A young woman recounts how she achieved orgasm in various sexual positions.

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Sexual positions are a recurring topic, with erotic illustrations dating back to ancient times and numerous summaries available online. Here, I'll only share my personal experience, discussing details to pay attention to in common positions, or the key points of movements that might be novel to some readers. Since this is based on my personal experience, it inevitably has limitations and may not be applicable to everyone. Feel free to use this as a reference, and I welcome your additions. Thank you. First, let's start with the "69" position, as it's quite common. Foreplay is crucial, and many people begin with oral sex before actually having sex with their first partner.

The "Orgasm" Experience in 69
: I personally enjoy the "69" position, but I can never maintain it for long because both partners are focused on their own enjoyment and neglect to stimulate each other, making simultaneous pleasure difficult. Therefore, this position is fine to try occasionally, but ultimately, oral sex should be done separately. When giving oral sex to your partner alone, they can focus on enjoying your tenderness, while you can concentrate on observing their reactions and adjusting your stimulation methods. After he (or she) has achieved a certain level of satisfaction, they can take turns, so that both can experience pleasure.
In my practice, my boyfriend usually gives me oral sex at the beginning of sex, and after I become aroused and even reach orgasm, he will eagerly penetrate me. Oral sex for him happens between ejaculations, partly to express gratitude for the orgasm he gave me, and partly to prepare for the next erection. I think, just as men enjoy watching a woman's clitoris become wet and juicy from being licked, women also enjoy the feeling of that soft little penis gradually growing bigger and harder in their mouths. So I prefer to put that cool little thing in my mouth after he ejaculates (of course, after washing up) – it's much more fun than the already hot rolling pin from the start.
The missionary position for "orgasm"
begins with the woman's legs spread open for easier penetration. There are two ways to spread your legs. One is to spread them to the sides. If you're flexible, you can spread them wider for stronger stimulation; if you're less flexible, you can wrap your legs around his waist and hips. The second is to spread them at a 90-degree angle or an acute angle to your body, with the woman's legs between you. If you're flexible, you can place your legs on his shoulders; if you're less flexible, you can bend your knees in front of your chest and have him press your calves down. This position is slightly tighter than a side-spread position and is more stimulating for women who can't contract their vaginal muscles or whose muscles are more relaxed. Personally, I can't reach orgasm when my legs are spread wide. I have to lower my legs and squeeze them tightly, with the man's legs on the outside of my body, so I can reach orgasm quickly because the clitoral friction is very effective. However, this position requires a high level of coordination from the man, and his penis must be of a certain length and hardness, otherwise it's easy for it to slip out, or he might not be able to move at all.
So, how should the man move in this position? When she's flattened out, her vagina is almost horizontal. You need to have a certain level of flexibility in your waist and abdomen, allowing the muscles from your buttocks to your chest and abdomen to undulate sequentially, moving your penis from back to front. The technique is similar to samba, though you can do it even if you haven't practiced it. My boyfriend hadn't, but he mastered the technique and is very skilled. The range of motion doesn't need to be large, but it can be very fast. In fact, sometimes this kind of small, rapid stimulation is more effective than forceful, large-amplitude thrusts. I often experience three or four orgasms in a row with this technique.
Another point to mention is that you're almost lying on top of her, but don't actually lie on top of her; be careful not to crush her (this guy weighs a hundred or two hundred pounds!). Use your knees and elbows to support your weight. Why did I say elbows instead of hands? Because your hands need to be free to caress her breasts (especially the nipples). When a woman is nearing orgasm, the nipples act as a switch; stimulation of these two points directly connects to the G-spot in the vagina, leading to a rapid climax. Of course, if your arms aren't long enough, you can only support yourself with one hand and try to use your elbow for support with the other, stimulating one of her nipples to achieve the same effect, although it may take longer. It's worth noting that many men find it difficult to handle when a woman's legs are tightly closed, because the stimulation is too intense, and the vagina also clenches very tightly. Even a slight movement, or even if he doesn't move at all but the woman slightly contracts, can cause him to ejaculate. Therefore, this position is suitable for men with more sexual experience who know how to control ejaculation, how to appropriately distract themselves, and how to control their abdominal muscles for effective exercise.

The Woman-on-Top Position for Orgasm:
Many people enjoy this position, but few achieve good coordination. By coordination, I mean that not only should the woman move on top, but the man should also be active on the bottom; and how should the woman on top move to both satisfy herself and provide sufficient stimulation to the man?
There are three ways to achieve woman-on-top: squatting, sitting (kneeling), and prone—some combine squatting and kneeling, evolving into kneeling on one knee and squatting with the other leg bent. The squatting position primarily involves up-and-down movements, providing stronger stimulation for men. Personally, I don't reach orgasm in this position because the clitoris doesn't touch the partner. Therefore, I generally use the latter two positions.
The kneeling position compresses both partners' pubic bones, allowing the woman to use her waist strength to move forward, backward, left, right, and even rotate. At this time, the man can use both hands to caress the woman's breasts simultaneously, or he can use one hand to caress a breast and the other to hold her waist, providing support for his movements. Men should not think of this as merely watching a performance; if you do, your penis will soften, failing to provide sufficient stimulation, and her movements on top will be ineffective. Therefore, you must concentrate, keeping your penis erect to meet her movements and help her reach orgasm. Another variation of the kneeling position involves the woman slightly raising her buttocks, leaning forward, and holding onto the headboard with both hands, allowing for kissing. This also provides space for the man to coordinate his movements from below, allowing him to bend his knees and thrust forcefully. When done correctly, this often leads to simultaneous orgasms.
The last prone position is probably something few people have tried; at least I haven't seen many people describe it in posts. It involves the woman lying on top of the man, supporting her weight with her knees and hands, while her hips move like a man's to create thrusting. Towards the climax, I also like to squeeze my legs together and then, using his penis as a fulcrum, quickly and slightly jerky shakes of my hips, creating a G-spot stimulation.

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