Reposting a netizen's story about their first time

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I'm reposting a blog post from a netizen, and it left me feeling a little heartbroken. The husband is so amazing!

My wife has always been a very traditional woman.
Before we got married, she knew almost nothing about sex; after marriage, I often jokingly called her "sex-blind." She knew very little about even the most basic forms of sex, let alone oral sex. I, on the other hand, have always had very high expectations for our sex life.
In the early days of our marriage, all couples have a lot of sex, and it's incredibly passionate. We were the same; we did it almost every day. Later, with the arrival of our child, that passion began to fade. The birth of our son shifted our focus, and almost all our energy went to our child. Time passed quickly, and while we remained as loving as ever, the quality of our sex life suffered greatly.
Logically, women around thirty-five should have higher and greater sexual desires. But my wife wants very little, so little that I'm almost going crazy. I suddenly started to worry, worried that if this continued, I would find another woman. I wonder what the men reading this are thinking and doing? At least I would take the first step towards infidelity because I couldn't bear this "ascetic" life anymore. The only benefit of this was that I vented and released my pent-up emotions, but at the same time, I betrayed my long-held promise to be a responsible man. I started looking for solutions to this problem online, and by chance, I discovered 69 Paradise. I registered on Paradise and even created a QQ account specifically for it. I browsed through a large number of blogs, some genuine, some reposted from the internet, and even some plagiarized, but I read them all. Suddenly, I felt a sense of "a glimmer of hope," as if I saw the dawn that could reignite our passion in our sex life. I started persuading my wife to read blogs about swapping and threesomes. At first, my wife wasn't very interested, and even felt averse to it. Until one day, around the Spring Festival this year, when my wife was chatting with a strange man on the QQ account I had created, I strongly encouraged her to chat with him freely, to say whatever she wanted, and to do whatever she wanted. I also told her that if she liked it, I wouldn't object to her having passionate sex with that man. Later, the man exposed his penis, and my wife reluctantly exposed half of her breast. The online friend ejaculated while looking at my wife's breasts. I could clearly feel my wife's excitement. I touched her genitals, and I was stunned! I didn't know how to properly describe how wet my wife was; I only knew that this had never happened in all our years of marriage. That night we were incredibly happy; it seemed that the disharmony in our sex life over the past few years had vanished in that one night.
From then on, I went online every day to persuade my wife, taking pictures of her! One night, after she had a passionate encounter with an online friend, I suggested a threesome during our lovemaking. She nodded shyly, and seeing her hesitant expression, I almost ejaculated. When I brought up the topic with her again the next day, she objected, and I nearly fainted! The revolution wasn't over yet; I had to keep trying. Good things come to those who wait! Finally, my wife officially agreed. At that moment, I almost jumped for joy!
Finding the right person, in my opinion, is very difficult. "Only after the great waves have washed away the sand can gold be found." I've encountered scammers, trash, and even perverts. Finally, a suitable person appeared. He was on a business trip and we arranged to meet. However, when faced with a complete stranger, and the prospect of intimate contact, my wife hesitated. I pleaded with her until she reluctantly agreed to have dinner together, but refused to have sex. I promised her it was just for dinner, and we could consider further if things went well. The dinner atmosphere was pleasant; he was very talkative. After dinner, on the way back to his hotel, my wife seemed very uneasy. At the hotel, I told him to go upstairs first, and then I asked my wife how she felt. She told me it was alright. When I asked if we could have sex, she seemed conflicted, both afraid and wanting. I told her I was there, it would be fine. Or we could just go to his room and chat, since he was a guest from afar. My wife agreed. Once inside the hotel, I noticed my wife was very nervous and shy. After chatting for a while, I asked the gentleman to take a shower. While he was showering, I asked my wife if she wanted to. She said she wanted to run away, which required another round of persuasion from me. She reluctantly agreed. Next, after that man finished showering, I went in to shower. My wife didn't shower because she had already showered before coming out. When I came out, I saw that man and my wife sitting together, and he was touching my wife's breasts. My heart suddenly felt like it had been stabbed with a needle; it hurt terribly. At that moment, I vaguely realized that perhaps I hadn't truly accepted a threesome. But hadn't I been the one who brought things to this point? What would it mean if I backed down? Would I hurt my wife? I endured the pain and walked towards them. When that man saw me come out, he left my wife, and I went over and sat down next to her. We chatted casually, and as the pain in my heart gradually subsided, I had my wife get on the bed and take off her clothes, leaving her only in her bra and panties. That man also sat on the other side of my wife, and I began to slowly kiss the tip of her ear. That man slowly took off my wife's bra and began to caress her breasts. My wife's breathing gradually became heavier and heavier! With a soft gasp from my wife, he took her nipple into his mouth, and I began to kiss her other nipple. Because my wife was still under the covers leaning against the headboard, I lifted the covers to make things easier later. Only then did I realize that, without me noticing, she had already grasped the other man's penis; it was quite long. My heart ached again, and with that pain, my already erect penis instantly went limp. But my wife was already very excited, her legs clamping together, her lower abdomen heaving with suppressed moans. Next, I was completely out of it; my penis pitifully shrank. When the man removed my wife's panties, I saw fluid—unprecedentedly, my wife was leaking a lot of fluid, soaking a large patch of the sheets. I felt like a failure; in over ten years, I had never aroused my wife like this. I wondered, was I not doing enough?
The man began to penetrate my wife's genitals; her moans grew louder, her reactions more intense. Meanwhile, compared to my wife, I was a complete failure, my penis limp and utterly unresponsive. Then, my wife gently took my unworthy penis into her mouth. The man over there said, "I'll do it first," and then penetrated my wife's overflowing vagina. My wife, with my limp penis in her mouth, let out deep moans, and I could clearly feel her body trembling slightly. My heart ached even more, a very painful, agonizing pain. My mind was a blur, almost blank. Although my wife continued to suck and lick my penis diligently, it didn't help at all. The man wasn't in good shape either (my wife later told me he wasn't hard enough), and he ejaculated not long after. I still felt terrible; I even started to wonder if I was impotent. My wife then suggested going home. I knew that if we stayed any longer, she would lose her motivation because of my feelings, so after saying goodbye, we drove home.
On the way home, I apologized to my wife, and she smiled gently and said, "It's okay. It shows you love me, right? I'm so happy!" She even unusually gave me oral sex in the car, but I still couldn't muster any energy. This depressed state persisted until the next morning before improving.
Postscript:
Many days have passed since this incident, and I've been reflecting on it: Was it that I couldn't accept this kind of play? Or was I too selfish? Actually, this wasn't fundamentally a threesome, or rather, a flawed, imperfect, or unsuccessful one. Writing this down today after a period of adjustment is something I'm doing. I still have thoughts about swapping, because I've overcome this hurdle, for our sexual happiness. I also sincerely hope to receive more advice and opinions from friends.
It's been a long time since I've written anything; please forgive any shortcomings or errors in this post! Thank you in advance.

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