What should a husband do if his wife has a male confidant? (Repost)

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The wife met someone outside the marriage, a so-called confidant of the opposite sex, who almost became her affair partner.

He was a very witty and talented man. Perhaps her marriage was too cold, or perhaps she was too lonely emotionally; in any case, this man brought her a particularly fresh feeling, as if she had rekindled the passion of love.

In the past few years, she had been unkempt, disliked going out, and could lie on the sofa all day without eating… After meeting him, she changed; she regained her radiance…

The husband seemed to notice the change in his wife and asked her with extreme rationality, “Have you met someone outside who appreciates you?”

The wife nodded in yes.

He quickly replied, “That’s a good thing! But you have to be careful to maintain the right balance.”

This was not something a husband would say.

His wife asked curiously, "How do you gauge the situation? Is it okay if it escalates to the point where I want a divorce?"

He replied, "No, otherwise I wouldn't be wasting my breath talking to you."

He added, "Many people are like us; this is marriage. If two people are always passionate, they'll be exhausted. When two people are so familiar with each other, if they accidentally touch each other like they're touching themselves, how can there be passion? So, there's nothing wrong with our marriage; it's people's understanding of marriage that's flawed and immature. Now you meet this person, he gives you a sense of novelty, and you think he's good, and we're not. Wrong! If you've been married to him for a few years..." You'll find that our present is your future, and it might even be worse. Because from the beginning, we had no estrangement. We had a son, bought a house together, and built a home. Every penny we earned went to our son and our home. What about you and him? From the start, you were two separate families. He has a daughter, you have a son, and everyone wants more, it's never fair. When passion is there, you live life to the fullest, but when the passion fades, the other person becomes an outsider, and then you'll regret it! So, if you think being with him is better, then go for it.”

Her husband's words were like a wake-up call. For some reason, she hugged him tightly, tears streaming down her face.

From that moment on, the wife never mentioned divorce again.

Marriage should be mundane, a partnership, a partnership based on responsibility and obligation. Don't expect too much romance; expecting too much makes people picky, and when people are picky, the marriage won't last. Face marriage maturely and solve problems!

Too many people can't withstand the mundane routine of life, straying from its path and neglecting their inherent responsibilities. I think this is a problem most people encounter in life; let's learn to cherish the people around us.

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