(Repost) A woman's personal account—how she enjoys the pleasure of threesomes

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How I Agreed to a Threesome with My Husband
Published: 2012-05-07 Author: Shenma Yisi Popularity: 52063
My husband has been away these past few days, and I've been thinking about this for a long time. I've told him I wanted to write down my feelings, and he was willing for me to express them, since we only spend time together on weekends. It's quieter being alone, so tonight I'll share our experience. I wish all couples a loving and happy life together.
I'm 28 years old now, a mother of a three-year-old son. My husband is three years older than me; we're both from the post-80s generation.
I remember meeting him at a gathering of fellow townsmen during the Dragon Boat Festival holiday when I was 23. He was working in Hangzhou at the time, and we were from the same hometown. I worked in Suzhou, where we had mutual friends. I'd heard a lot about him from my girlfriends before, but we only truly met on the Dragon Boat Festival. At that time, I felt a bit distant from him. He seemed mature and steady, and as my girlfriends said, he was quite handsome, giving off a very energetic vibe. I, on the other hand, felt a bit immature and insecure because my job was very unstable at the time, and I was always feeling lost. The only time I was truly happy was when I had free time to visit my fellow townsmen. After he returned to Hangzhou, we kept in touch. Gradually, we became a couple, and eventually, I really couldn't live without him. By the end of the year, we got engaged and married together.
After we got married, we both worked in Hangzhou. Like most couples, our life was ordinary. After having a child, I continued working, and I always tried to be a good wife, giving him my all. My husband was generally good to me, but men are men, and sometimes they're disobedient or pleasure-seeking. But after a small argument, we'd quickly make up. In terms of our sex life, after a while, I always felt something was missing, but as a woman, I couldn't actively demand anything. My husband is naturally careless. Later, he found a lot of pornographic films for us to watch together. We'd watched them before, but now he discusses them with me, and he's become increasingly considerate. My husband understands me, and I'm completely open during sex with him, which I'm very content with. He always tries different things to make our love more enjoyable. I've always been devoted to him, and of course, I expect him to be devoted to me too. I know he's involved with other women, but I've never seen him do anything inappropriate. Perhaps he did something I don't know about, but I'd rather he didn't. Later, at work, I met a man I really liked—a colleague who was also married. I only harbored this secret crush, never expressing it, and certainly never letting my husband know my feelings. Later, my husband became more outgoing, and we often joked around. He said beautiful women have many suitors, and I told him I only had eyes for him. He smiled and said he'd be happy even if others pursued him, showing a very generous attitude. At first, I thought he didn't care about me. Because I'm a very conservative woman, especially when it comes to relationships—once I've committed, it's for life. My husband trusts me completely in this regard. He loves and cherishes me, and later even encouraged me to find more enjoyment in life. Of course, I know that life can't revolve solely around eating, working, and sleeping, especially for women. Sometimes, a woman may indeed feel loved, even by someone other than her husband, but that's just a fleeting fantasy. She always feels guilty for thinking about it too much, as if she's betraying her husband. So she continues living a mundane life until one night, after we'd made love, we were chatting and laughing when I asked him, "Have you ever thought about cheating?" His answer was yes. I was immediately upset. I know that after having a child, things aren't as good as before, and we've been together for a long time, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care about me. My husband chuckled and said that cheating was just a thought, but the fact that I had those thoughts still in my heart infuriated me. That night, I ignored him and went to sleep alone. He noticed my unhappiness and kept apologizing. I know men's words are increasingly unreliable these days, and the temptations in society are ever-increasing. But I know my husband and I only have a small conflict; he won't leave me, and I certainly won't leave him. Later, I became more proactive in our sex life. We tried all sorts of positions, and I became increasingly seductive in my words and actions. My husband loved it. I enjoyed giving him oral sex and kissing his penis, and he did the same for me. He always liked to ejaculate in my mouth during sex, and I got used to it. Seeing his satisfied expression gave me a sense of accomplishment. This change allowed me to experience a woman's true joy. My husband did a great job, and I became much more cheerful than before. Then one time, we were watching porn, and we saw two men having sex with one woman. I used to find it unbelievable, but after watching it so many times, I didn't think much of it anymore.
Suddenly, my husband asked me if I liked being done that way. I casually said yes because I was aroused at the time. We often joke around, especially during sex, and he often says lewd things. After I said that, he became serious and said he'd wanted to find a handsome guy to do it with me for a long time, asking what I thought. I was furious. I thought it was one thing to joke around, but I never expected him to actually think and do that. I firmly refused, saying I wouldn't do that, not even if it killed me. But my husband kept repeating it in my ear, saying he loved me and cherished me. I said, "How can your woman be shared with someone else?" My husband said, "Because we love each other, our married life needs adjustment, we need to seek novelty. He said women should enjoy it too." I firmly denied his words. In my heart, I've always wanted to be a good wife, and I don't want this to ruin my life. But my husband said, "It's just about finding..." It's common for men to have fun together without disturbing each other these days. I questioned him about how he knew, and he showed me a lot of information and pictures about pornography and threesomes. I didn't know he was secretly looking at these things. I had seen online that there were indeed many couples communicating, but many of them were scams. It was my first time encountering couples' dating on a website, and I was a little incredulous and curious. But to avoid cooperating with my husband, I didn't continue looking and instead went to sleep to prevent him from thinking about those things. My husband wasn't home for a few days, so I reopened the website and saw a lot of couples' dating. I couldn't believe how open it was. I thought it was so perverted. How could they do this? But seeing some of their sex pictures, I couldn't help but feel aroused, and I even became aroused. I felt a little ashamed. I looked at it every night my husband wasn't home. Later, when my husband came home, we made love that night. I fantasized about the feeling of two men touching and kissing me, which made me very passionate that night. However, my husband ejaculated soon after, leaving me somewhat unsatisfied. Afterwards, I chatted with my husband, and he said he didn't mind me interacting with other men and encouraged me to take the initiative in meeting them. It sounded like he didn't care about me, but I knew he did. He later added that it was precisely because he loved and cherished me that he could openly and selflessly share his happiness with me. It sounded like he was doing it for my sake, but I still felt a little uneasy. However, my husband remained very sincere, saying that this way we would be more loving and maintain a happier marriage. Life is short. For now, my mindset needs to change. My husband wants me to genuinely experience the joy of being a woman. During that time, he was very good to me, and I felt he definitely didn't not love or cherish me. He kept urging me to agree to his advances. Although I wasn't entirely against it, I was always afraid, though I didn't know what I was afraid of. Thinking about the scenarios he described, I felt a little excited; it certainly seemed thrilling. Considering how secretive infidelity and crushes exist in society today, if my husband truly wanted more pleasure and excitement in our marriage, it would indeed make us more loving. Later, my husband and I frequently discussed those topics. I didn't explicitly agree on the surface, but... I silently agreed in my heart, and my husband had already noticed my change. I told him that I wouldn't date men I didn't like. He chuckled and said he'd slowly find someone suitable and would only act if I was satisfied. Gradually, I started talking to him about what kind of man I was looking for, what I should be careful about, and what I shouldn't do. My husband cares about my feelings. I noticed he mostly dates men, or couples, and never women. I don't want him to date other women. Call me selfish if you want, but I just want my husband to only date me. So I told him I couldn't accept other women, but if he really wanted another man, I wouldn't object. My husband was very happy and listened to everything I said. It's clear that my husband isn't just seeking his own pleasure. The idea of his woman not being possessed by other men might sound unrealistic, but it actually provides him with greater stimulation. It makes him feel the allure of his woman being intimately touched by others. If a woman is always only enjoyed by her husband and never receives affection from other men, life becomes too dull. A beautiful woman should have the feeling of being flirted with by other men; that would make her husband cherish and pamper her even more. If a woman has only one man in her life, it's a tragedy. Besides, under my husband's guidance, I'm simply experiencing a different kind of pleasurable sex, which doesn't affect our respective lives and is safe and feasible. So, I've gradually come to accept it.
After three months, my husband finally found two nice guys, one 25 and the other 32. I met them a few times via video. Later, for some reason, I chose the 25-year-old. I thought he was young, looked clean, and wasn't married. After setting a time and place, the three of us ate together first, then strolled around West Lake, and then checked into a hotel. I was still very uneasy and shy the first time, but with my husband there, I went along with his arrangements. In the room, the young man was very cheerful and clean, which made me feel like I was getting a good deal. Overall, I felt very good about him. We had chatted for a long time beforehand, and he kept calling me "sister-in-law." Later, after my husband and I took a shower together, the young man went to shower by himself. During this time, my husband had already hugged me and started kissing and caressing me. Skipping over the rest, the young man joined in after he finished showering. Facing two men constantly caressing and kissing my body, I truly felt a different kind of pleasure. After the first time, I became even more uninhibited the second time, and I had three or four orgasms. It really made me feel like I was flying. After that experience, we met up again a month and a half later. We didn't create any negative impact; my husband loves and cherishes me even more, and I've become more cheerful. I know that this will make my husband treat me even better and prevent him from cheating. He says there's no point or interest in cheating now; he feels guilty for secretly seeing me. I feel the same way. Before, I might have had crushes on other men, but now I'm open about everything. I don't secretly harbor thoughts about my husband or other men. I feel the joy of transparent communication and love. I love my husband, and he's even sweeter and more loving than before.
Writing this, I hope that couples can approach dating with a positive mindset, truly getting to know each other and enjoying happiness together. I'm so glad I didn't push things too far back; otherwise, my husband would be unhappy, I wouldn't experience happiness, and our love wouldn't have deepened. After this experience, everyone says that couples become more loving, and now I believe it. Thank you to all the friends who advised and suggested things to me before. Please forgive me if I said anything wrong; now I'm the same as you, haha!
It's too late, I'll stop here! Time to sleep!
May 4, 2012,
Hangzhou - Sweet Couple

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