It's not shameful as long as you know how to be perfect.

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Many articles advocate persuasion when discussing how to get women to accept and enjoy sex. My view is that persuasion through words is less effective than actions. Of course, I don't mean force, but a natural, gradual, and organic approach that ultimately leads to her wanting to try it herself. First, you only need to let her know that sex exists; you don't need to know her opinions or attitudes. Your strategy is "don't fire the gun, sneak in quietly." Don't inform her before the first time, and don't make any preparations that would be easily noticed. Just follow the normal sexual procedure to avoid putting pressure on her and causing tension.

Many articles portray sex as a sacrifice made by women as a reward for men, ignoring the fact that sex brings excitement and pleasure to both partners, leading to a fear of sex among women. Some women who have tried it are unwilling to try again because their partners didn't master the techniques, resulting only in pain.

So, is there any pain? Well, saying there isn't would be a lie! However, as long as preparation and foreplay are sufficient, there should be no pain during penetration. There will only be a slight pain upon entry of the glans, and this pain is tolerable. Adjusting to a suitable position can alleviate the pain.

Most people learn about this sexual technique from watching pornography. In porn, penetration is often depicted with the woman lying supine, kneeling, or standing with her legs raised, her genitals fully exposed. This is actually a position chosen for filming purposes, aiming for a visual effect. In actual intercourse, penetration requires the woman's anal sphincter to be as relaxed as possible. (Whether male or female, try it yourself; is it possible to achieve complete relaxation of the anal sphincter in these positions?) The truly relaxing position is for the woman to lie face down on the bed, with her legs not too wide apart, or even closed. The man lies on top of her, supporting his body with his left elbow and holding her shoulder with his hand.

His right hand supports his penis, placing the glans against her buttocks. Upon penetration, the woman will involuntarily tighten her anal sphincter. At this moment, gently stroke her back with your lips to divert her attention and allow her to naturally relax completely. Gradually, the woman's anal sphincter will change from tightening to rhythmic contractions. At this moment, seize the opportunity and slowly penetrate at the moment of relaxation, stopping when it tightens again. The woman should also try to cooperate, maintaining a steady contraction frequency, which is easy for the man to control and reduces pain. Once the glans enters and the anus adapts to being dilated, there will be no more pain. The man should try to keep the movements small and the rhythm slow at the beginning of thrusting. When she no longer feels discomfort and only experiences pleasure, then it is up to him to increase the frequency of thrusting or change positions.

When giving her oral sex, do not overstimulate her clitoris, but rather use the surface of your tongue to lick her perineum, then use the entire surface of your tongue, coated with saliva, to lick her groin extensively, and continuously lick her buttocks with the tip of your tongue for a long time, allowing her to concentrate her sensations and pleasure there. Don't worry that prolonged stimulation will reduce her pleasure, because the pleasure from stimulating her anus will never diminish, no matter how long it lasts. If you can also use your hands to spread her buttocks apart and insert your tongue as far as possible into her anus, allowing her to experience the full-body comfort of anal stimulation for an extended period, you've already succeeded halfway.

During intercourse, adjust the position to a kneeling, rear-entry position. Use your left hand to rub and stimulate her clitoris while thrusting, but be careful not to give her an orgasm. Just get her fully aroused. With your right index finger coated in her vaginal lubrication, slowly insert it into her anus. At this point, her erogenous zones are at the anus, so rear-entry won't cause her much discomfort; in fact, it will provide pleasure. At this point, gently tap and rub her clitoris with your left thumb, while pressing her G-spot upwards with your other four fingers. Insert your right hand into her anus a few times, then slow down the thrusting motion of your penis inside her vagina. Raise her hips; you can feel a thin membrane between your finger and penis. Then, use this finger to press down on your penis, rubbing her G-spot with the glans.

After a while, she will realize that penetration can bring such a wonderful sensation. Finally, you can gently push her onto her stomach on the bed. If you don't have lubricant, the best substitute is your saliva. Apply it to your glans and her anus, rubbing the glans against her anus. At this point, no words are needed; she will already be very willing and eager for you to penetrate her.

Actually, penetration isn't as difficult as everyone imagines. People often feel that their girlfriend's anus is tight, making penetration difficult. However, we need to find ways to make her accept that penetration is a form of intercourse, thereby reducing her fear of penetration. This will allow her to relax more during the actual procedure. There's a certain truth to the saying "Heaven helps those who help themselves."

Yesterday, being the weekend, I spent the whole day at home browsing forums, reading many introductions to methods related to sex. It was truly beneficial. When reading, you should make connections and imagine things in reality. For each step, consider which one suits you and your partner, as well as external conditions. For example, some methods mentioned enemas, which I can't do. That would require finding a hose and injecting water into my girlfriend's anus, which I think might make her uncomfortable, because it would feel like an adult film, devoid of any emotion. Psychologically and physiologically, she might not be able to accept it. Don't compare your girlfriend to those adult film actresses; they're professionals, and even if they're not happy, they'll pretend to enjoy it. Therefore, our girlfriends need us guys to cherish them and encourage them to reciprocate. Mutual engagement is what makes for a perfect sexual experience.

Getting back to the point, let me talk about my experience last night.
If you love someone, don't be disgusted by any part of their body being dirty. Every time my girlfriend gives me oral sex, I can't help but give her oral sex in return, which is why I really like the 69 position. I can lick her until she's gushing, and oral sex can bring her to orgasm several times. Last night, I tried the "first to attack" approach. Beforehand, I had my girlfriend read some articles about sex, focusing on the benefits of vaginal penetration. Then I watched a European or American movie with a storyline and some explicit scenes. After that, we went to bed and had some intimate moments (I suggest watching movies with your girlfriend more often and masturbating less). After watching for a while, I noticed my girlfriend's genitals were already wet, so I tentatively dipped my finger in some water and rubbed it around her labia majora. With the help of the movie, my girlfriend quickly got into the mood and cooperated with me. My wife suggested kissing my penis first, but I didn't agree. I said I would kiss her first today because usually my girlfriend gives me oral sex first, and after I can't stand the feeling of oral sex without teeth, I'll have her do 69. So last night, I went first to serve my girlfriend. I won't go into the details of the process; please refer to articles on oral sex techniques for women, which explain it in detail. Unlike before, during oral sex, I constantly teased my girlfriend's anus with my tongue, making her feel that I didn't find her area dirty. This is why I said before that if you love someone, you shouldn't be bothered by the dirtiness of a part of their body. After lying down and performing oral sex for a while, I had my girlfriend kneel down with her buttocks facing me. My tongue, dipped in vaginal fluid, circled around her anus, gradually penetrating deeper. Later, my girlfriend seemed to enjoy it and even cooperated by moving her hips in and out. I was overjoyed: "Today's going to work!" When my tongue got tired, I used my fingers dipped in water to insert them. The movements must be gentle, and your nails must be trimmed, because the area is very delicate. Don't hurt her, or all your efforts will be wasted. Not only will it displease your girlfriend, but it will also cause her some aftereffects, making her remember pain every time she thinks of sex. So, guys, don't be impatient, take it slow. The opportunity is right in front of us; enjoy it slowly.

I kept rotating and thrusting my fingers inside, making sure to keep them lubricated, ideally with a little saliva and some semen. I did, though, because I didn't have any lubricant. Once my girlfriend's anus was comfortable with my index finger, I switched to my middle finger, which was longer. I kept repeating this, don't be impatient, you can't rush things. I didn't try inserting two fingers at the same time; I felt the shape wasn't round enough and might cause her discomfort. Later, when I felt my girlfriend was completely comfortable, I prepared to get down to business. At this point, my girlfriend gave me a few blowjobs and also lubricated my penis. Pretty thoughtful, right? I had normal sex with my girlfriend for a while first. Because I had given her so much blowjob earlier, she was incredibly engaged, and soon she was overflowing with fluids. I kept putting some semen around her anus, hehe, don't waste it. After my girlfriend had two orgasms, I prepared to penetrate her from behind. I told her beforehand so she could prepare and adjust her position to accommodate me. I first gently inserted my penis into her anus, but things didn't go as planned. It was my first time doing this, and I wasn't familiar with the location, plus the lights were off, so I had to rely on my hand to find the spot. Remember to keep your penis lubricated at all times! After a long journey, the head of my penis actually went in, and my sister let out a couple of cries like she was having an orgasm. At this point, don't rush to thrust. I slowly pulled out and then went back in, letting my sister's anus gradually adapt to my large penis through my finger. Gradually deepen the penetration during the in-and-out process, and remember to keep lubricated. Men, go ahead and apply your saliva! The more lubricated you are for anal sex, the better, and it proved to be the right thing to do. My sister gradually adapted, and I began my normal assault, constantly increasing the speed. I asked my sister how it felt, and she said she couldn't answer, it felt very full, but not painful at all. We intertwined like this, and I can't even describe how amazing it felt to me—a perfect conquest! The perfect envelopment was also self-evident. However, unlike some friends who ejaculate after only a couple of thrusts (I guess their preparation wasn't done well enough, the girls were nervous, and they were nervous too; their girlfriends' anuses weren't fully adapted before they forced it in, causing them to ejaculate quickly, and their girlfriends felt pain afterwards),

I did it in her anus for about 10 minutes. When inserting into the anus, don't just focus on your own pleasure; the guy should try to distract the girlfriend, for example, by kissing her back, kissing her buttocks, and touching her clitoris and vagina with both hands. Let her achieve complete release; imagine what that feels like! Finally, amidst my girlfriend's loud moans, I ejaculated in her anus.
PS: A perfect foreplay is very important; don't be rough with your caresses. The process before penetration should be gentle and not rushed. Pay attention to the girl's feelings about each position, and know when to stop. If she can't handle certain positions, give up; you can try again next time. Never force it; causing post-coital problems is not worth it. During penetration, it's essential to maintain lubrication; the smoother the better. I even saved money on lubricant, relying on my girlfriend's vaginal fluid, my saliva, and her saliva. Brothers, you can take this as a reference! During the process, pay close attention to the girl's feelings. Like I said, if she's not comfortable with your entire penis thrusting in and out of her anus, give up. After all, it's her first time having such a big thing doing piston-like movements in her small asshole. Guys, please be considerate of her. Finally, I want to say that since the girl has offered her anus to us guys, we guys should treat her wholeheartedly and not let her down. She's made such a huge sacrifice. If you don't genuinely love this man, I doubt many girls would offer their anus to you. So please cherish her. This is
my own experience with sex, and it's my own. My language skills aren't great, so please forgive me, moderator and fellow users, but the above is absolutely true. It happened last night. Last night, I expended so much energy to conquer her anus; my legs were a little weak when I woke up this morning. To be honest, a pubic hair from last night when I was giving her oral sex is stuck in my throat and hasn't come out yet. Even rinsing my mouth didn't help, and my throat is itchy now. You can imagine how hard I worked for sex last night! Please show your support by giving this hard work your hearts! Hehe...

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