How I agreed to a threesome with my husband

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These past few days, my husband and I have been discussing threesomes. He even wrote a blog post about it, and yesterday, like a big boy, he excitedly told me the post was successfully published and specifically asked me to read it. Having read his post, I felt compelled to share our experience tonight, wishing all couples a loving and happy marriage.
I'm a 90s kid, and my husband is seven years older than me. I remember meeting him when I was 21, before I even graduated, while he had already been working for several years. When we first met, he worked in media, which required frequent business trips. Now, he works in finance, and I'm a tour guide. We have mutual friends here. My husband seems mature and stable, giving off a very energetic vibe, while I seem a bit naive because at that time I was facing graduation and job hunting, feeling lost. My only joy was visiting my friends from my hometown. After he returned to Shijiazhuang, we kept in touch. Gradually, our relationship solidified, and eventually, I truly couldn't live without him.
I'm a very obedient woman, and I've always strived to be a good wife, wholeheartedly devoted to him. My husband treats me very well. Before meeting him, I had a boyfriend in college, and we ended up having sex without really understanding what was going on. After meeting my husband, I found that he treated me much better than my college boyfriend. He was considerate, attentive, and took good care of me. I told him then that I had a boyfriend before, and even casually mentioned that we had already made love. But I didn't know that my husband had a virginity complex back then. During that period, he was in great pain, but he didn't show it. I only heard about it later from him. He told me how much he suffered after finding out I wasn't a virgin. Fortunately, his thinking changed later, to a degree that surprised me. I thought he might have suffered some kind of trauma. Before, he would get very angry whenever I mentioned my college boyfriend. But later, during sex, he even asked me how I made love with my boyfriend before. He told me that a website called 69 Paradise educated him, and since then, our sex life has been much happier. My husband is no longer affected by my not being a virgin. He said that it's better to live in the sunshine of a cuckold's complex than to live in the shadow of a virginity complex.
Our married life was very harmonious afterward, but as time went on, I always felt something was missing. However, as a woman, I couldn't actively ask for anything. Later, my husband got a lot of pornographic movies for us to watch together. We had watched them before, but now my husband and I discuss them together. He has also become more considerate and understanding. When we make love, he is completely uninhibited, and I am very content. My husband usually tries different styles to enjoy the pleasure with me. I have always been faithful to my husband, and of course, I expect him to be faithful to me as well. I know that my husband has other women around him, but at least I have seen him do things that are out of line. Maybe he did them without my knowledge, but I would rather he didn't. Later, at work, I also had a man I really liked. He was my colleague, and we worked together. He also had a wife, but I only liked him secretly in my heart. I never expressed or revealed my feelings, and I would never let my husband know what I was thinking. Later, my husband became more outgoing with me, and we often joked around. He said that beautiful women have many suitors, and I told him that I only have eyes for him. He smiled and said that he would be happy even if others pursued him, which shows he has a very generous attitude. At first, I thought he didn't care about me. Because I'm a very conservative woman, especially when it comes to relationships, once I've made up my mind, it's for life. My husband trusts me completely in this regard. He loves and cherishes me, and later even encouraged me to find more fun and enrich my life. Of course, I know that life can't revolve solely around eating, working, and sleeping, especially for women. Sometimes, a woman may indeed feel loved, even by someone other than her husband, but that's just a fleeting fantasy. She feels guilty for thinking too much about it, as it might betray her husband. So she continues with a mundane existence. That night, after making love with my husband, we were chatting and laughing when I asked him, "Have you ever thought about cheating?" His answer was yes. I was immediately upset. I know I'm not a virgin, and that's fine, especially since we've been together for a long time. But that doesn't mean he can't care about me. My husband chuckled and said that cheating was just a thought, but the fact that I had those thoughts still infuriated me. That night, I ignored him and went to sleep alone. He noticed my unhappiness and kept trying to talk to me... I admitted my mistake. I know men's words are increasingly unreliable these days, and the temptations in society are ever-increasing. But I know my husband and I only have a minor disagreement; he won't leave me, and I certainly won't leave him. Later, I became more proactive in our sex life. We tried all sorts of positions, and I became increasingly seductive in my words and actions. My husband loved it. I loved kissing his entire body, and he would do the same for me. Eventually, I got used to it. Seeing my husband's satisfied expression gave me a sense of accomplishment. This change allowed me to experience a woman's true joy. My husband did a great job, and I became much more cheerful than before. Then one time, we were watching porn, and we saw two men having sex with one woman. I used to find it unbelievable, but after watching it so many times over, I realized... I didn't think much of it at first, but then my husband suddenly asked me if I liked being done that to him. I casually said yes, because I was aroused at the time. We often joke around, especially during sex, and I often say very lewd things. After I said that, my husband became serious and said he'd wanted to find a handsome guy to do it with me for a long time, asking what I thought. I was furious. I thought it was one thing to joke around, but I never expected him to actually think and do that. I firmly refused, saying I wouldn't do that, not even if it killed me. But my husband kept repeating it in my ear, saying he loved me and cherished me. I said, "How can your woman be shared with someone else?" My husband said, "Because we love each other, our married life needs adjustment, we need to seek novelty. He said women should also enjoy themselves." I firmly denied his words. In my heart... I've always wanted to be a good wife; I didn't want these things to ruin my life. But my husband said, "I just want to find a guy who won't bother me and have some fun. There are so many people doing that these days." I questioned him about how he knew, and he showed me a lot of information and pictures about prostitution and threesomes. I didn't know he was secretly looking at these things. I had seen online that many couples were indeed exchanging information, but many of those were scams. It was my first time encountering couples' dating websites, and I was a little incredulous and curious. But to avoid cooperating with my husband, I didn't continue looking and instead tried to keep him from thinking about those things, so I went to sleep. Those few days my husband wasn't home, and I reopened the website myself. I saw a lot of couples' dating posts; I couldn't believe how open it was. I thought it was so perverted, how could they do that? But seeing them... Seeing some erotic pictures still stirred my emotions, and I even became wet, which made me feel a little ashamed. My husband wasn't home for several nights, and I was looking at them. Later, when my husband came home, we made love that night. I fantasized about two men touching and kissing me, which made me very passionate. However, my husband ejaculated quickly, leaving me somewhat unsatisfied. Afterwards, I chatted with my husband, and he said he didn't mind me interacting with other men and encouraged me to be more proactive in meeting them. It sounded like he didn't care about me, but I knew he did. He later said that it was precisely because he loved and cherished me that he could openly and selflessly share pleasure with me. It sounded like he was doing it for my sake, but I still felt a little uneasy. My husband remained very sincere, saying that this would make us more loving and help maintain our marriage. Life is short, and perspectives need to change. My husband wanted me to genuinely experience the feeling of a happy woman. During that time, he was very good to me, and I felt he definitely didn't not love or cherish me. He kept urging me to agree to his advances. Although I wasn't entirely against it, I was always afraid, though I didn't know what I was afraid of. Thinking about the scenarios he described, I felt a little excited; it was indeed thrilling. Considering how secretive infidelity and crushes exist in society, if my husband truly wanted more pleasure and excitement in our marriage, it would certainly make our love stronger. Later, my husband and I often discussed those topics. I didn't explicitly agree on the surface, but I tacitly approved. My husband noticed my change, and I told him that I wouldn't associate with men I didn't like. He chuckled and said he'd find someone slowly, and would only act when I was satisfied. Gradually, I started talking to my husband about what kind of woman he was looking for, what I should be careful about, and what I shouldn't do. My husband cares about my feelings. I noticed he mostly dates men, or couples, not women. I don't want him to date other women. Call me selfish if you want, but I just want my husband to only date me. So I told him I couldn't accept that, but if he really wanted another man, I wouldn't object. My husband was very happy and listened to me completely. This shows that my husband isn't just looking for his own pleasure. His woman being possessed by other men sounds unacceptable, but it actually gives him a greater sense of excitement. It makes him feel the greater allure of his woman being intimately touched by someone else. If a woman is always only enjoyed by her husband... Without the care and attention of other men, life would seem too bland. A beautiful woman should have the allure of attracting other men; that would make her husband cherish and pamper her more. If a woman only has one man in her life, it's a tragedy. Besides, under my husband's guidance, it's just experiencing a different kind of pleasurable sex, which doesn't affect our lives and is safe and feasible, so I gradually accepted it. Later, with my husband's encouragement, I coincidentally met a lover while watching a movie. After a few days, we had sex. I did hide it from my husband at the time, as he mentioned in his previous blog post. After being caught red-handed, I felt incredibly guilty, but he not only forgave me but also insisted on being with his lover. In the end, it only scared the lover away.
I now completely agree with my husband's arrangements and even fantasize about a threesome soon. My husband loves and cherishes me even more, and I've become more cheerful. I know that this will make my husband treat me even better and prevent him from cheating. He says that cheating has no meaning or interest in me now; he feels guilty for secretly doing it and would feel sorry for me. I feel the same way. Before, I would have secret crushes on other men, but now I'm open-minded and don't harbor any unspoken thoughts about my husband or other men. I feel the joy of transparent communication and love. I love my husband, and he's even sweeter and more loving towards me than before. Writing this, I hope that couples can approach dating with a positive mindset, truly connecting and enjoying each other's happiness. I'm also grateful that my husband saw the 69 website; otherwise, he wouldn't be happy, I wouldn't experience joy, and our love wouldn't be stronger. After experiencing this, everyone says that couples become more loving, and now I believe it. Thank you for reading my blog! It's too late, so I'll stop here! I look forward to single men adding us as friends. I'm fantasizing about my husband and a handsome guy spoiling me together. Thinking about it makes me sleepy, time for bed!

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