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Let's address some common misconceptions:
1. Don't try too hard to imitate porn; it's too performative and impractical. Porn is only suitable for flirting, not for learning.
2. Rear-entry, while seemingly perfect, is actually not a position women enjoy. Although everyone is different, most women don't like it. You can ask around.
3. Loud, earth-shaking slapping may seem impressive, but your woman is actually suffering. Women almost never orgasm in this state.
4. Blowjobs, needless to say, are the most common way to increase male libido and decrease female libido.
5. Anal sex, while a sensitive area, should only be done with light stimulation. As for penetration... same as above .
6. Finger insertion, have you watched too many Japanese films? Except for an experienced vagina, no one can tolerate the hardness of fingers. It's definitely not as comfortable as a fully-fledged penis. Plus, it's easy to scratch the genitals with fingernails.
Okay, since the goal is to make a woman feel good, you need to be mindful and not just think about yourself.
First, let's talk about how women can be satisfied. This isn't just about direct stimulation; psychological factors also account for 50%.
Women can reach orgasm through masturbation, using devices, or even with a man, but women definitely prefer a man's penis to fingers, vibrators, or dildos.
Women can experience multiple orgasms or a single orgasm. A woman with a single orgasm is similar to a man; once she ejaculates, she doesn't want it anymore, and further contact feels uncomfortable.
1. Men shouldn't have body odor. No woman likes that kind of masculine smell, such as sweat, cigarette smoke, bad breath, body odor, or foot odor.
2. Don't think that the bigger and longer the penis, the better. Actually, 10cm or more is enough. Because women are less sensitive deep inside and will experience pain. If you hurt a woman, she won't easily reach orgasm. For example, if someone pinches you hard when you're really getting into it, your excitement will definitely decrease.
3. Foreplay is the most important. If you're impatient, you definitely won't satisfy a woman, and she might cheat on you one day, then you'll regret it. Foreplay goes without saying: touch, lick, kiss, aim for 10-20 minutes. You can touch the vagina with your hands as needed; just enough to wet the entire labia. But don't touch the clitoris. Touching the clitoris will reduce sensitivity and make orgasm slower.
4. Oral technique: The woman lies on her back, and you lick from the vaginal opening upwards to the clitoris. Be gentle; there's no special technique. Also, keep your hands busy touching the body; a woman's entire body has erogenous zones. When you lick until the labia are tight and moist, foreplay is basically complete.
5. Many people have confirmed that a straight-in-and-out penetration method won't bring a woman to orgasm, no matter how long you try. The key to a woman's orgasm is near the vaginal opening. So, you can't bring a woman to orgasm with just straight penetration. You can use rocking, thrusting, etc.
6. There's a classic method from ancient times: nine shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. This is the simplest and most practical technique; even beginners can use this method to satisfy a woman. The principle is simple: a woman's sensitive areas—the G-spot, vaginal opening, urethra, and clitoris—are all near the vaginal opening. This "nine shallow" stimulation involves using the groove of your glans penis to stimulate this area (of course, the larger the glans, the more intense the stimulation). While this may seem uninteresting to men, it's most effective for women. Repeat this 5-10 times, adding mouth and hands for random kissing and touching. The woman will be completely disoriented. Women who experience multiple orgasms have already had two orgasms.
6. Don't overdo the variations; missionary or sitting positions are sufficient. Too many variations are tiring and will lower arousal levels. It's not a circus act. Focus on practicality.
7. Regardless of how you're penetrating, remember to keep your hands and mouth occupied. This is extremely important!!!
8. Squirting: This may vary from person to person, but it's certain that any normal woman can experience it, just to varying degrees. Some may only release a few drops. The fluid released during squirting (which can be considered urine) is completely different from vaginal secretions; it's watery and not as slippery as vaginal fluid. It's easy to distinguish. While squirting can excite women, it's completely different from an orgasm; it's more like urinary incontinence. It's not as pleasurable as an orgasm and should only be considered a minor interlude. However, it can certainly excite men, as it's quite satisfying to make a woman urinate. Of course, some women are shy and will hold it in.
9. To make a woman squirt, never try to stimulate her with your hands like some Japanese people do; you'll hurt her. Those in porn probably got their penises swollen from that. Don't forget that men have a soft glans penis. Specifically: When a woman is fully aroused and secreting fluid, she should lie on her back with her legs raised, knees close to her chest, and feet facing upwards. At this position, the vaginal opening is facing upwards and is stretched very long and tight. At this point, kneel down and insert your penis straight forward. You will feel very cramped, and inserting it forward will feel like lifting up the woman's belly. Don't insert it too deep, as you can't insert it too deep in this position anyway, about 5 cm. At this point, the glans is pressing tightly against the woman's G-spot. Insert rhythmically, but don't touch the clitoris. When you insert it and it gets tighter and tighter, you will feel the vagina intentionally tightening. You can intentionally slide your penis upwards repeatedly. You'll find it increasingly difficult to insert. At this point, the woman's clitoris, urethra, and upper vaginal wall are fully exposed and engorged with blood. Now, grasp your penis and gently pat the woman's vulva with the glans like drumming. Two or three pats will produce a wet sound, and it won't be as slippery anymore—she'll squirt! If there's not much fluid, continue grasping your penis and sliding the glans up and down outside the vagina, quickly rubbing the clitoris, urethra, and vaginal opening. Oh dear... your woman wets the bed! Another benefit is that this friction will numb your glans, prolonging ejaculation time.
10. Positions: The missionary position (man on top) is the most practical, but it can be a bit monotonous. Alternatively, the woman can lie flat with her legs together, and the man can ride on top, inserting diagonally from above. This position allows for simultaneous rubbing of the clitoris and urethra, making it very practical, provided the woman is arched and cooperative and the penis is long enough. Another option is the woman-on-top position, where the woman can find her most comfortable position. However, in this position, the man is essentially no different from someone using a motionless dildo, leaving the woman psychologically unsatisfied. Alternatively, the man can sit on the edge of the bed, holding the woman's buttocks while penetrating, with the woman holding the man's neck. Both can move, stimulating more areas of the body. With good coordination, the woman can quickly reach orgasm.
11. In short, 100 hard thrusts are less effective than 50 gentle thrusts at the entrance. Enjoy teasing your woman's entrance, and of course, her whole body as well.

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