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We've met many couples online and successfully guided several couples who wanted to try it for the first time into a passionate and intimate paradise, fulfilling their dreams. During this process, we also communicated online with other couples interested in trying it and discovered some noteworthy issues that we feel are necessary to discuss here.
First, there's the issue of motivation. Some husbands explicitly told me they just wanted excitement, to satisfy their sensory stimulation and curiosity, but when I asked if they had considered their wives' feelings, they couldn't say for sure; some simply said they agreed, while others were still trying to persuade them. I believe the motivation for couples engaging in group activities shouldn't be primarily for the man, but for the woman. In modern society, men can easily find pleasure by spending money, but women cannot. Therefore, our motivation and starting point should be to let our wives experience and enjoy the pleasure and excitement of group sex. Because we deeply love them, we want them to experience pleasure that most women don't. We are arranging a fun game for our wives; the participants are playmates or toys that we husbands have found for them. Therefore, the starting point must be for the wife, not for ourselves.
Once the issue of motivation is clear, let's discuss the issue of finding a partner. A significant number of netizens emphasized the importance of the other person's character and appearance, which I completely agree with. However, one point should be clear: the choice regarding appearance should rest with the wife. In other words, the wife should be the first to choose the husband, not the other person who immediately demands to see a picture of the wife, as some netizens have done. Only after the wife has chosen the husband can the husband consider whether he can accept the wife. Generally, if the wife is satisfied with the husband, the husband should, in principle, satisfy his wife's preferences, even if he is not entirely satisfied with the wife. This is because women are relatively more discerning and finding a suitable partner is not easy, while men are relatively easier
to find. Furthermore, the communication process is crucial. Some couples only have communication between the husbands, which is far from sufficient. The wife should be encouraged to communicate with the husband. Because a woman cannot accept a man based solely on appearance, especially on the first date, it's important for her to be psychologically accepting. Online communication is a process of heart-to-heart communication. Only when the wife is psychologically prepared can she truly experience physical release. Moreover, online communication truly reflects a person's character. This is very important!
Next, let's talk about persuading your wife. Many husbands have asked me to help persuade their wives, and I've agreed. Indeed, almost all of them have been convinced. What's the secret? It's not mysterious at all. The prerequisite is that you must be a truly loving couple. You just need to make your wife certain that you love her, that you want to try this game for her sake, and that it won't affect your relationship; on the contrary, it will deepen your bond.
Finally, let's talk about how to try it for the first time. First, it's not advisable to participate in group activities because there are many situations you can't control. Plus, it's your first time, so you'll naturally feel uneasy, making it impossible to fully enjoy the experience. If your wife has a bad experience, she shouldn't play again. The first time is usually two couples, ideally with one man your wife likes participating in a threesome. Some readers might not understand why a threesome is recommended for couples. There's a reason for this. A wife's psychology will be more complex for the first time. The key to success is to immerse her fully in the atmosphere of passion and desire, so it's crucial to get her focused on enjoying the pleasure. However, if two couples play together, it might objectively make her concerned about how her husband performs with other women, especially when she sees the other woman experiencing multiple orgasms under her husband. This would naturally arouse jealousy, causing her own sexual desire to vanish completely. That would be disastrous; such a failure would be devastating. Not only would she be unable to play again, but it could also leave a psychological scar. Threesomes objectively prevent this from happening. Once she experiences pleasure from such a game, even if she plays foursomes next time, she will look forward to experiencing that physical pleasure again and won't pay too much attention to her husband's performance. Choosing a partner for a threesome is also important. Never choose a boy who is too young, because young boys don't have much experience with foreplay and don't know how to be considerate of the woman and gently guide her to orgasm. Because of their good stamina, they might be eager to penetrate directly, which won't allow the woman to experience physical and psychological pleasure. Therefore, when choosing partners for a three-person game, it's best to select male friends of similar or even slightly older age. This may make the wife feel more secure and comfortable. As for a four-person game, I must remind you that the first time you play, it's best to avoid the swapping and separating format, as this can make the wife feel insecure. It should be two couples playing together, and at the beginning, the husband should hold his wife's hand tightly, kiss her frequently, and encourage her with encouraging eye contact, showing her that he loves her. This will give her the courage to continue playing.
The above is based on my experience and is offered for couples who are interested in trying it. Wishing everyone happiness and fulfillment!
How to find like-minded friends? If you are fortunate enough to find such friends, you should prepare to meet them. However, because it's the first meeting, many friends are often nervous and at a loss. Therefore, here are my simple thoughts. First,
what kind of mindset should you have?

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