The wife confessed to her husband about her past relationship with her first love (A Unique Story - Su Jingbo's Article)

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I barely slept all night. At 6:20 AM, my phone rang.
"Getting ready to come back, checking out."

I replied, "How many times did it last night?"

"2."

I couldn't believe it. Such a great opportunity, and only twice all night? I quickly asked, "Did you do it this morning?"

"No."

I continued, "Did you orgasm?"

"Once, a little."

I confirmed again, "You orgasmed a second time?"

"Hmm."

I continued, "Was this date worth it?"

"So-so, I'm off."
Although I was very curious and wanted to know more, my wife was driving, so I didn't ask any more questions.
Around 8:00 AM, my wife arrived home. She seemed normal. My mother and the kids were already up, so we kept quiet about it.
After going to work in the morning, I couldn't hold back anymore and contacted my wife on QQ to find out everything that happened last night.
Me: Honey, are you busy?

Wife: Not busy.

Me: I miss you. Did your first love make you feel good last night? Honestly,

Wife: Yes.

Me: How long did he last the second time?

Wife: About the same as you

. Me: Did he spend more time foreplaying the second time?

Wife: I didn't tease you much

. Me: Do you feel more passion with him than with me?

Wife: What is passion? It's just being more impulsive.

Me: Hmm, do you like it?

Wife: I like it.

Me: Then I'll know where to focus my efforts.

Wife: Don't look around. I like relationships where there's mutual affection.

Me: I definitely can't just find a mistress, but this will give you more opportunities to meet excellent people.

Wife: I won't look anymore. I feel so amazing even like this.

Me: I won't deliberately look. I'll just pay a little more attention than usual. If I meet someone I like, I won't suppress my feelings and will express them boldly. That's okay. It's not amazing, it's a normal thing. It's just that thousands of years of traditional ideas have stifled human nature.

Wife: I won't do it.

Me: Whatever. Anyway, I think life is very short. I just want you to live an exceptionally wonderful life, radiant and dazzling, like a shining star... I want what other women can get, you can get too; what other women can't get, you can get too. Can you understand?

Wife: No, my first love asked me, who is more comfortable, him or you?

Me: Did you answer? If he doesn't answer, ask him the same question. Let him answer first.

Wife: Haha, okay.

Me: What did he say?

Wife: He didn't say anything

. Me: I really want to get off work and go home quickly. I want you, wife.
Me: Did he ask you if you had an orgasm?

Wife: He hasn't asked

me yet. Men care about whether they can conquer the woman they love, so he will definitely ask. Wife, do you like to do it with him?

Wife: Occasionally.

Me: Then make him your long-term goal, and try to have an opportunity once every year or two.

Wife: Hmm.

Me: Of course, actually, you don't need to deliberately strive for this goal. It will happen naturally. After last night's intimacy, he will definitely come here whenever he has the chance [smirking].

Wife: Not necessarily.

Me: I want to hug you. Which of the three men (first love, ex-boyfriend, and me) do you think likes you the most?

Wife: You. Do you even need to ask?

Me: And who do you like the most?

Wife: You. You don't need to ask me either

. Hahaha.

Me: Did he answer your question?

Wife: No, he's sleeping.

Me: You've exhausted him, haven't you? [Smug]

Wife: Haha... Anyway, he said

he was so tired. Me: Do you feel accomplished?

Wife: Haha... He said he carried me to sleep and held my hand. Are you jealous?

Me: As long as you're by my side, I'm not jealous. I feel very secure. But to be honest, when you went to be intimate with your first love and left me alone at home, I felt really sad, but I also felt that even if I felt sad, it was worth it.

Wife: I understand. I'm sorry, honey.
Me: I guess he must have made you feel really good. Just thinking about it made me so excited that I couldn't sleep... How can I say sorry?! This is what I wanted. I should thank my wife for this blessing. I really want to sit next to you and hold you. I don't want to go to work...

Wife: It's not that bad. I'm not running away

. Me: I just want to be close to you.

Wife: Oh, control yourself.

Me: This feeling is like being in love. Can you control yourself?

Wife: Sigh, it's always like this.

Me: Every time, the feelings escalate.

Wife: Oh.
Me: I feel our feelings have far surpassed those of a married couple.

Wife: What is that?

Me: Like conjoined twins, sharing a heart. When you're happy, I'm happy too. When you're excited, I'm excited too. The blood we bleed is mixed together, indistinguishable…

Wife: Aren't you being too sentimental?

Me: Separation feels like death.

Wife: Ugh, that's dangerous, you need to be independent [emoji]

. Me: I'm just stating my true feelings, that's how I feel. Not seeing you leaves my heart empty, like no blood is flowing…

Wife: Please restrain yourself, you're at work now.

Me: Ugh, I feel so empty and anxious…

Wife: You're at work, okay?

Be good. Me: Of course I'm good. Wife, do you still think I'm a pervert?

Wife: Don't be too extreme, just let things take their course, haha.

Me: Am I too extreme?

Wife: Not lately.

Me: Sometimes I can't control myself. By the way, did you two not use a condom the second time? Wife: I checked, it should

be fine, I went to the toilet and washed up.

Me: You mean your first love went to the toilet and washed up after the first time he had sex with you?

Wife: Yes.

Me: Yeah, it's definitely fine.
Me: Next time you go, can you take me with you? Wife

: Sure.

Me: Thank you, honey, otherwise I'll be so lonely.

Wife: That is, only if the kids aren't home.

Me: Hmm, there's still a chance. When the kids go back to their hometown for holidays, or when they're in school, but it seems so unlikely…

Wife: They'll be starting elementary school soon.

Me: Hmm, then I'll just wait patiently.

Wife: Really? We just had it last night, it's impossible to have three meals a day.

Me: Of course, if you eat hot pot all the time, it loses its charm.

Wife: Hmm . Me: Honey
… did he answer your question? Comparison with his wife

. Wife: No, he's not online.

Me: Ugh, I think I want to know the answer even more than you do. Ask again when it's appropriate, okay? But don't ask too aggressively, let him bring up a similar topic first before you ask. I'm really curious.

Wife: Yes.

Me: Do you want to know?

Wife: Yes

. Me: Haha, I think you're definitely more comfortable, hahaha.

Wife: I still think you're more comfortable.

Me: Then why do you think I'm more comfortable than him? I feel like he should be more comfortable, after all, hot pot is more precious.

Wife: Anyway, it's more comfortable.

Me: I just want to know what the difference is?

Wife: I feel like it might be because you love me. I can sense it deep down.

Me: I don't know, but psychologically speaking, someone who isn't easy to get is more likely to move you. I'm the kind that's easily within reach, while he is not. And you liked him too, so it shouldn't be the outcome you described.

Wife: So it's because I don't like him? I don't really like him. I don't feel my heart racing.
Wife: Maybe I can't feel his affection, so I don't like him either.

Me: That doesn't make sense. If you didn't like him, you wouldn't let him into your body, given your current mindset.
Wife: It doesn't matter if it's a third wheel. It's just for fun. He seems safer, haha... Anyway, it won't drag on.

Me: I've been wondering if other men are any different.
Wife: If someone doesn't like me, even if I like them, it quickly turns into dislike. There is a difference.

Me: What difference? Can you describe it?

Wife: I already said it, physiological and psychological feelings.
Me: Think about it carefully, explain in detail, what exactly is the difference?

Wife: It's easier to get excited before it starts, but after it starts, we're not very compatible. I want that moment when my mind and body are only focused on you, but he doesn't seem to care, so I don't like it.
Me: Why don't you sort out your feelings and share them with me, make it a little more systematic? Don't be afraid I'll feel sad; actually, this slightly bitter feeling is also a kind of enjoyment. You can imagine, it's like when we were deeply in love, I always liked to tease another girl, making you feel a little empty inside, sometimes lost and confused. Even though you know I'm yours, you still get jealous. Actually, this feeling is also a kind of enjoyment. Most people don't have the chance to experience this feeling after marriage, but it's truly wonderful. You can imagine...
Wife: That's what I was thinking, nothing more. I just want him to treat me the way you treat me. Haha...
Me: Of course, you hope for more than just him; you definitely hope that many people you like will treat you like I do. That's normal. People always want to be the center of attention, to be cherished by more people, so you feel more important. I'm asking you to sort out your feelings related to sex, not your emotions...
Wife: I'm not exaggerating; I just wanted to think about the moment. I didn't feel anything. Me: I think you're not good at summarizing, and
you lack the ability to capture subtle feelings. This will cause you to miss out on many wonderful experiences... I'm particularly good at this; I savor every moment. Haha, I really enjoy it...
Wife: Exactly, you didn't tell me to appreciate it first. Pay attention next time. Besides, I'm not as attentive as you.
Me: This isn't about telling you and then you doing it. That would only distract you and ruin the fun.

Wife: Oh.

Me: Go to work.

Wife: Oh.

Me: You don't seem to like talking about this with me [emoji], you're just worried about me feeling empty, so you keep me company. Haha.
Wife: I don't think you've taken it too seriously .
Reflection:
A wife, encouraged by her husband, had a one-night stand with her first love.
Yes, a very sincere, simple, and extremely vivid dialogue.
The story seems simple, but it conveys a lot of information.
The wife in the story seems carefree, but she understands what's important and knows that sexual intimacy is the best and most pleasurable thing, and if that's not possible, a clean and uninhibited physical indulgence is also good.
She understands where love truly belongs and that physical infidelity won't jeopardize her marriage.
Her description of her affair with her first love is concise; she's grateful for her husband's magnanimity and knows how to protect his vulnerability.
The husband in the story is an adventurer. Confident in the foundation of their relationship, he throws his wife like a boomerang, letting her experience passion while simultaneously feeling a bittersweet happiness of "losing and regaining" or "the anxiety of loss."
Happiness that's always been there is too comforting, causing everyone to overlook it.

Only happiness that's about to be lost, seemingly unstable, rare—the happiness of holding sand in your hand, the happiness on the crest of a wave, the happiness of a monthly full moon, the happiness of snow melting under the sun—truly shines brightly and dazzles.

This is probably the pleasure of marital infidelity, or rather, the pleasure of condoning one's spouse's extramarital affairs, including both physical and emotional infidelity. It's also a good test of trust and loyalty between spouses. As mentioned in the dialogue above, because of something, the two suddenly became very clingy, like conjoined twins…
But this method isn't suitable for everyone.
It's especially undesirable for those who only want to indulge themselves and are forced to use their wives as pawns or objects in exchange for their own pleasure. When
your marital relationship is good, you'll naturally have the confidence and resources to let go.

Finally, thank you to this friend for their selfless sharing.
I really, really enjoyed their conversation.

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