Regarding single men seeking couples

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First and foremost, I must say that although my experiences have all seemed smooth sailing, sometimes filled with chance, only I know the twists and turns and the effort involved. There's an element of inevitability within the seemingly randomness. Usually, ten of my words are less impactful than one sentence from someone in their 70s, because safety is paramount in this game, and the common perception is that inexperienced people are unreliable.
As a young person, I lack both a high level of education and sufficient life experience, so my writing isn't as eloquent as some might think, and my viewpoints aren't particularly groundbreaking. However, opinions vary, and this is all I can do for now. Today, I'll share my experiences and reflections on this issue. Before discussing
this topic, I think we should face sex squarely. Confucius said, "Food and sex are the greatest desires of humankind." Gaozi said, "Food and sex are human nature." According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, sex, like eating and drinking, is one of the most basic physiological needs. Therefore, sex is neither mysterious, nor great, nor lowly; sex is simply sex.
In my opinion, couples who accept casual sex are those who have taken a more relaxed view of sex and can separate sex from love. When the passion of infatuation fades, the initial romance transforms into the mundane realities of daily life, and love evolves into familial affection, with men providing for the family and women caring for their husbands and children, a new way is needed to rekindle the initial passion and release stress. Especially as the concepts of equality and human-centeredness gradually take root, casual sex among couples becomes increasingly accepted. The
world is awash with desires; satisfying desires leads to boredom, and failing to satisfy them leads to suffering. Life oscillates between these two extremes. In my view, the various positions and tools used in sex—oral sex, anal sex, outdoor sex, exhibitionism, SM—are all for the satisfaction of sexual desire, physical pleasure, and sensual enjoyment. Like casual sex, these are means to add color to a dull life and spice up a monotonous existence. It's like adding chicken bouillon and oyster sauce to a dish to make it more delicious, or eating braised pork after a diet of only vegetables—it's all about making yourself feel better. Some men have a cuckold's mentality; seeing their wives on top of other men evokes excitement, stimulation, and jealousy—a complex interplay of emotions that ultimately provides them with maximum mental and physical satisfaction. Furthermore, group sex also, to some extent, satisfies a man's deep-seated desire for multiple wives. Of course, when a wife's libido is high, multiple partners can better satisfy her desires, lessen the husband's burden, and is also a sign of the husband's love.
Naturally, there are always multiple perspectives on any issue, and opinions on couples' sexual relationships are always sharply divided; I won't go into specifics. I'm just sharing my opinion. I believe that as rational adults, we know that there is no absolute good or bad, no absolute right or wrong. We've outgrown the age where we watched television as children, praising positive characters and condemning negative ones. As adults, we should view issues dialectically, rather than simply praising or condemning them. The existence of something implies its rationale, just like the ancient imperial examination system and the modern college entrance examination. Countless people say they are unreasonable, but considering the national conditions of ancient and modern times, we have not yet found a better or fairer and more reasonable method. I think that, specifically, when it comes to individuals, we should follow the path of socialism with Chinese characteristics, just like our country's governance policy.
Let's talk about the criteria for couples choosing single men. Of course, some people feel that there is no problem with two couples, but they find single men unacceptable. In short, we come from all over the country, here for a common purpose. We're here to have fun, provided that both parties are satisfied with each other's conditions. This society is made up of all kinds of people. Due to differences in family, education, and living environment, everyone's mentality and beliefs are different. For each person, there is no best, only the most suitable. Therefore, there is no right or wrong in accepting single men. To each their own.
I often see single men online saying that it's hard to find couples for a threesome. I haven't encountered this problem. My first time was basically on the agenda after the first chat, and then after half a month of on-and-off in-depth understanding, it happened. The second time was even more outrageous. Zhang Ge saw a message I sent to someone and then added me on social media. Even now, I don't know which forum Zhang Ge frequents or what his username is. At that time, Zhang Ge and his wife hadn't participated, and he hadn't finalized his relationship with Zhang Jie. I didn't take it seriously then, and we didn't contact each other for over two months. If Zhang Ge hadn't contacted me when I went to Guangdong to say he'd settled things with his wife, I would have basically forgotten about it. So, it really depends on fate.
Couples looking for single men might have many criteria, such as height, weight, education level, age, penis size, and even asking if I'm handsome. But in my understanding, although there are many requirements, broadly speaking, couples only have two main requirements for single men: first, a compatible philosophy. There's no specific standard for this; as long as both parties feel good, anything is possible. The second is safety. Safety includes many aspects, not only physical health but also ensuring that the relationship isn't exposed, like secret rendezvous.
Regarding the question of who suffers a loss, in my opinion, for the single man, this issue needs to be considered from two perspectives. First, if the couple's prior knowledge of the single man aligns with the actual events, then all three participants are satisfied both mentally and physically, resulting in a win-win situation. This is similar to going to a noodle shop, paying the owner five yuan, receiving a bowl of noodles, the owner making money, and I being full—all three benefit. Second, if the couple's prior expectations of the single man differ from his actual performance—for example, if his sexual skills are lacking—the couple might think, "It would have been better if we had used a toy." They came with high hopes, only to be disappointed.

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