To vindicate SM

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Due to a lack of understanding or misuse in the media, SM has become synonymous with handcuffs, whips, and sexual frenzy. However, true SM relationships encompass much more than that. All extreme forms of love carry a hint of SM, and SM can also be the ultimate enjoyment of pleasure for both partners, regardless of the consequences. Therefore, it shouldn't be translated as sadism and masochism, but rather understood as a choice of will.
I believe it cannot be called "masochism"! Nor is it the traditional male-dominated, female-submissive dynamic commonly seen in daily life. "Madness" implies being out of control and unable to restrain oneself. True SM, however, involves actively and proactively pursuing a sadistic desire, a conscious demand, not an irrational pathology.

Modern people face immense pressure in their lives. In their leisure time, they often embrace SM as a way to relieve stress, release pent-up emotions, and seek solace. This simulated and popular activity has gradually become a peculiar social phenomenon.

People need psychological balance, especially those with high blood pressure, high cholesterol, or high blood sugar. In the midst of busy work and complex social interactions, they are seen as the epitome of success, their every move scrutinized. Maintaining a polished image leaves little time or opportunity for relaxation. This "highbrow" situation makes them feel isolated and lonely, lacking the most basic joys and sorrows of life, easily leading to depression or even suicidal thoughts. This "master-servant" game allows them to experience the desire to dominate or the feeling of subservience, achieving psychological balance, and ultimately feeling elated, enjoying the pleasures of life's higher places. A

serious and cautious approach to SM is essential. Sincerity, trust, and relaxation are the foundation of all communication. SM is a game of the mind; we hope to experience joy and true release together through the conquest of the mind and stimulation of the body. SM also requires mutual obedience, patience, and loyalty. The dominant will sincerely treat every submissive, and we hope your SM sincerity and elegance originate from the soul, not just the body. An excellent submissive releases their feelings in an orderly manner, integrating their life resources through the master's guidance! Otherwise, a woman without the source of life is like a beautiful flower without water, quickly withering away.
The driving force of an excellent Do (S) stems from an innate desire for conquest. A deep understanding of SM, accumulated knowledge, and the tools of SM are the foundation. Superb perception and control will bring both Do and M into a state of spiritual release. Therefore, entering the role requires extreme calmness during the act; one must be able to be fully present yet detached. One cannot satisfy oneself first, nor can one arbitrarily indulge one's lust. During the act, one must be fully immersed and present. A servant's lowliness stems from love and respect for their master. If it is not this, but merely sexual stimulation and physical manipulation, then it is not SM.

SM originates from nature and involves emotion. Without emotion, how could he (or she) allow you to play with, beat, and humiliate them so readily? Without emotion, how could he (or she), even amidst his (or her) tyranny, constantly attend to your feelings, your emotions, your body, and your needs? And this emotion comes without any cost. Whether master or servant, there is no giving or taking beyond mutual pleasure.

SM elevates to consciousness, its excitement often soaring to a state of nothingness, to an indescribable height, reaching the ultimate excitement more profoundly than anything else. This is because the excitement originates primarily from consciousness, not from physical needs but primarily from spiritual ones. Therefore, enjoying this excitement directly connects with the soul, a release of the ultimate. Its pleasure is more pleasurable than any other pleasure because it is without pretense, without any pretense, without any delay, without any concealment. Any other form of pleasure retains some reservation, fearing accusations of being indecent, shallow, shameless, uneducated, or short-sighted. Only pleasure derived from this game is the purest, most joyful pleasure, the most unrestrained indulgence, the most open enjoyment.

SM is still a non-mainstream "thing," but it directly opens the deepest, most hidden corners of people's hearts, reaching the darkest bottom. It fully reveals one's most greedy, desireive, and naked side. There are always certain patterns and themes in men's and women's fantasies, such as a tendency towards "with a certain celebrity," "being forced," "obedience," and fantasies of "being dominated" or "dominating." Some might even dream of or fantasize about perverse things. Some women often fantasize about being naked and tied to a tree by pirates, then being "rescued" by a knight. Is this abnormal? Can we say that people who have such fantasies are abnormal?

Only when your fantasy makes you feel fear, or when you feel forced to do something that will harm yourself or him/her (in a very bad way), then you need to be careful.

In my opinion, this behavior itself has no special meaning. It shares the same meaning as hugging, kissing, shaking hands, arguing, having dinner with friends, etc. In other words, it's an event where two people have the same intention and carry it out. Such behavior can achieve unity with one's beliefs, but it's not that open-mindedness is necessary for sexual behavior to follow. Whether or not to do it depends entirely on whether I want to do it, not on whether I can do it.
Regarding "attitude updates," I believe this is a concept that humanity both deeply desires and deeply fears, yet nothing can suppress the struggle and the urge to erupt. There are still several taboo areas for humanity, areas that were previously almost untouchable. Among these, the most interesting and potentially advocatable is, of course, BDSM. In our lives, a significant portion of the silent majority are BDSM enthusiasts, while the majority of the rest are simply unaware of their BDSM liking, unaware of the darker aspects of their own nature.

In fact, everyone has BDSM elements deep within them. How many people enjoy being gently bitten, enjoy the sweet sensation accompanying the slight pain, enjoy leaving hickeys on their bodies? How many people enjoy pinning their lovers down, enjoying watching them scream or go crazy until they surrender? How many people fantasize about being treated fiercely, roughly, and coldly, yearning to tremble, innocently and pure, waiting to be trampled upon? How many people hope to see their lovers completely subjugated, meticulously serving them, deriving their perfect illusion from their adoring gaze? How many men actually crave women's feet, high heels, or stockings? And how many women are fatally drawn to bondage lingerie, twisting their arms together... deriving supreme pleasure from it?
True SM is a mental game. Most people have high intelligence because it requires a strong imagination, the ability to quickly and thoroughly enter the prescribed scenario, otherwise, it becomes unplayable. It demands a certain amount of performance talent, or at least a strong sense of "belief." I think fantasizing is a very sophisticated, superhuman level. SM begins with the mind engaging in sexual activity. When a person imagines themselves humiliating or being humiliated, the body gradually reaches orgasm. I think being sensitive to this level is truly advanced! In the course of SM, everything is pleasurable, provocative, and stimulating. For example, taking off clothes, putting on a blindfold, putting on a gag, licking... the S sitting on the M's face—these may not seem like normal sexual acts, but for SM enthusiasts, they all possess strong sexual connotations. The crucial element isn't relentlessly pushing for climax, but rather intentionally delaying. In other words, it's about waiting—nothing values "waiting" more than BDSM. Waiting is a vital aspect of Dominance. A skilled Dominant can make waiting thrilling, varied, and endlessly tantalizing, constantly whetting the appetite. When a Submissive is filled with fear and anticipation, shame intensified by their expectations, the quiet waiting becomes a painful torment, yet also a sweet radiator, amplifying desire infinitely. The happiest moment isn't the instant desire is fulfilled, but the process of waiting for it to arrive.
BDSM differs from sex in this respect: from beginning to end, it doesn't consider final penetration as the goal, but rather the endless realms beforehand as the climax. Or rather, it values the process more than any other form of sex, not the outcome.
Perhaps you also harbor BDSM desires deep down; admit it, there's no shame in it.

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