The significance of doing all this, as explained in the WeChat official account article, was quite well said.

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Have you ever stopped to think about the meaning of doing this?
Original 2017-12-15 COUPLES

Whether you're a seasoned veteran in the sea of desire, a new couple still exploring, or a single man searching for love, have you ever stopped to think about the meaning of 3P or swapping? Or to put it another way, is it meaningful?

It seems the admin has raised a crucial question. I'll try to answer it, and please forgive any shortcomings.

I. Why engage in 3P or swapping? Of course, it's to pursue the ultimate physical and mental pleasure. Moreover, for couples, ordinary daily sex naturally experiences a diminishing marginal effect—decreasing pleasure—as time and frequency increase. Simply put, you get tired of it. After all, it's always just the two of you in one bed, with limited variety. That's when you need to introduce new elements, new stimulation. There are many options, such as toys, role-playing, outdoor activities, SM, etc., and 3P and swapping are also among them. From this perspective, 3P and swapping, as new forms of fun, enrich the sexual experience between couples. (Of course, some say we have love, so we'll never get tired of it, but perhaps it just takes longer to get tired of it.)

Secondly, threesomes and swapping are essentially a kind of fetish; sexual fetishes are fetishes too. Since it's a fetish, it must have meaning. Otherwise, chess, fishing, music, and shopping would all be fetishes, and wouldn't they all be meaningless? Sexual fetishes also possess the meaning of pleasing the mind and body, cultivating character, and so on. The late Ming Dynasty writer Zhang Dai said, "One cannot associate with someone who has no fetishes, for they lack deep feelings." The author adds, "Flowers, birds, fish, insects, music, chess, calligraphy,

and painting—how boring it would be for a person without fetishes!" Some might say, "Normal hobbies are normal hobbies, but yours is perverted!" Well, that's related to the national context. In China, anything labeled as sexual is considered immoral and scandalous. Even a "Sex Education Reader for Elementary School Students" can scare them. I can only say, those who walk different paths cannot make plans together. Besides, does someone who isn't perverted at all necessarily mean they're a normal person? In the opinion of the admin, someone who isn't perverted at all is the real pervert.

Thirdly, it's important to recognize that marital friendships aren't all positive; they also have negative aspects. These include unrestrained indulgence, the damage to social morality, and the impact on marital relationships. We won't discuss these negative aspects in detail today, but simply state that only by acknowledging their existence can we avoid or mitigate them.

For example, regarding indulgence, we must learn to balance our lives with friendships. The admin has repeatedly emphasized that life includes more than just sex; it also includes work, family, daily life, and even more exciting fetishes waiting to be discovered. As for the damage to social morality, that's easy to handle—just keep it a secret. If you can't fight it, you can avoid it. Regarding the impact on marriage, it requires mutual respect and understanding between spouses.

In short, marital friendships are meaningful, and the ideal we strive for is also meaningful. Since it's meaningful, we can pursue it wholeheartedly, and only with meaning can we stay true to our original intentions and continue moving forward.

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