An exchange between a married couple and a single man.

page views:1 Publication date:2014-07-14

Hopefully, couples or single men who read this will improve their communication methods, and I wish everyone can find sexual happiness.
In this circle, everyone should adhere to the principles of honesty, respect, and understanding; I think everyone would agree on this. As a spouse, you often encounter some frustrating things. The following process will be described in alphabetical order; I hope you won't find it long-winded. Thank you. At the beginning, I encountered many single men, which often kept new couples busy. Some chats were pleasant, but most were unpleasant or had bad outcomes. A was an unmarried single man; I won't mention his age. After saying hello, he started bombarding me with questions: "Are you a couple? Is your wife pretty? Sexy?" "I really want to sleep with her, I'm hard." "Can I talk to her, even just a video call would be nice." "My penis is thick and big, it can last half an hour, how about that?"... Before you can even react, he starts swaying the screen or directly sending you a video request. If you close it, he continues. If you only say a few words or react slowly, he'll say, "Hurry up, is he there, bro?" He'll type several question marks in a row, as if he's desperate and needs something done immediately. B is also an unmarried single man from the south, 1300 kilometers away from us. His profile picture is very handsome and arrogant, with dyed blond hair and a cool demeanor. He speaks as if he's very wealthy, basically a rich second-generation. He said, "Hi, brother, I'm from ** city. Can we be friends?" I asked if he was a registered member of the forum. He said, "Yes, I added you guys through the forum." I said, "Could you introduce yourself to us?" He then retorted, "What kind of information do you need? Just ask me and I'll answer..." Folks, I think a single man should at least introduce himself to his partner. Couples are concerned with age, appearance, physique, location, experience, even weapon size and technique. One can observe a person's manners and cultivation from their speech. We're not looking for someone who's ready for sex right away; that doesn't meet the requirements of couples, at least we don't like that. I said, "Can't you introduce yourself properly?" This guy said, "Age 22, height 1...""75 meters tall, handsome, sunny, and healthy, I've been with many women, love to travel, have lovers in major cities across the country, know a lot of techniques, and guarantee your wife will be satisfied… I live quite far from you, but I can drive there and pay for everything, just for one time with your wife.” We expressed our concerns and displeasure, and remained silent for a while. This guy then said, “Are you even married? You're not just here for fun, are you?” He was implying, “What's wrong with you? I'm already like this, and you're still not satisfied?” C is a married single man from a nearby city, five years younger than us. After a brief conversation, we settled into a question-and-answer format. We were actually starting to get interested in him. I asked about his "weapon," and he said the size and performance in bed were above average. I asked if he could send me some pictures of it. He said he hadn't taken any, but he could take a few with his phone later. A while later, he actually sent me a few pictures, though not very clear, but it was an effort. I thanked him. He asked if I could see pictures of his wife. I said I had plenty of photos available online. He said he wanted to see pictures of her face, and honestly, I expressed considerable reservation. I said it wasn't convenient to show her face right now, but we could video chat sometime. He slightly expressed his dissatisfaction, saying he wanted to... They took a few photos as we asked during our chat, but now they won't even let us see our face photos. They're so stingy! I explained it was for security reasons and asked for their understanding, saying it really couldn't be done for the time being. The person immediately went offline. I was also very frustrated. When I got home that night, I went online on my phone and saw many friend requests. After accepting them all, C came online, but I didn't recognize him, didn't add a note, and our QQ chat history wasn't synced. He then continued chatting. I assumed we hadn't talked before, so I briefly repeated some topics I discussed with single men. Finally, I asked him if he had any photos. He immediately started cursing, saying things like, "What a piece of trash! You're not even open about yourselves when you're out having fun! I gave you the photos, what are you pretending for? I've seen plenty of people like you. You might as well have your wife sell herself..." Then he deleted me, and that was it. D is also a married single man, so he's been through a lot. He's almost the same age as us, and we don't live far apart. He's very respectful in his speech and knows how to introduce himself well. We had a pleasant chat, but eventually the topic of photos came up. Why do I keep emphasizing photos? As one of the spouses, especially the husband, we're the first to make the right choice. Nobody wants to meet someone they don't click with, or someone who has no sense of style or fun. He suggested a video call, so we started. But the video environment was very dark. I asked why he didn't turn on the lights, and he said it was inconvenient, worried his wife would see, and worried the kids wouldn't sleep well. He just leaned close to the faint light from his phone screen, barely managing to look more weathered than me. He didn't look very good. I said, "Then send me a few pictures." The photos were ready, and he said he never takes pictures. Seriously, who believes someone who never takes pictures? Do you believe it, folks? I certainly don't. Then this guy asked, "Did you see clearly? What do you think? Can we be friends?" I said, "You'd better send a few photos over. Our photos are on social media; you need at least a few, right? A few selfies with your phone would be fine too, it's very simple." He sent one, and I was shocked. Why? The person in the photo occupied a very small portion of the image, but looked very young. The background seemed to be a park, probably in spring or autumn. I said, "Did you send the wrong photo? Is this you?" He said he finally found one, a photo from his sophomore year of college. Fools, it's been 17 years since he graduated… E is a newlywed single man from the southeast. He said he's a civil servant working in a government agency. I've met him in our city before. He's a truly exceptional guy. Let me tell you his story. At the beginning of our chat, he said that because he's a civil servant, he could only send us one photo showing his face, but a few photos of his "weapons" (his penis), and no video calls. I expressed a little understanding; after all, we, as a married couple, are more concerned about privacy and security, aren't we? The chat was quite pleasant; he seemed like a well-mannered and cultured single man. Several days later, we arranged to meet on a Friday afternoon when he could drive to Puyang. We needed to wait for him to finish work before he drove over. We were quite nervous about meeting a single man for the first time and prepared a bit. When it was time to leave work, he sent a message saying he was leaving soon. I told him to be careful, and then said we would pick him up at the highway exit, then have dinner and karaoke together, and let things take their course. Five minutes later, he sent another message saying he couldn't find his ID card. I said it was okay, just bring your driver's license. After waiting a while, I pondered what he meant by that. What does this mean? These days, hotels require ID cards to check in. Is he doing this for his own safety by not using his own ID to register? And does he mean we should book the room and I should pay? To be honest, my enthusiasm was dampened. It felt very awkward. Anyway, we arrived at the highway to pick him up. We agreed to meet next to a white Citro?n Fukang. We looked through the car window first; since it was night and the lights weren't very bright, we could see it was him. I was very excited, but my sister-in-law looked more closely and said that the person seemed a little off. I asked what was wrong, and she said he didn't look like the person in the photo. Anyway, we immediately got out of the car and exchanged a few pleasantries. Fortunately, we had chatted before, so it didn't feel too awkward. I generously offered to let my sister-in-law ride in my car while I led the way to get something to eat. I asked him what he wanted to eat. He said something simple and quick, like KFC. Okay, let's hit the road. On the way, I texted my wife to ask how she felt. She replied that it was so-so. He didn't say much, just that he was also nervous and grateful, and he was driving very safely. I asked if we didn't talk about anything else. I was wondering what that single man was doing on the road... I was about to warm up with my wife when she said no. We arrived at the KFC near Chaodu. While parking, my wife found me and said the guy on the way there said he hadn't brought much money in a rush, and almost didn't even have enough for the toll. Haha, haha. Sigh, speechless. After entering, the guy went straight to the queue to order, even asking us what we wanted to eat. Luckily, my wife had told me beforehand, so I said, "You guys sit down first, I'll order whatever you want. I'll treat you when we get to Puyang." (Don't pretend you almost didn't even have enough for the toll; what if I really let you order and pay?) ("You really didn't bring enough money, kid?") The single man declined a few times before sitting down. Gentlemen, did you notice anything? I ordered three medium-sized drinks to quench my thirst, it's so hot. We chatted quietly for a bit about driving, and he mentioned he had acquaintances and relatives in Puyang who were high-ranking officials, suggesting I contact him if I needed anything. Hehehe, hehehe. I looked at him and said, "I feel like you look different from your photo, at least not in age." What I meant was that the single man sitting in front of us was a little sleazy. Dear friend, he said, "Same here." I said, "You look very neat and refined in the photo, even wearing glasses. Aren't you wearing glasses tonight?" He said, "Those are non-prescription glasses; I didn't wear them while driving tonight." Hmm! @! ￥. I said, "You look very young in the photo, around 25 years old." I didn't directly say he looked a bit older. Ladies and gentlemen, at that very moment, the single man claimed to be 26 years old and immediately pulled out his ID card! He said, "Brother, look at my ID card; it says my birth date!" @! ￥%￥… Fortunately, I have some self-restraint (a little self-praise), and didn't expose him on the spot. He mentioned he couldn't find his ID card. The cola was so boring. A little while later, my sister-in-law complained on WeChat, asking what I'd done, what kind of person had I found? Because it was my first time making a friend, because this young man had driven all the way here, and because of all the effort I'd put into planning this, I actually replied, "Wife, could you make do with this?" I was so stupid then, really. Looking back, I laugh at myself. So stupid, really. "I only knew that wild animals would come to the village when it snows because they have no food in the mountains; I didn't know they would come in spring too." I got up early, opened the door, filled a small basket with beans, and told our Ah Mao to sit on the doorstep and shell them…” A little while later, my wife received a phone call saying there was an emergency tonight and she had to leave immediately. Oh my god, is this a way to get out of trouble? My dear wife. Before I finished my medium-sized cup, I said, “Little brother, it’s really unfortunate. Your wife has an urgent matter to attend to tonight, I’m afraid… I’m sorry, would you like something else to eat?” The single man said, “It’s okay, you guys go ahead and do your business, we can meet up another day.” I drove that guy to the highway exit, this time with my wife in the same car. I said, “Should we give him some toll money?” Hehehe, hahaha. Laughter all the way washed away my unhappiness.E is a newlywed single man from the southeast. He said he's a civil servant working in a government agency. I've met him in our city before. He's a truly exceptional guy. Let me tell you his story. At the beginning of our chat, he said that because he's a civil servant, he could only send us a photo showing his face, but a few photos of his "weapons" (his penis), and no video calls. I expressed a little understanding; after all, we, as a married couple, are more concerned about privacy and security, aren't we? The chat was quite pleasant; he seemed like a well-mannered and cultured single man. Several days later, we arranged to meet on a Friday afternoon when he could drive to Puyang. We needed to wait for him to finish work before he drove over. We were quite nervous about meeting a single man for the first time and prepared a bit. When it was time to leave work, he sent a message saying he was leaving soon. I told him to be careful, and then said we would pick him up at the highway exit, then have dinner and karaoke together, and let things take their course. Five minutes later, he sent another message saying he couldn't find his ID card. I said it was okay, just bring your driver's license. After waiting a while, I wondered what he meant by that. These days, hotels require ID cards to check in. Was he perhaps using his own ID for his own safety, or was he suggesting we check in and he'd pay? Honestly, my initial enthusiasm was dampened. It felt very awkward. Anyway, we arrived at the highway to pick him up. We agreed to meet next to a white Citro?n Fukang. We looked through the car window; it was nighttime and the lights weren't very bright, but we could see it was him. I was so excited! My sister-in-law, however, was more observant and said something seemed off. I asked what, and she said he didn't look like the person in the photo. Regardless, we got out of the car and exchanged a few pleasantries. Luckily, we'd already chatted, so it wasn't too awkward. I generously offered to let my sister-in-law ride in my car while I led the way to grab a quick bite. I asked him what he wanted to eat. He said something simple and quick, like KFC. Okay, we hit the road. On the way, I texted my wife to ask how she was feeling. She replied that it was so-so. He didn't say much, just that he was nervous and grateful, and he was driving very safely. I asked if we had talked about anything else. I was hoping the single man and his wife could warm up a bit on the way, but he said no. We arrived at the KFC near Chaodu. While parking, my wife found me and said the single man had said he hadn't brought much money on the way, almost not even enough for the toll. Haha, haha. Sigh, speechless. After entering, the single man went straight to the queue to order, even asking us what we wanted to eat. Luckily, my wife had told me beforehand, so I said you guys sit down first, I'll order what you want, and I'll treat you when we get to Puyang (don't pretend you almost didn't even have enough for the toll, what if I really let you order and pay, what if you really didn't bring enough money, kid). The single man declined a bit and then sat down. Ladies and gentlemen, can you see anything? I ordered three medium drinks to quench my thirst, it's so hot. We chatted quietly about driving and other things, and he also said he had acquaintances and relatives in Puyang, including a high-ranking official, and that I could contact him if I needed anything. Hehehe, hehehe. I looked at him and said, "I feel like you look different from your photo, at least not in age." I meant the single man sitting in front of us was a little sleazy, folks. He said he looked the same. I said, "You look very clean-cut and refined in the photo, and you even wear glasses. Aren't you wearing glasses tonight?" He said they were non-prescription glasses, and he wasn't wearing them while driving. Hmm! @! ￥. I said, "You look very young in your photo, around 25 years old." I didn't directly say he looked a bit older. Ladies and gentlemen, at that moment, the single man claimed to be 26 years old and immediately pulled out his ID card! He said, "Brother, look at my ID card, my birth date!" @! ￥%￥… Luckily, I have some self-control (a little self-praise), and I didn't expose his claim of not being able to find his ID card on the spot. The cola was really boring. A while later, my sister-in-law complained on WeChat, "What's going on? What kind of person did you find me?" Considering the difficulty of making a first friend, the hard work this young man had put in driving all the way here, and the effort he'd put into planning this, I actually replied to him asking if my wife could make do with what he had. I was so stupid back then, really! Thinking back, I laugh at myself. So foolish, so incredibly foolish. "I only knew that when it snows, wild animals in the mountains have no food and will come to the village; I didn't know they would come in spring too. I got up early this morning, opened the door, filled a small basket with beans, and told our Ah Mao to sit on the doorstep and shell the beans..." A little while later, my wife received a phone call saying there was an emergency tonight and she had to leave immediately. Oh my god, is this considered a rescue? My dear wife. Before I finished my medium-sized cup, I said, "Little brother, it's really unfortunate, your wife has an urgent matter to attend to tonight, I'm afraid... I'm sorry, would you like something else to eat?" The single man said, "It's okay, you go ahead and do your business, we'll reschedule for another day." I dropped that kid off at the highway exit again. This time, my wife and I were in the same car. I joked that we should give him some toll money, haha. The laughter all the way washed away my unhappiness.E is a newlywed single man from the southeast. He said he's a civil servant working in a government agency. I've met him in our city before. He's a truly exceptional guy. Let me tell you his story. At the beginning of our chat, he said that because he's a civil servant, he could only send us a photo showing his face, but a few photos of his "weapons" (his penis), and no video calls. I expressed a little understanding; after all, we, as a married couple, are more concerned about privacy and security, aren't we? The chat was quite pleasant; he seemed like a well-mannered and cultured single man. Several days later, we arranged to meet on a Friday afternoon when he could drive to Puyang. We needed to wait for him to finish work before he drove over. We were quite nervous about meeting a single man for the first time and prepared a bit. When it was time to leave work, he sent a message saying he was leaving soon. I told him to be careful, and then said we would pick him up at the highway exit, then have dinner and karaoke together, and let things take their course. Five minutes later, he sent another message saying he couldn't find his ID card. I said it was okay, just bring your driver's license. After waiting a while, I wondered what he meant by that. These days, hotels require ID cards to check in. Was he perhaps using his own ID for his own safety, or was he suggesting we check in and he'd pay? Honestly, my initial enthusiasm was dampened. It felt very awkward. Anyway, we arrived at the highway to pick him up. We agreed to meet next to a white Citro?n Fukang. We looked through the car window; it was nighttime and the lights weren't very bright, but we could see it was him. I was so excited! My sister-in-law, however, was more observant and said something seemed off. I asked what, and she said he didn't look like the person in the photo. Regardless, we got out of the car and exchanged a few pleasantries. Luckily, we'd already chatted, so it wasn't too awkward. I generously offered to let my sister-in-law ride in my car while I led the way to grab a quick bite. I asked him what he wanted to eat. He said something simple and quick, like KFC. Okay, we hit the road. On the way, I texted my wife to ask how she was feeling. She replied that it was so-so. He didn't say much, just that he was nervous and grateful, and he was driving very safely. I asked if we had talked about anything else. I was hoping the single man and his wife could warm up a bit on the way, but he said no. We arrived at the KFC near Chaodu. While parking, my wife found me and said the single man had said he hadn't brought much money on the way, almost not even enough for the toll. Haha, haha. Sigh, speechless. After entering, the single man went straight to the queue to order, even asking us what we wanted to eat. Luckily, my wife had told me beforehand, so I said you guys sit down first, I'll order what you want, and I'll treat you when we get to Puyang (don't pretend you almost didn't even have enough for the toll, what if I really let you order and pay, what if you really didn't bring enough money, kid). The single man declined a bit and then sat down. Ladies and gentlemen, can you see anything? I ordered three medium drinks to quench my thirst, it's so hot. We chatted quietly about driving and other things, and he also said he had acquaintances and relatives in Puyang, including a high-ranking official, and that I could contact him if I needed anything. Hehehe, hehehe. I looked at him and said, "I feel like you look different from your photo, at least not in age." I meant the single man sitting in front of us was a little sleazy, folks. He said he looked the same. I said, "You look very clean-cut and refined in the photo, and you even wear glasses. Aren't you wearing glasses tonight?" He said they were non-prescription glasses, and he wasn't wearing them while driving. Hmm! @! ￥. I said, "You look very young in your photo, around 25 years old." I didn't directly say he looked a bit older. Ladies and gentlemen, at that moment, the single man claimed to be 26 years old and immediately pulled out his ID card! He said, "Brother, look at my ID card, my birth date!" @! ￥%￥… Luckily, I have some self-control (a little self-praise), and I didn't expose his claim of not being able to find his ID card on the spot. The cola was really boring. A while later, my sister-in-law complained on WeChat, "What's going on? What kind of person did you find me?" Considering the difficulty of making a first friend, the hard work this young man had put in driving all the way here, and the effort he'd put into planning this, I actually replied to him asking if my wife could make do with what he had. I was so stupid back then, really! Thinking back, I laugh at myself. So foolish, so incredibly foolish. "I only knew that when it snows, wild animals in the mountains have no food and will come to the village; I didn't know they would come in spring too. I got up early this morning, opened the door, filled a small basket with beans, and told our Ah Mao to sit on the doorstep and shell the beans..." A little while later, my wife received a phone call saying there was an emergency tonight and she had to leave immediately. Oh my god, is this considered a rescue? My dear wife. Before I finished my medium-sized cup, I said, "Little brother, it's really unfortunate, your wife has an urgent matter to attend to tonight, I'm afraid... I'm sorry, would you like something else to eat?" The single man said, "It's okay, you go ahead and do your business, we'll reschedule for another day." I dropped that kid off at the highway exit again. This time, my wife and I were in the same car. I joked that we should give him some toll money, haha. The laughter all the way washed away my unhappiness.

URL 1:https://www.sexlove5.com/htmlBlog/120420.html

URL 2:/Blog.aspx?id=120420&aspx=1

Last access time:

Previous Page : 24/170/120 Shenzhen young man seeking a mature woman for BDSM training; all expenses covered.

Next Page : My wife wants to see erotic comments.

增加

comment Open a new window to view comments

Contact Information

An exchange between a married couple and a single man.

comment Open a new window to view comments