Five endearing qualities of a slutty woman 1

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"Promiscuous" women have always been despised and scorned. Now, however, I want to say a few nice things about them. This isn't praise, but rather an objective analysis from a human perspective. Let's set aside the various negative evaluations given to them over thousands of years and simply look at their merits from a purely human perspective. Let's call these merits "lovable qualities."
First, a "promiscuous" woman must be a straightforward and honest woman. The desire for sex is universal. Men have it, and women do too. In ancient times, it was common and acceptable for men to marry wives and concubines, and to have more than one woman. This naturally stemmed from China's feudal traditions. This traditional concept provided men with ample and abundant conditions to release and satisfy their sexual desires. Young men could be picky and choose among women, enjoying the pleasures of lovemaking. Older men could also take young women as concubines and still enjoy the pleasure of sexual satisfaction. And what about women's sexual desires? Yet, they are restricted and stifled by this kind of thinking. Moreover, traditional thinking has created a situation where one man is compared to several women. This further reduces the opportunities for women to enjoy sexual pleasure. Therefore, eight or nine out of ten women can only pretend to be virtuous, adhering to so-called ethics and morality. A woman who can bravely stand up, whether through adultery or elopement, to defy the constraints of ethics and morality and share a bed with the man she loves, must be a straightforward and honest woman. Because they do not conceal their sexual needs. Secondly, a "licentious" woman must be a genuine person. Some people label those who commit heinous acts without concealment as "true villains," and those who do evil in secret but openly proclaim themselves as "hypocrites." Let's apply this analogy. I believe that "licentious" women are "true villains." I call them "true women." I call women who suppress their sexual desires and pretend to be chaste "false women." "False women" may have a good reputation, but they live a repressed life and cannot enjoy the true joy of being a woman. While a "real woman" may shatter the shining halo of ethics and morality, attracting countless condemnations, she has at least expressed her true desires and acted upon them. This is the essence of her humanity, which can be called frankness.
Thirdly, a "licentious" woman must be a woman who understands romance. A woman with a delicate and sensitive heart, experiencing the sorrow of fleeting love; showing tender care and expectation for men, as well as resentful dissatisfaction and hatred; understanding a man's every glance and gesture; sharing his joy and sorrow. Such a woman is vivid, rich in content, and full of life, naturally attracting men's favor. A "licentious" woman must understand men, cooperate with them tacitly, and even be soulmates. Therefore, she firmly grasps a man's heart with her myriad charms.
Fourthly, a "licentious" woman must be beautiful. She doesn't need a particularly pretty face, nor necessarily a perfect figure, but she must be "sexy." "Sexiness" is the most beautiful outer garment, a woman's inner and outer charm. Many women have beautiful faces and perfect figures, but some seem dry and lifeless. Charm, on the other hand, is a rich inner quality that flows naturally and unconsciously. A "licentious" woman possesses a unique charm that captivates men.
Fifthly, a "licentious" woman is intelligent. A woman's "licentiousness" is not her own behavior, but a shared behavior with a man. Without a man, a woman cannot engage in "licentious" behavior. A man doesn't like a woman for no reason; she must have something attractive about her. A woman who can make a man like her and strongly desire sexual relations doesn't simply rely on her body; she uses her intelligence to win a man's heart. Therefore, a "licentious" woman is exceptionally intelligent. Since she can win a man's heart, she can certainly gain other benefits. If placed in a career, she would undoubtedly be a shrewd and capable woman. In reality, what is "licentiousness"? It's nothing more than a woman's indulgent behavior. Men who indulge in lust, keeping mistresses, having lovers, and frequenting prostitutes are not considered guilty, yet women are condemned as "licentious," which is biased and highly unfair. As mentioned earlier, the desire for sex is the same for both men and women. Why is it that a woman's excessive desire is considered "licentious"? This stems from traditional Chinese thinking. What if one day a woman supported three or four men? Good women also crave sex.
Women's inner worlds are rich and varied, filled with many secrets that even their husbands, who are with them day and night, find difficult to fully understand. Especially regarding sex, their hearts often hold secrets that are almost impossible to fathom.
Women are inherently sexually inclined. However, many husbands find that their wives are not very enthusiastic about sex, and when they make sexual advances, they often do not receive a positive response.
After intercourse begins, wives often feign a mixture of annoyance and reluctance, making their husbands believe she's doing it not for their own benefit, but for their own. While men may be oblivious, at this moment they become observant and perceptive. Thus, they unconsciously form the impression that women dislike men's sexual advances.
In reality, this is a completely false and superficial phenomenon. Women don't truly dislike sex; their apparent aversion is mostly feigned, intentionally or unintentionally. In a patriarchal society, all social values are imbued with male superiority. Men's moral judgments not only influence women but also play a decisive role in their lives.
Under the influence of traditional sexual values, men often use a woman's enjoyment of sex as a standard to judge her. Deep in their minds, the lingering belief remains that "good women don't like sex and don't crave sexual pleasure, while those who do are bad women."
And for the women they perceive as bad, men often use terms like "slutty" and "promiscuous" to describe them, implying condemnation and contempt for their reliance on sex for pleasure.
To some extent, this kind of evaluation from men is equivalent to societal evaluation. Therefore, this evaluation appears before women in the form of social norms. Even if a woman deeply desires sex, she must try to appear dignified and reserved in front of men, pretending to be completely ignorant about sex. When she can no longer maintain this facade, she will feign disgust and half-heartedly accept the man's caresses. This series of performances by women is simply to tell men: I am not that kind of bad woman.
Women who consciously engage in this kind of pretense are a minority; many women behave this way unconsciously, while most consciously accept men's views of them and psychologically believe it, thus actively abandoning primal desires and completely restraining their sexual behavior. When men make sexual advances towards such women, they truly feel disgust and may even resist fiercely. This outcome is probably something men did not anticipate.
Women who deeply abhor sex mostly grew up in an environment filled with erroneous sexual concepts. Many women learn from childhood that sex is a dirty and shameful thing, something only vulgar people do, not respectable people. Some women, misled by exaggerated and one-sided propaganda, develop a deep-seated impression that sexual intercourse is violent. Even after growing up and experiencing no real sexual contact, they harbor an unnamed aversion and fear towards sex.
Therefore, men should use humor and frequently engage in sweet, lighthearted banter to keep the relationship fresh. Simultaneously, continuous innovation in sexual induction, positions, locations, and timing can significantly improve the interest and quality of sex. This can also help women break free from the psychological trap of "sexual boredom." The study also found that
during female orgasm
, a portion of the prefrontal cortex (OFC) in the brain is actually "shut down." At this time, their minds go blank, as if they have lost control. However, this state is not as pronounced in men.
Researchers say that male orgasms mostly manifest as ejaculation and are very brief, lasting only 3-10 seconds. Women, on the other hand, exhibit many other signs of orgasm, such as intermittent contractions of the vaginal sphincter, increased vaginal lubrication, and unconscious vocalizations. Unlike men, women don't immediately recover from orgasm; they often remain lingering in the afterglow, and these signs are closely related to changes in the brain. Do you believe that all women crave infidelity?
Frankly, every woman is capable of infidelity. However, there's a price to pay for infidelity, and different levels of women command different prices. In other words, if you meet a woman's expectations, she might sleep with you; if she doesn't, the problem lies with you. This is an ironclad rule. To say that a woman who doesn't sleep with other men is conservative, traditional, or afraid of the consequences is simply self-deception.
This is actually quite easy to understand. Gong Li slept with Zhang Yimou, not with a production assistant; Zhang Ziyi couldn't find a willing man in China, so she went to America; Liu Yifei hasn't slept with anyone yet because she hasn't found a man who meets her standards. Going back to ancient times, Pan Jinlian was forced to marry Wu Dalang, a beautiful flower stuck in cow dung. She then met the dashing Ximen Qing, rich, powerful, and sexually prolific—no wonder she cheated! Countless women longed for Ximen Qing's favor, but when he didn't reciprocate, they could only curse Pan Jinlian. Countless men, too, coveted Pan Jinlian but lacked the courage or the means to make her take the risk. They could only curse Ximen Qing, feigning sympathy for Wu Dalang, while secretly resenting Pan Jinlian for not sleeping with them. Thus, they too could call her a harlot. If Pan Jinlian had only been a object of desire, everyone would have only harbored secret crushes and fantasies, and no one would have slept with her, so everyone would be content. But when one person succeeded, everyone felt disappointed. Disappointment leads to cursing. For women, cursing not only vents jealousy and disappointment but also serves to prove their physical and mental purity. For men, cursing is much more complex. Besides dissatisfaction and imbalance, it can also serve to intimidate their wives, making them consciously shoulder the responsibility of upholding ethics and morality.

Deep down, women crave to be loved by all men, but when it comes to sleeping together, they must weigh the pros and cons. Therefore, even if a man wins a woman's heart, he must create conditions to minimize the cost of infidelity for her, providing her with a high degree of "security," before she will reluctantly agree. This reluctance stems from two aspects: firstly, maintaining her dignity and concealing her inner desires; and secondly, assessing the situation and remaining hesitant even when making the decision to cheat.

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