If it's just thrusting, the woman will never reach orgasm.

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This has been very helpful to me! The most direct point is: if you only use penile thrusting, a woman will never have an orgasm!
"Let me first talk about a few things I hate about guys. Some guys never give girls oral sex, but they expect girls to blow-feed them, or lick them until they're wet, or even spit on their hands, smear it on them,
and then insert it. Please, that wetness is saliva, not the girl's natural lubrication. It's so inconsiderate. Even if I thrust for a long time, I rarely feel anything. First, it's psychologically uncomfortable, and second, the clitoris isn't stimulated, so the vagina isn't sensitive enough.
Many guys say their girlfriends don't like being licked or don't like clitoral stimulation. The first reason is that the girl thinks it's dirty, a psychological factor. This requires a lot of communication, or a little coaxing. Many guys say that if a girl doesn't want to blow-feed you, but if you really make her feel good, she will reciprocate.
If you only use penile thrusting, a woman will never have an orgasm. The best method is to thrust while simultaneously rubbing her clitoris with your hand, and then increase the speed when she's close to orgasm. After a while, she won't need your hand anymore because she'll already have it." Once he has orgasmed, stop rubbing his clitoris, otherwise he will only experience pain. If you can increase the speed of your thrusting during his orgasm (how to tell if he's orgasming is simple: he'll moan loudly and his body will move involuntarily), then he's orgasming. At this point, increase the speed of your clitoral stimulation, while maintaining a moderate to high thrusting speed (to avoid premature ejaculation or lack of strength). After his orgasm, don't worry, he will automatically remove your hand. If you still haven't ejaculated, then increase your thrusting speed by 200%. He will moan louder and louder, so simply thrusting with your penis will never lead to orgasm. The
above is one method to bring a woman to orgasm, guaranteed to make him fall in love with you. Another method is to use your tongue to stimulate his clitoris. The method requires some skill. The best way is to start from the vaginal opening and work upwards towards the clitoris, as the vaginal opening also has sensation. However, to bring him to orgasm, you need to focus your tongue on the clitoris (adjust the pressure as needed). (Make sure you're ready); the way you lick the clitoris is not to lick it directly. If I were to pull back the foreskin and lick the glans right away, many guys would probably scream! It's too sensitive.
So, lick the left and right sides of the clitoris first, occasionally brushing it over. Be careful with your teeth, or use a little saliva to cover the clitoris with your entire lip. Use your moist lips to open and close like a fish, or press down on the clitoris with your tongue, pressing gently. Don't use the tip of your tongue; use the underside of your tongue to lick it (because I can only feel it; men with practical experience, please share). Rub the sides of the clitoris up and down rhythmically. Strangely, my right side is more sensitive than my left. When I masturbate, I always rub the right side of my clitoris with my hand instead of rubbing it directly.

You can ask your girlfriend to masturbate in front of you once, and you can masturbate together and watch each other. This way, you can understand where she feels pleasure, because some things are hard to describe.

I believe that licking the clitoris with your tongue can lead to orgasm, but just like a woman only using her mouth to make a man ejaculate... It's quite tiring. But which feels better, a girl using her hand to make a guy ejaculate, or using her mouth
to make him ejaculate? I once met a really difficult guy who took 40 minutes of oral sex to make him ejaculate. I swear, my oral sex skills aren't too bad. He was a very strange guy; he could thrust for two hours straight without ejaculating. He said that in the three years he'd dated his girlfriends, he'd only ejaculated three times using thrusting. He had a big penis, was on the basketball team, and
had great stamina, but he just couldn't ejaculate. Having sex with him was a marathon of endurance, going from initial pleasure to pain, to exhaustion, to numbness—it was incredibly unsatisfying, so it's not about how long it lasts. And it was very boring. Towards the end, he said he was hungry and asked me to cook instant noodles, leaving me freezing cold.

If you have free hands, please caress your breasts, or use your two fingers—but before inserting two fingers, please use one finger first to get your vagina used to it. I love it when a guy licks while stirring his fingers inside your vagina, like a whisk. Or, with your palm facing out, do a cycling motion to stimulate the G-spot. The sensitivity of the clitoris is beyond imagination,
so guys need to adjust the pressure of their fingers.
When the clitoris is stimulated, the entire vaginal opening becomes sensitive. At this point, you can reduce the stimulation to avoid overwhelming the girl. Cover the vaginal opening with your palm and vibrate. This kind of stimulation can also bring me to orgasm.
Alternatively, you can rub your penis against the opening, especially when the guy is about to ejaculate. After pulling out, you can do this, which won't make the girl feel like you're about to come, but it will still make her feel very comfortable.
Many people say that girls will ask you to stop. I've thought about many reasons, but I basically know that most girls feel the urge to urinate during orgasm, or will urinate afterward. Women may all have the ability to squirt, but the key issue is that they can't handle that overly sensitive feeling, or they feel like they need to urinate and suppress it. This feeling is similar to a man needing to urinate but being unable to.
For those who can't handle it, that feeling can be uncomfortable, just like how some men experience pain when touching their penis after sex, while others don't.
So, when a woman gets too stimulated, she should ask to stop. However, stopping can simply mean stopping thrusting, but try the less stimulating method I mentioned earlier. At this point, avoid touching the clitoris, as it will be uncomfortable, but touching the vaginal opening is fine. Also, the breasts... (If you don't understand, read my "Squirt Girl's Account"), at this time, areas that weren't normally major erogenous zones become very sensitive.
Another unforgettable and terrible experience was when a guy said, "Hey, you're not wet yet, lick me wet before I put it inside you." I remember that guy vividly; we were going to continue dating, but his behavior made me think he was a very selfish guy. If a girl isn't wet, it's because the guy didn't try hard enough, why should I be a customer service representative? So we broke up not long after. It wasn't that my skills in bed were bad, although they really weren't great, but I think his rudeness was the main reason.
Also, there was absolutely no warning before ejaculation, although maybe I haven't reached orgasm yet... I know guys might not be able to hold back when they want to ejaculate, but saying it makes girls feel more involved, rather than just seeing them as a vessel for release. I like it when guys say things like, "I'm going to climax with you, I'm going to give you a lot of my semen," before they ejaculate. That excites me a lot, just like how I love hearing guys moan. But don't swear. (Remember,
no matter how excited a girl is, if she says she can ejaculate inside, you shouldn't, unless she's in her safe period. Respect and equality are the foundation of a relationship and the key to perfect sex next time.)
I've met guys who are 183cm tall. Centimeters, but the penis is only the length of a thumb. The artist used a small glue bottle, do you understand? So height and penis size really have nothing to do with each other. It's true that size and girth are important, but I've encountered examples of large penises that didn't give me pleasure. So technique is still the most important. Do you expect to have superhuman stamina in your 30s and 40s?
Men's libido starts to decline after 25, but women's desires only increase during this time. I hate it when some men like to emphasize their extraordinary talent but have terrible technique. I think these kinds of people only know how to thrust, and they think they're naturally gifted and don't need to work hard.
The men who make me squirt aren't very big, but they certainly don't rely entirely on small penises to make me squirt. Both of these men's sizes are 12-13. The girth and thickness are normal. One is a bit larger, at 15 centimeters.
He can make me squirt just by thrusting, and our foreplay isn't long. But compared to him, the one with superior technique mentioned below is more comfortable for me.
Speaking of one with exceptional technique, his stamina is average; he lasts very short, and can't even thrust quickly, only for a few tens of seconds. I think if he didn't stop, he probably would ejaculate in less than ten minutes. But his strength is that he knows his penis and will pull out to rub against my vagina. I don't know if other girls do this, but when I'm being penetrated, my vagina keeps pushing outwards, like it's pushing the guy out.
He suddenly pulled out, and because the force pushing outwards suddenly lost its resistance, my fluid gushed out. After I squirted, my vagina became very tight. I've often heard people say that during sex, women become looser the more penetration goes in, or that too much fluid makes it slippery and reduces friction. I don't know if that's true, but mine didn't. The bed was already soaked with fluid. My boyfriend was once squeezed so tightly that he was forced out and went limp, I'm so sorry. So at this point, even a not-too-thick, not-too-big penis feels amazing to me.
I really like the rear-entry position, where the woman lowers her body and raises her buttocks, making it easier to hit the G-spot. Also, the rear-entry position allows for deep penetration, strong thrusts, and quick movements. For the missionary position, try having the woman lie on her side, one leg on the man's shoulder, and the other under his foot. This also allows for deep penetration and easy G-spot stimulation.
A woman's erogenous zones and sensitivity need to be developed. Many of my friends didn't experience orgasm when they first started having sex, even in the first few years. This isn't necessarily because the man's technique or talent is lacking; it's just that the body needs time to get used to certain sensations.
Next, let's talk about the 69 position. 69 is certainly great, but honestly, many women don't like it. This is because in 69, the woman is usually on top, and when her vagina is stimulated, she's already exhausted. Maintaining a prone position is difficult enough, let alone performing oral sex. It's impossible to concentrate on enjoying the experience. I prefer the man to perform oral sex on the woman first, then switch roles. Before penetration, some women may already be aroused. This involves using the penis, moistened with the woman's saliva, to gently rub the vaginal opening before starting thrusting.
This improves the quality of oral sex for both partners. Sometimes, the woman's scent is stronger, so if you don't like it, you can shower and start foreplay. Even though the man's genitals are outside, they still have a scent. So, have empathy! (But I did encounter one who smelled really bad—not from the penis, but from the feathers, which smelled like body odor. I almost threw up, but I still blew on him. Although I didn't like the smell, I couldn't be too selfish and suppress it. I just blew on him less often after that.)
Finally, everyone, please don't worry about size or time. Treat your girlfriend well, be considerate and caring about her feelings, and make her love you to death. That's much better than a womanizer who's technically skilled , naturally gifted, and has one-night stands all the time, thinking he's a savior for women. Because love is the best aphrodisiac for women.
When I give my beloved man oral sex, just his satisfied sounds and his expression of wanting to die makes me incredibly wet. Even without kissing or caressing—love alone can't bring a physical orgasm, but during sex, letting your partner feel your love can make them orgasm anytime.
Once, when I was menstruating, my partner wanted to lick me before we started having sex. I told him I was menstruating, but he said it would hurt if I stayed dry. He still licked my clitoris and the surrounding area. I was stunned. Although the licking only lasted a few minutes, I immediately orgasmed when he penetrated me.
Many people might find this hard to accept, and even I find it strange. I'm not suggesting you do it this way, but it's a kind of thoughtfulness—thoughtful words and gentle actions that make people happy. Remember, there are limits to technique.
Women will remember the guys who gave them orgasms, and they will also remember the bad ones. Which one you want to be depends on your efforts.
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Personal Comment:
I feel this girl's post has three major values, so I couldn't bear to let it go and recommended it to share with fellow forum members.
Value One:
Speaking the truth. It's rare to see a beautiful woman so openly discuss her sexual experiences, especially since the text reveals she's had many partners, is experienced, and enjoys trying different sexual positions. Therefore, her advice is highly practical.
Value Two:
Direct and to the point. Although she's a woman, she doesn't beat around the bush, uses analogies, or hesitates when discussing sex. Almost all her advice is directly addressed to men, making it particularly relatable for us guys. Value Three:
The finishing touch. While the entire piece seems to focus on sex, the final paragraphs emphasize the concept of "emotion," offering a valuable piece of advice—there's a world of difference between sex with emotion and sex without it.

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