Regarding 3P

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Publication Date: 2014-05-18 Author: 一代天骄111 Popularity: 167
This discussion can be divided into two categories: unmarried and married.
Unmarried women engaging in threesomes are driven by curiosity, playfulness, or a desire for excitement. They often do so with their boyfriend's friends, or sometimes to be ahead of the curve, for money, or simply to have some fun with strangers.
For married women, while their motivations for threesomes also include many of the above, they require more consideration. Avant-garde women may also request their husbands to engage in threesomes, but due to social morality, marital constraints, and other factors, although they may secretly desire sexual intercourse with two men simultaneously for greater and more intense pleasure and orgasm, they find it difficult to express their desires to their husbands. Therefore, it is mostly the husbands who make the requests to their wives.
In reality, the vast majority of those who enjoy watching others have sex are men. Coupled with the fact that women are more or less jealous, it's easier for a wife to accept a husband suggesting a threesome with another man than with another woman. This is another reason why threesomes involving two men and one woman are relatively popular.
Of course, this is determined by our social environment and not by any individual's fault. Everyone knows that China has a 5000-year-old tradition, so the national conditions and the quality of people's lives have determined that sexual activity in our country is not open. However, in recent years, there has been a significant change. Coastal open cities and metropolises, with economic openness and the progress of humanistic and social development, have become much more open about sex. The higher the level of education, the greater the degree of sexual openness. Currently in China, Beijing is the most open about sex, followed by Shenzhen, and the Yangtze River Delta region is also very open. In almost all large and medium-sized cities in China, there are small-scale couples' dating groups that engage in sexual activity and threesomes within a small circle. Furthermore, a considerable number of couples communicate online to exchange partners and engage in threesomes.
On the other hand, a threesome can involve three people who are not married, or it can be a married couple with one other person participating. However, the significance of these two types of sexual activity is very different. If all three are not married, the excitement and stimulation will be greatly reduced for each individual. This is because such a threesome is merely about completing intercourse, fully exposing each person's body, demonstrating their sexual abilities, and satisfying a certain curiosity. The only difference is the addition of one person, but no one bears any responsibility, and there is no special excitement or stimulation, similar to regular intercourse.
If a married couple participates in a threesome, the situation is very different. In addition to the above, this sexual behavior also includes elements of voyeurism, the husband's sexual experience and testing of his wife, extramarital sex, and infidelity. It involves transgressions that challenge social, familial, and moral responsibilities, and also reflects the couple's sexual attitudes and sexual openness, the woman's desire to achieve extramarital orgasm, and the woman's feelings about her husband's sexuality. If the other participant is male, watching his wife have sex with another man allows the husband to better understand his wife's sexual experience and also tests her feelings towards him, sex, and achieving extramarital orgasm, greatly enhancing mutual excitement and stimulation. All of these factors contribute to the popularity of this type of 3P activity among many married couples, including myself, and it's why many husbands love it and it's also enthusiastically embraced by women. Therefore, this is the true form of 3P activity.
In reality, for couples married for many years, while the bond may strengthen over time, the passion may fade. Although they may still be very loving, the passion between them is no longer what it once was. Sexual activity becomes merely a formality and a habit, lacking passion and pleasure. For a long time, to rekindle their desire, both partners rely more on new sexual activities—such as the use of sex toys.
Some couples use sex toys to increase novelty and excitement to improve the quality of their sex life, but frequent use can still lead to boredom. Some people turn their attention elsewhere, leading to prostitution or extramarital affairs, which often affects marital relationships and even the family. Some fantasize during sex, imagining their wives' breasts and buttocks being touched and kissed by other men, while the wives imagine their husbands as their ideal men, often celebrities, colleagues, or familiar men. Some open-minded couples directly engage in role-playing, with the husband directly playing the role of the wife's ideal man, a stranger's penis penetrating and ejaculating inside her vagina, and the wife moaning ecstatically beneath another man, passionately enjoying the orgasm of a man other than her husband. While this can produce excitement and pleasure, most people feel a sense of emptiness and bitterness afterward. This is a common phenomenon among Chinese couples. Given so many troubles and frustrations, why not try some new sexual experiences—a threesome is an excellent choice.
A special reminder to husbands considering threesomes: It's generally believed that men are more receptive to sexual activity outside of marriage. Since it's usually the husband who proposes a threesome, he should always obtain his wife's consent beforehand. Paying attention to her wishes demonstrates your love and respect. A man should consult his wife and obtain her consent; this shows your love, respect, and desire to give her more happiness and love.
How to persuade your wife to participate in a threesome requires some finesse! But remember, never use overt deception or manipulation. Generally, you can subtly ask her if she's still unsatisfied after one or two sexual encounters, expressing your love and desire for her satisfaction. Then, depending on the situation, you can suggest finding her another man, provided you are also present, so the two of you can participate together. Reassure her your sincerity and that you won't be jealous. You can also find more articles about *** experiences and descriptions of exciting 3P experiences, which will definitely influence her emotions. There might be many things worth learning from them. Most women, as long as they know their husbands are sincere and genuinely want to make them happy, and after you make various guarantees and ensure health, safety, and reliability, will generally agree and be willing to accept it.
Of course, persuading your wife to participate in a 3P might take some effort, because every wife, while secretly yearning for such an opportunity, will still have various doubts. So, the key is to eliminate her concerns. However, since it's the man who proposed it, and your wife knows you are sincere, her main concerns should be safety and health. If you can guarantee these two points, most open-minded women will be moved and readily accept.
For men, "it's not acceptable for men to have affairs while women are forbidden from having affairs." Loving her means making her happy and joyful, which of course includes being tolerant of her passionate experiences that don't affect the family. After experiencing these things, a woman can truly feel your love for her. She will cherish her husband even more than before, as if she wants to express gratitude and make amends.
Before this, my wife was rather indifferent in our sex life. Sometimes when I wanted to have sex with her at night, she would get annoyed. But since we started having threesomes, my wife has regained her passion for sex. No matter when, even in the middle of the night, she will be very tender towards me, showing great enthusiasm and responsiveness. Women actually crave to be appreciated by more men. Every woman longs for the love of other men and imagines sharing love with other men, receiving and enjoying the sexual pleasure of other men. Almost all women have had sexual fantasies of making love with other men, or while having sex with their husbands, imagining having sex with other men, enjoying their caresses and kisses, and indulging in the pleasure of intercourse in their arms. Being able to have the love of both a husband and a lover is a dream for many women, a desire that most women crave but cannot attain. But five thousand years of tradition have prevented women from doing anything out of line.
With societal development and the progress and changes in people's thoughts and values, women's sense of agency will become stronger, their social status will rise, their sexual awareness will be awakened, and their inner desire for sexual happiness will become increasingly intense. At this point, when a husband initiates a threesome, although some women may have various concerns due to not knowing their husband's true intentions, most wives will readily accept it once they know their husband's sincerity. The most important first step is to jointly overcome psychological and mental pressure, choosing a relaxed, natural, and gradual approach, letting things flow naturally. At this time, women should let go of their burdens and boldly enjoy the sexual pleasure their husbands bring them with other men.
For a woman, her youthful years are only a short two or three decades; after fifty, she may no longer have the energy. If a man truly cherishes his wife, he will certainly feel this bittersweet feeling. A threesome is not only about personal pleasure but also about giving your wife more care and giving her more opportunities and rights to enjoy a fulfilling life. For couples planning a threesome, the husband must be uninhibited and not be afraid of having someone else with his wife. It's not just about getting yourself excited and stimulating, but also about satisfying the inviter and ensuring your wife enjoys the passion and pleasure of a threesome. However, besides the safety, health, and reliability mentioned above, it's crucial to avoid disrupting the family. Therefore, it's generally advisable for one couple to participate with a stranger, so that separation won't affect either partner's life or family. If the man is married, both wives can take turns experiencing the threesome. Furthermore, it's best not to maintain this relationship with the same person for more than six months. This helps maintain freshness and allows for exchanging experiences with more sexually experienced individuals; this should be discussed beforehand. Therefore, it's better to have a stranger for a threesome because separation won't disrupt life or family, the stranger is unfamiliar with you, and they can come whenever needed. However, it's essential to research the person beforehand, ideally through communication, preferably online—convenient and safe. You can start by getting to know each other online, chatting frequently to understand each other's personalities and interests, and increasing mutual attraction. Once you both feel you've found your soulmate, you can take things to a deeper level, such as using video calls to bridge the gap, exchanging sexual experiences, and preparing yourself psychologically before arranging a threesome.
If you're a couple new to this, having an experienced man guide you is ideal. Moreover, after one or two experiences of multiple orgasms in a threesome, your wife will enjoy intercourse even more. Many women who were previously sexually frigid have experienced orgasm after trying a threesome, gaining confidence in their sex life and starting to actively seek out threesomes with their husbands. Some husbands have also observed other women's techniques, improving their own sexual skills and making their wives more satisfied.
It's also important to consider your schedules and locations, and whether your wife's safe period coincides with yours. We must be aware that threesomes can be very passionate, and using condoms for contraception or disease prevention during the act is not always the safest method. In a complete threesome, each man may ejaculate two to three times. Under extreme excitement, the penis's transition from de-erection to re-erection, and the process of changing condoms, greatly increases the possibility of semen contaminating or leaking onto the new condom. There are also numerous cases where condoms break during play. Therefore, strictly selecting sexual partners and accurately calculating the wife's fertile window is more important than using condoms for disease prevention or contraception.
In fact, many couples, in the heat of the moment, after an "unintentional slip-up," allow their partner to freely thrust inside the wife's vagina with an exposed penis, even to ejaculate. Therefore, using the currently popular liquid condoms is recommended. They provide contraception, lubrication, and rapid killing of various sexually transmitted infections. Using them eliminates the need for a condom, creating a more realistic experience and increasing stimulation through direct contact between the genitals.
The frequency of threesomes can vary from person to person; personally, I recommend about once a month. In addition, it's best to maintain this relationship with only one partner at a time, because after experiencing a threesome once, you'll have a certain understanding of each other's bodies and sexual responses. This will make future threesomes smoother, allowing for better cooperation and providing both novelty and excitement. Having the same sexual partner for a period of time also helps avoid complications and helps prevent diseases.

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