Preparations before licking the vulva

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Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just looking for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere for it, such as doing it at night and dimming the lights.
Both of you should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genital area has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easier for dirt to accumulate. So, when showering, make sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
The man should turn on some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, the woman should get into the habit of applying perfume to her genital area, but don't use too much or too strong perfume, because when the man is licking your genitals, his nose is closest to your genitals, and if the perfume is too strong, it can easily choke him. Don't apply perfume to the labia, because the scent of your vaginal fluids isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair area and the inner thighs; it's also good to lightly apply a little to the anus.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and use the small towel to wipe away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so she can easily reach it when thirsty, avoiding the need to run outside to get water and interrupting her pleasure for too long.
Secondly, several sensitive areas for women:
Men shouldn't think that clitoral stimulation means immediately pouncing on her clitoris the moment you get into bed. Don't be so aggressive. Remember, a woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is an extremely sensitive area, and stimulating it immediately will be less effective.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hold her close and say some sweet nothings, like "You're so beautiful" or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, begin kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Spend more time on her breasts, as they are also a very important erogenous zone.
At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you can begin to approach her genitals. Start by kissing her inner thighs, gently parting her legs. Women are usually shy at this point, as they feel some resistance to exposing their genitals. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin by lightly licking her thighs with your tongue, from the outer edge of her labia majora—the cleft between her thighs—upwards to her hip bones (on both sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. She will feel a ticklish, tingling sensation, and a slight tingling near the vaginal opening. Continue licking down her thighs to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive point for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area more often. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip this step and move back
to the inner thighs. Repeat the above steps. This tactic is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, you should treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy," take the initiative, and guide her senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare on any part of her body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, and the pubic area. Gradually, you'll notice the woman starting to move, her legs involuntarily swaying, and she might moan. More sensitive women will experience vaginal lubrication.
After the assist (about ten minutes), begin the main attack!
Through this assist, you've essentially overcome the woman's shyness and destroyed her psychological defenses. At this point, she'll be in a state of feigned resistance, and the man can enter the main offensive.
The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them back to expose her entire genitals. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
When a woman raises and spreads her legs, the man should first target several key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the groin, the woman will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. If you can overcome your psychological barrier, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement.
If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the perineum to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid is usually clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? At this point, don't use your hands. Use your tongue to gently pry open the woman's labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or when they are more aroused, the labia may already be separating on their own). Take one labia into your mouth and use your tongue to sweep it around, paying attention to both the inside and outside of the labia. Then switch to the other labia and repeat the process. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time and suck on them. Use your tongue to make insertion, withdrawal, and sweeping motions between the labia. The woman will feel incredibly good.
As mentioned above, when kissing a woman's labia, remember to suck on as many of the woman's labia as possible, gently sweeping and licking with your tongue. The woman will feel a special itch in the labia area and want you to kiss more areas and a wider area. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Because very few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying herself. The flesh is in your mouth; whether you bite, and how you bite, is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just the right amount, enough to make her suddenly scream, essentially ruining the sensation she's built up.
Why ruin a woman's sensations for no reason? Male sexual arousal is achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (sweet words) and through imagination and sensation. Reaching orgasm requires multiple stimulations and accumulation. Graphically, this can be represented as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more intensely next time. This technique should be used repeatedly when licking a woman's vulva, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate. When
you lightly bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah!" into a soft "Oh!" This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but being unable to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun!
Once you've "conquered" a woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam" (labia), which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside.
As mentioned above, after gently biting the woman's labia, quickly block the vaginal opening with your lips; this can give the woman a warm and comfortable feeling. Now it's time to get started. You should gently separate her labia with your thumbs to expose the vaginal opening, and use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes pressing your entire lip against it. Remember, never blow air into the woman's vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris begins to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much sensation. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within the clitoris. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can go back to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this time, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss it again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. You should leave the woman half-suspended in that feeling, and the man should begin to gently lick upwards from the woman's perineum towards the clitoris, slowly. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "We're almost there, almost there! Hurry, hurry and take it in!" Ignore her cries and pulls; just don't kiss her clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, use the tip of your tongue to lightly brush and touch her clitoris (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). Then, in the opposite direction, lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stir however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this, but men should be careful with the back of their tongues; sticking it out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues and insert them. Even though it's not much, it can make the woman feel very full. Furthermore, the sensation of a broad tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something a man with a long, thin tongue cannot provide. A man with a long, thin tongue can use the tip to gently tease the cleft of a woman's labia, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits.
Now you can focus on capturing the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking a woman's clitoris vigorously will bring her to orgasm, but this is a misconception. A woman's clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she will feel more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.
There are a few things to keep in mind when kissing the clitoris: the tongue must be wet, light, and pointed; the tongue must be kept moist (the water prepared in Chapter One will come in handy now); when licking the clitoris, be gentle and use the tip of your tongue. To penetrate the clitoris, use the five-step technique: "point, flick, pluck, press, stir." "Point" refers to lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "pluck" means gently plucking the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; "press" means pressing down on the clitoris occasionally with your tongue; and "stir" means
swirling your tongue around the clitoris while it's in your mouth. At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be highly engaged and aroused. You can feel a throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're
holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily lead to orgasm. Men often prefer longer sex and a later ejaculation for greater pleasure. Women, like men, also crave prolonged pleasure, so be understanding. Only use a faster pace to help her reach orgasm if she strongly requests it or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.
Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the random licking of clitoris like the male protagonist in pornographic films, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. Once you've done those actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to engulf her clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Enclose the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating in your mouth.
Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man licking a woman's clitoris because you can control her level of arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I release her clitoris and see her about to scream, I immediately take it back into my mouth, and she'll be too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or your partner will kick you off the bed.

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