My personal understanding of 3P

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As the title suggests, my wife and I are looking for a patient, single man who can withstand the test of time.
I've been posting this for a while now, and many excellent single men have added me; I'm grateful for everyone's "enthusiasm." To be precise, I first encountered 69 (a dating website) around the end of last year. When I first came to 69, I was quite shocked. I wanted to try it but was afraid it would affect my relationship with my wife. My wife and I are the type who can talk about anything. My wife saw that I watched 69 every day and was very excited and energetic every night. She asked me if I also wanted to find a man to have sex with like the couples on 69. I said yes without hesitation, but she had her concerns and reluctance. She's a relatively conservative woman but also willing to experience new things, which seems contradictory. Before we started dating, she was a very traditional woman. Although she had had sexual relations with other men, there was an emotional foundation, so I don't think it's contradictory. These days, which woman hasn't slept with a few men? So I think it's quite normal.
We got married this year. We lived together for two years before the wedding. To be honest, sexually, we weren't bored or lacking passion, but we weren't exactly passionate either; it was very ordinary yet fulfilling. Before the wedding, my wife finally agreed after my persistent pleading. I've seen many couples asking men for advice on how to "rekindle" their wives' passion, so I'll share my personal experience here. I didn't use any special methods; I just watched porn every night. I copied some videos with rich threesome storylines and sexy, beautiful female leads from colleagues and friends, and watched them occasionally. Secondly, during sex, I would control the intensity, and when she was close to climax, I would suddenly ask her: "Do you want to find another guy to have sex with you like that?"—using vulgar language. That was all!
Later, she told me that if I really wanted to try, she was willing to try it once, regardless of the outcome. She clearly stated her conditions: 1. She wanted someone a little older than us, roughly between 28 and 33 years old. If we could only start dating next year, that would be around 28 to 35 years old. 2. We hope single men will meet our appearance standards. In other words, please prepare a natural photo when adding us on QQ. Do not send artistic or photoshopped pictures; it must be genuine. 3. Married men or single men are preferred. My wife's point is this: married men who want to engage in activities with us (a married couple) must respect their wives. We will only engage in activities with their consent. She doesn't want to deceive them and finds it meaningless. A real man should stand up for himself. Single men are even better, as there are no psychological burdens. 4. We hope single men who want to engage in activities with us (a married couple) have clear intentions. It's simple: you want to sleep with my wife. We (a married couple) respect your wishes. For example, we can ask: How do you want to play? How do you need us (a married couple) to cooperate? The game is about mutual cooperation. We won't make you feel like a supporting character. Since we're playing, we'll play freely and won't make unreasonable demands. 5. Single men who add us must have good intentions. You need to understand your position and our position as a married couple. In short, it means not interfering with each other's lives before and after the game, and not disrupting each other's families. Let me add something. My wife is worried that being single might affect our relationship. To put it simply, flies don't land on a flawless spot; she just needs to focus on herself. If she encounters someone persistent, I'm not afraid; I have ways of dealing with them. 6. It's also good if someone can come to Yunnan and join our activities. I don't want to feel like we're very compatible, only to find out when we're discussing activities that you can't come to Yunnan. That would be very frustrating for me. Frankly, this means having a certain level of financial stability, being able to manage and plan your own time. I don't expect you to cover all the expenses, but at least as a single man, you should act like one, right? I personally don't think this is unreasonable. However, I'm a very sentimental person. As long as we get along, if you're really short on cash, you can cover your own travel expenses, but I can cover your food and lodging—it's a small matter. 7. Having a legitimate job and education. Having education doesn't mean you're superior; it just means we have a broader knowledge base and more topics to discuss, so my wife doesn't feel that the person in front of her is bad and makes her want to back off. 8. Positive, cheerful, and optimistic. After all, playing this game can be psychologically unsettling for everyone. This is a personal requirement. I think having a positive, cheerful, and optimistic single male friend not only warms up the atmosphere but also brings unexpected benefits. Furthermore, it reduces my wife's mental burden, since the psychological state of a hypothetical enemy is different from that of a real enemy.
Let me also introduce my husband and me. I've already written about it in a previous post, but I felt it wasn't comprehensive enough, so I'll give a broader overview to give single men a basic understanding.
I work as a secretary, and my wife is currently resting at home during her pregnancy. I can consider myself a semi-positive, cheerful, and optimistic man, but my psychological resilience is limited, hence the reluctance. I'm 26 years old, and my wife and I were classmates in junior high school. We hadn't dated before because she wasn't particularly outstanding back then, haha! Later in college, she blossomed into a beautiful young woman; as the saying goes, a girl changes a lot as she grows up, probably because she started dressing up. However, there's one downside: my wife's skin isn't great due to a past history of smoking and heavy drinking. Her skin is a bit rough, and she has some small pimples on her face. I'd personally rate her looks as an 8 out of 10. She loves wearing stockings, high heels, and short skirts. This creates opportunities for single men with a stocking fetish. Before pregnancy, her legs were quite slender, and now, at three months pregnant, she's gained a little weight, but not as much as you might imagine. I don't have many hobbies. I used to enjoy going to nightclubs, but as we've prepared for our marriage, I've gradually become less inclined to go to noisy places. In my free time, I'm either at the gym or playing games at home. I've been playing World of Warcraft for almost eight years. I'm a sentimental person and easily satisfied. I'm an art student, majoring in instrumental music. I dabbled in music for a while, but later I realized that life took precedence over art, and I didn't want to worry my parents anymore. I just went with the flow and continued working the job they arranged for me. I work as a secretary for many bosses. To put it bluntly, to any single guys looking to add me on social media, I want our conversations and activities to be completely honest. There's no need for useless or pretentious talk; I've seen far too many rich and powerful people. On the contrary, I haven't seen any of these people being frivolous. These days, I often see news reports of nouveau riche bullying ordinary people, and it breaks my heart to see such news. In my free time, I enjoy reading all sorts of books, but I rarely read novels. I mostly study traditional Chinese culture, Taoism, and Buddhism. My study of these isn't about feudal superstition; it's about learning how to conduct oneself and the laws of nature. Let me explain myself, and I hope single guys will carefully consider my thoughts. It's always better to know yourself and your options. I'm not purely a cuckold enthusiast. My idea of threesomes actually stems from pornography, not simply cuckoldry. Before I was with my wife, she had sexual relations with five men, not many times. To put it bluntly, it's all "quantity over quality." She was very shy during sex, not in a pretentious or innocent way, but genuinely shy. And there were many positions and actions she hadn't tried before. You could say I developed my wife myself; for that to work, her potential had to be there for it to be mutually beneficial. I have my own unique understanding of life. I believe that besides being positive, optimistic, and cheerful, one should also "seize the day" and try new things within one's limited abilities and psychological tolerance. There's no need to stick to the same old routine for years. To put it simply, I'm telling single guys, as long as you meet our requirements, we're willing to cooperate. And I mean, we're cooperating. You can boldly tell me your ideas and plans for having sex with other men's wives. As long as it doesn't affect our marriages and families, we're fully willing to cooperate. But I must mention one thing: you must have the qualities to "play"! These qualities manifest in many ways. Many single guys add me, and I block them after less than half an hour of chatting. The reasons are probably obvious to everyone. Let me reiterate: my wife is currently over three months pregnant, meaning it's impossible for her to be able to move around immediately; it will take time. As I clearly stated in the title, I'm looking for a patient, single man who can withstand the test of time to add me! It might take a year or two before we can move around. If you're patient, I certainly won't treat you unfairly. If you're not patient, please don't add me; let's not waste each other's time.
Let me tell you about my wife. She likes a bit of rough play during sex, like, frankly, a little bit like rape, but within limits. She told me she hopes to find someone who's manly but also a little horny. For example, someone with a stocking fetish, who can give oral sex, and who enjoys a bit of humiliation, but in a mild way, nothing too extreme. She also said that since we're both willing to try, the single man doesn't need to use a condom, but he must go to the hospital beforehand for a few tests we specify, to be responsible for himself and for us. There's no need to lie to us about this; we'll have a baby next year, and we won't be having children anytime soon, so ejaculation inside is perfectly fine. My wife likes sex toys, like vibrators. Every time we watch porn and use sex toys during foreplay, she's already very wet; she has a unique fondness for them. She hopes the single man she'll meet will have a gentle personality because she thinks my temper is a bit too strong, and if another strong-willed man comes along, it won't be as good as the quality of the game. She's very good at oral sex; she takes my penis in her mouth every night, and she's gotten used to it over time. Hahaha!
I won't write more. I have photos of my wife topless on my QQ space, but it's password protected. If you're the person I'm looking for, I'll naturally give you the password. When you add me, please send me your own photos. If we click, we'll send you photos of us as a couple. Let's both take a look. If your wife doesn't meet my standards, then unfortunately, no. One more thing: single men who add us need to have a good physique, not overweight or muscular! Thank you everyone! As always, I'm here with sincerity, and I hope you'll also read our dating requirements and intentions with sincerity. If you haven't read the whole post, I'll ask you questions when you add me on QQ. If you immediately ask random questions, I'll block you, because I've already clearly explained our situation.
I won't write more. I have photos of my wife topless on my QQ space, but it's password protected. If you're the person I'm looking for, I'll naturally give you the password. When you add me, please send me your own photos. If we click, we'll send you photos of us as a couple. Let's both take a look. If your appearance doesn't meet my wife's standards, then I'm sorry. One more thing: our single men need to have a good physique, not pot-bellied, and while I don't expect muscles, just not overweight! Thank you everyone! As always, I'm here with sincerity, and I hope you'll also read our dating requirements and thoughts with sincerity. If you haven't read the whole post, add me on QQ and I'll ask you questions. If you immediately start asking random questions, I'll block you, because I've already clearly stated our situation.

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