First, arouse your wife's desire. This is best done with just the two of you.
When your wife is fresh from her bath, like a lotus emerging from water, and wearing sexy lingerie, coupled with the caresses and teasing between you and your husband in the bathroom, the moment you return to a three-person relationship, she will be incredibly alluring. Both of you should continue this intimate behavior; it's a signal and a way of publicly arousing. By this time, your partner should be at their wit's end, and it's time to take over. When a woman's desire is aroused, her psychological defenses are at their most vulnerable. When embracing and kissing each other, besides deep kisses where the tongues penetrate each other's mouths, most women enjoy the man licking and kissing their neck, earlobes, and breasts. Several areas on a woman's upper body are also highly sensitive and best suited for caressing during a threesome: the ears, armpits, collarbone area, inner thighs, toes, and lower abdomen. Threesomes always begin with the wife's upper body. The wife lies on the bed with her upper body exposed and relaxed, eyes closed. The husband lies face down on her upper body, gently licking her lips. The wife's beautiful lower body is then fully exposed to a stranger. The partner then uses his lips to slowly move upwards from the wife's calves. The men placed their wives' arms flat above their heads, each grasping one arm. This created a sense of control and aggression, while the wives felt controlled and violated. The two men then began licking and kissing her armpits, their tongues sliding from the armpits down to her arms and ribs. This rough posture was imbued with tenderness, and the intent of rape was filled with warmth. The two men continued to caress and kiss her breasts from either side. Directly sucking on the nipples was foolish; one must slowly tease her to arouse a stronger desire. A simple method was to "attack from both sides," gently sliding fingers along the edges of her breasts while their tongues licked from her cleavage. When her hands began to caress the men's heads, one on each side, it was precisely at this moment that she desperately needed to kiss her nipples. At this instant, the woman felt a surge of desire to conquer the men. Watching the two men, like children, kneeling on the floor and licking her nipples, this visual impact was far more ecstatic for the woman than simply enjoying the breast stimulation with her eyes closed. The above-mentioned double tongue and lip technique can also be applied to the wife's inner thighs and legs; unlike licking and kissing her upper body, this time you can use a different method, that is, two men's mouths simultaneously licking and kissing one of her legs. Most women who have had this experience find it more stimulating than simply stroking and kissing their thighs. Remove her underwear, spread her legs, and attack her clitoris; first, let her mysterious vulva naturally appear before the strange man to arouse her desire; this step should be done by her husband. After calmly completing this step, then let the strange man do the rest of the wife's work. To eliminate the wife's shyness and tension, the husband should ideally lie on top of her, holding her tightly in his arms, stroking her hair with one hand and her breasts with the other, while kissing her lips. This will give her a sense of security, and her body will naturally relax, opening the door for the strange man's attack. Licking the vagina is the most stimulating and arousing activity in a threesome. It involves not only licking with the tongue but also sucking with the mouth, sucking the wife's clitoris and vaginal opening. This provides women with immense pleasure and stimulation. The best position for men to perform oral sex is as follows: One man is below the woman in a 69 position, with pillows or blankets placed under his head and buttocks to elevate them. This position is common and will not be elaborated upon here. The other man should lie flat in front of the first man, with his legs spread and resting on top of the first man's legs, his penis pressed tightly against the second man's penis. The closer the two penises are, the better. Having two erect penises in front of the wife creates a strong visual impact, and she will involuntarily grasp both penises. It's worth noting that the husband should ideally be positioned below the wife, with the other man lying on his back facing her. Since the wife's back is to the husband, he cannot see her face, reducing psychological pressure for both men. The wife's body also blocks the view of both men, minimizing awkward situations where they face each other.
When a wife is performing oral sex on two men, she should avoid spending too much time on one and neglecting the other. Men have strong self-esteem during sex, but can also be quite vulnerable. It's important to share fairly and treat both men equally. Even when kissing one penis, don't forget to use your other hand to stimulate the other man's penis. The wife can hold one penis in each hand for close comparison and appreciation, or press both erect penises together and lick them simultaneously with her tongue. She can also hold both glans together in her mouth and rotate her tongue around them, or rub both penises while sliding her tongue between them. Men don't like it when a woman intentionally spits out saliva during oral sex. Even if she doesn't like the taste of the man's vaginal fluid, she can let the saliva in her mouth flow naturally onto the man's penis. Since the wife is above the two penises, a slight opening of her mouth will allow the saliva to flow naturally to the lower part of the penis, which is both elegant and pleasing to both. In threesomes, it's common for one man to penetrate the vagina while the other penetrates the mouth. For true threesome enthusiasts, the husband can find immense satisfaction in stroking his wife's hair, watching her excited expression as another man penetrates her, and listening to her moans and groans. If she's a woman who dislikes the taste of semen and never accepts her husband ejaculating in her mouth, this is the perfect opportunity. He can ride on her chest, masturbating with his penis in her mouth. As she approaches orgasm, he can command her to open her mouth and stick out her tongue, ejaculating freely into her mouth. Rest assured, at this moment, she will be exceptionally cooperative. Even the gentlest, most virtuous, and conservative woman loses her willpower and becomes mentally confused once her vagina is penetrated and stimulated. Her mind goes blank. During normal sexual intercourse, when the wife performs oral sex on her husband, her mind is clearer and more rational because her vagina doesn't receive strong stimulation, allowing her to exercise self-control. Unless she also strongly enjoys oral sex and doesn't mind the taste of semen, it's very difficult for a wife to accept ejaculation in her mouth. If you enjoy watching strange men ejaculate into her mouth, simply switch roles. If two men ejaculate into her mouth separately, remember that they should coordinate well. Regardless of who ejaculates first, the wife's vagina should ideally be under intense impact. Two penises in one vagina is one of the most popular positions for women in a threesome. The position involves one man lying on his back, the wife on top of him, inserting his penis into her vagina, and another man inserting from behind. Alternatively, the wife can lie on her side, with the men attacking from different directions, but both penises are thrusting into the same spot. This position usually allows the wife to achieve multiple orgasms. There are several methods, one of which is alternating insertion. The wife takes the initiative; with a slight lift of her buttocks, the penis pressing down on her will naturally withdraw, allowing the man behind her to insert from behind. As she moves down further, the penis behind her is withdrawn and then given to the penis below. Each penis should ideally be inserted for less than half a minute; too long and one man will ejaculate, which is not fun. Of course, this shouldn't be done mechanically. If you feel a sudden, intense thrusting from one penis, this is a sign of impending orgasm; you should stop the thrusting and immediately withdraw it to give the other penis to thrust into. This allows the wife to be thrust into continuously for a longer period, extending the duration of intercourse and giving the men time to rest and prevent premature ejaculation, creating multiple orgasms for the wife. If your wife is also clitoral orgasm-oriented, try having one penis stimulate her clitoris while the other is being inserted into her vagina. Stimulating the clitoris with the glans of the penis is often more pleasurable than manual stimulation, and might even lead to another clitoral orgasm. While the lower penis is penetrating, the lower penis can rub against her buttocks, and simultaneously touching her anus or playfully slapping her buttocks can also provide intense stimulation. Your wife should cooperate closely, adjusting her position to make penetration easier. Don't flinch or pull away if you feel pain; this is a once-in-a-lifetime experience! When her moans turn into screams, you're cheering her on. When both penises are vying to ejaculate onto her cervix, wife, ascend to heaven! For the husband, seeing his wife's breasts and thighs caressed and kissed by other men, hearing her moaning and screaming with ecstasy beneath other men's bodies, allowing her to ecstatically enjoy the orgasms bestowed upon her by strangers; for the wife, gazing longingly at her husband nestled beside her as a strange penis thrusts and pumps wildly into her vagina until it ejaculates its wild, pungent semen deep within her, or until it withdraws, still dripping with semen, leaving her trembling vagina unsatisfied, giving her husband another round of orgasms— It's a feeling that's both stimulating and exciting, with a touch of bittersweetness... After two or three rounds, the wife, experiencing multiple orgasms, won't care or even be able to distinguish whether she's having sex with her husband or a stranger. Meanwhile, for the other sexual partner, besides enjoying a series of realistic pornographic films, they can also experience and share the most genuine and passionate sex between you and your husband. Furthermore, a woman, completely captivated, hopes you'll continue to excite her and give her orgasms after watching her live sex show. At this point, the husband must be open-minded and allow the other man to take good care of his wife. Don't just focus on your own excitement and stimulation; ensure your invited partner feels satisfied and happy, and most importantly, make your wife joyful. The wife should also let go of her inhibitions and boldly enjoy the orgasms her husband brings her along with the other man. After the battle, the wife should lie between the two men, placing her hands on their penises—that's the greatest encouragement for them. If you want to continue for a few more days, then the second day will be your most exciting. Having laid the groundwork on the first day, you'll be able to talk about anything and everything on the second day, making the games even more thrilling. For example, during dinner, have your wife take off her underwear under the table. You've probably never experienced sitting with a woman who isn't wearing underwear before, have you? You can also pretend to pick something up from the floor and secretly peek under your wife's skirt. Alternatively, you can choose to have a threesome in a movie theater or a secluded place. In that case, it can only be one person at a time, and if you're worried about being seen, the two men can take turns keeping watch. You can also choose to play in a karaoke bar. Your wife will feel like she's a prostitute, and at this time, she should let go of all inhibitions and be a real prostitute—it's a unique kind of thrill. For a woman, youth lasts only two or three decades; after forty, the vigor fades. A man who truly cherishes a woman, whether as a husband or partner, must understand this pain. Remember, the protagonist of a threesome is the woman; it's about her enjoying life as the leading lady, not just the man's satisfaction! More importantly, both partners and the partner should view the threesome as a sexual relationship involving three people. While this relationship may not last, and is not recommended to last, all three should experience pleasure, not just the release of lust. A word of caution to couples trying threesomes for the first time: many things can happen, so don't expect great pleasure on your first try. If your first time was successful, congratulations! If it wasn't as good as you imagined, think back to your first sexual experience—it probably wasn't smooth sailing either. Since you've already had a first time, you should expect better next time and strive for improvement! We've discussed threesomes from various perspectives and offered our personal insights on things to keep in mind. Do you find these points acceptable? We welcome your comments and discussion.

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