First time 3P: A must-see for single men and couples

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Threesomes have become a common activity between married couples and single men. We are a married couple, and although we're both younger, we've had some experience. I'd like to share my thoughts on this, and please point out any mistakes or inaccuracies.
Our first experience was simple yet complicated. I posted a dating ad on another website, and several local single men added me. After chatting for several months, we chose our first single man for a threesome. He was handsome, and my wife liked his type from his photos. We arranged a meeting place, booked a hotel room, and went to a karaoke bar. My wife and I booked a private room and ordered drinks. I don't drink, and since I was driving, I let my wife drink some. It took almost two hours for the man to arrive. He called three times, saying he was busy and would be delayed, without specifying how long, leaving us waiting. This highlights the importance of punctuality for single men. If you can't even do that, how can you expect the other person to like you? When I first encountered a threesome, I didn't think much about it. Nowadays, we definitely wouldn't accept a single man like that. Later, we sat in a karaoke bar for half an hour, and the single man impatiently suggested going to a hotel. I was also blinded by excitement and went. Here, I think the husband should ask the wife's opinion. If the wife likes the single man and is willing to accept a threesome, then go to a hotel. If she feels disgusted by the single man, then leave. Because on the first meeting, no one can clearly say what the other person feels. Just looking at photos and videos online only shows the exterior, not the interior. A threesome will only be satisfying for the wife if there is mutual attraction. The process of going to a hotel is very simple: shower, flirt, and have sex. But even with these three points, an experienced single man will perform skillfully and delicately, while a sleazy or inexperienced single man will greatly affect the couple's mood. For example, entering without a condom without consent, being violent towards the wife, or verbally abusing her. Your wives may act provocatively in front of their husbands, but they won't allow other men to insult them. A threesome should be based on mutual respect. However, if the wife agrees, that's a different story. On the first threesome, the husband should try his best to satisfy his wife's needs and not neglect her for his own desires. Otherwise, the wife will become very averse to threesomes in the future, and even her initial desire for them may be completely destroyed. Therefore, finding a suitable single man is very important.
For the single man, I think the first thing is to be generous; this will increase the couple's positive impression of you. For example, if they suggest going out for dinner or karaoke, I think the single man should offer to pay the bill. A single man with good financial means can also bring the wife a small gift—it doesn't have to be expensive, it's the thought that counts. This will greatly increase the couple's positive impression of you and will also facilitate the threesome. The single man is a relatively difficult role to manage. An inexperienced single man may appear numb after ejaculation, or even disgusted by threesomes, yet when desire returns, he may appear extremely eager. This is quite bad behavior because I believe that men find sex boring after ejaculation. For example, the husband might regret having a threesome after ejaculation, which greatly affects the wife's mood for the threesome. If you regret doing these things, then don't get involved in this circle. I believe that couples dating, and single men dating couples, should only be based on physical satisfaction, not on the spiritual level. You should consider your wife as someone who satisfies your physical needs with the single man, but also consider that you and the single man are physical beings serving your wife. Everything begins and ends with the body; then your threesome is successful.
If you want to "train" your wife, everything must be based on your love for her; only then will she reciprocate. If you're just trying to organize a threesome to fill a recent void, then your threesome will definitely fail. "Training" your wife is a tedious matter. Be gentle and considerate to her every day, and occasionally show her your lewd side, such as sending her some erotic novels or pictures of netizens' genitals on WeChat. Avoid lewd harassment when your wife is in a bad mood, because no one has desire when they're in a bad mood. Over time, perhaps several months, perhaps half a year, your wife will definitely not be indifferent. For couples who haven't yet successfully "trained" their wives, I think this is a very good suggestion. Many training sessions take place during intercourse, and afterwards, the wife strongly dislikes the topic of threesomes. I think this approach is unworkable; otherwise, why would so many cases fail? It's perfectly acceptable for couples to share a little risqué humor. Do you think a wife would be furious if her husband sent her obscene material? On the contrary, when she's bored and recalls what her husband sent her, she might feel excited. Please note that everyone has a lewd side. They just haven't let it out or shown it. Once the wife has been successfully trained, for example, to accept threesomes or SM scenarios, don't rush into practice. Strengthen the relationship further, occasionally indulging in something she craves but can't have. This will make her lewd and more inclined towards promiscuous sex than you are. After that, she'll be willing to do anything unthinkable for a single man, especially in a threesome, where she'll likely achieve breakthroughs.
I think many men are drawn to the concept of a sex slave, but I find it rare between married couples. It's more common between lovers, because passion and openness breed subservience. A long-standing marriage often lacks passion, making it difficult to train a submissive. However, not everyone has a lover, and many men start with their wives. The training of a submissive is based on this foundation; only after successful training can further development begin. Even after becoming a submissive, you must still be considerate in daily life. But during master-slave activities, you can humiliate her without restraint, demanding she perform any degrading acts; this is essential to maintain her resilience. If you consistently treat your wife as a submissive, she will resent it and might even cheat on you and become someone else's submissive, thus ruining all your efforts.

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