Even grown birds can't go to just any forest.

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The National Day holiday has been over for several days now. Since I didn't have any travel plans, I spent most of my time browsing 69. Through chatting, I met quite a few friends from Shenzhen and all over the country, and I was also lucky enough to meet some sincere couples. Although we didn't chat for long, I still received invitations from some of them. I would like to express my gratitude for their trust and enthusiasm. At the same time, I would also like to apologize to them. Perhaps because I haven't been in this circle for very long, although I really want to go out and experience it, it's my first time, and I need some time to clear up some of my concerns and worries before I can give you an answer. If you happen to read this article, I hope you can understand!
"There are all kinds of birds in a big forest." After communicating with different people for a few days, I feel the same way as many friends. This is also the main purpose of this article. I want to talk about the point that many friends mentioned when making friends: "looking for people with good manners or high manners." Here, I would like to share my thoughts with you. Please feel free to correct me if I am wrong.
First, the so-called manners
. Objectively speaking, things generally have two extremes. Many netizens explicitly state in their dating profiles requirements such as "seeking well-mannered couples" or "high-quality friendships." It's safe to say that the quality of these netizens falls into two extremes: one extreme represents those with excellent character and other qualities, who understandably seek partners of similar character; the other extreme represents some netizens with poor character and manners, who, like a toad lusting after a swan, deliberately fill in "high-quality" in their profiles to attract attention and gain popularity. Therefore, we hope that everyone will conduct a self-assessment when filling out their profiles, truthfully reflecting their own situation. A little embellishment is acceptable (but don't be too pretentious), as this will help you find more suitable, like-minded friends. While setting expectations for others, we hope everyone's own qualities are not too poor. As for those who claim to be "high-quality" in their profiles but whose claims are difficult to verify, I believe that as long as we put more effort into our conversations, it shouldn't take long for us to judge whether they are truly "high-quality." Of course, during the communication process, don't just focus on "testing" whether others are high-quality and forget to make friends sincerely. Otherwise, others won't feel your so-called "quality and sincerity." Although it's a bit contradictory, I hope everyone remembers that sincerity is the most important thing!
Second, some common mistakes to avoid:
1. "Are we that close?" and spamming shake windows.
Many people register a QQ account specifically for making friends, but such accounts are generally not online often. After all, everyone has normal lives and work, and swapping partners is just something to do occasionally to add some fun to married life. Usually, many people's QQ accounts are actually online but in invisible mode. So, in the early stages of communication, when chatting with someone, please ask if they have time, send an emoji, shake hands to ask for their consent before starting. Don't spam their screen or send shake windows all the time.
2. "Damn, what kind of chat is this? I've been waiting the whole time."
When chatting frequently, we inevitably have to communicate with several people simultaneously. Sometimes this can be overwhelming, and we might go a long time without replying to someone. Sometimes we get so engrossed in one conversation that we neglect everyone else. In such situations, if you're busy, tell others you'll contact them later. This way, they don't have to wait at their computers, constantly checking if you're typing.
3. My wife isn't a prostitute.
"Is your wife big-breasted?" "Is your wife sexy and wanton?" "How's your wife's vagina? Is it tight? Is she wet?"... Some men probably think their wives are lacking in certain aspects and don't meet their needs, so they want to go to a brothel to satisfy themselves. So, they come in like "a customer looking for a prostitute." Although there's no "bargaining," their "beastly" nature is very obvious. So, if you don't like this kind of person, you can just say, "Did I take your money? My wife isn't a prostitute, why are you being so picky!"
4. Long, thick, and skilled? Master, do you think you're choosing a monk?
"Top-notch" men are seen as "beasts," and "top-notch" women are seen as "cheap goods" (no offense intended, but the tone is a bit harsh). Both men and women have their own desires; men have their own types of lust, and so do women. If we're the same type, then it's a perfect match, a mutually satisfying union. If we're from different backgrounds, and we encounter a woman with many demands, if we're not compatible, we shouldn't offend her; after all, gentlemanly conduct is still necessary!
5. My wife was just here, then she said she was on a business trip.
We chatted, and some things felt more and more compatible, while others faded. We even arranged a video call, but after everything was ready, she said, "My wife is away on a business trip." This is what a netizen told me. I was a little angry after hearing this. How can she do that? If it's not suitable, just say so! Why pretend to be all lovey-dovey? Besides, at least come up with a better excuse that's more acceptable.
6. Oh dear, is this flirting? Or is it flirting?
Don't tell me you haven't found the right one after browsing for so long. The purpose of partner swapping is to add fun to life, to do things you never dared to do before, and to say things that can provoke your senses. I don't personally support "very explicit or violent" practices during the exchange, but mutual flirting can arouse the sexual interest of both partners, increase emotional weight, and is also a form of appreciation for each other. So, if you want to find more suitable couples or partners, don't just open your mouth and drool, staring at other people's wives' bodies; flirting is still necessary.
7. Don't think I'm stupid; don't use other people's photos to seduce me.
Photos should be real for genuine friendships. To be pleasing to the eye, try to post attractive photos. Regardless of beauty or ugliness, everyone wants to be seen in a pleasing way. For naturally beautiful people, a few photos can easily attract a group of admirers; but for those who are less attractive, it's not so easy, since most people judge by appearance. To cater to this, we can choose a few good-looking close-up photos or artistic photos to attract popularity. Only with popularity can we have the opportunity to meet more people. For those who see a difference between someone's photo and the real person, there's no need to complain that they've been deceived. Everyone appreciates beauty, and the person sending the photo wanted to make you feel comfortable. Besides, it's essential to respect their dignity.
8. I'm only interested in your body.
While the ultimate pleasure of partner swapping lies in the exchange of sex, and the body's role in stimulating desire is undeniable, some couples even enjoy direct and explicit verbal flirting during initial conversations. However, this can lead to excessive physical desire permeating the entire swapping process, leaving only a tired body after the passion fades, which is a bit of a shame. If it were changed to: "I not only like you, but I also like your body," it might offer a different perspective. But never say: "I not only like your body, but I've fallen for you even more." This violates the true meaning of "partner swapping."
9. I want to know who you are?
As you chat, you become familiar, and as you get closer, things get better, and then it's time to go to a hotel! The process of making friends takes time; you can't rush things, especially if you're looking to sleep with them. Also, if the other person isn't willing to share too much personal information, don't pry. Just make sure you both understand the sole purpose of the encounter. As long as you both experience genuine passion and enjoyment in the end, that's enough. Many people who have had one-night stands even hope they won't recognize each other if they bump into each other on the street. You don't need to care too much about who they are.
10. Getting caught up in this is not something you can afford to play!
First of all, it's certain that many couples who accept partner swapping are deeply in love and have a profound emotional bond. More importantly, they are unlikely to find such a compatible and sexually compatible life partner again. However, it's possible that some couples might develop restless thoughts after the swapping session, which is the most undesirable situation: "I'm not only attracted to your body, I've fallen for you more." Therefore, think carefully before making any crazy moves. After all, you may have not only a man (woman) behind you, but also a child and a family. Remember: the purpose of partner swapping is to increase the fun in life, not to destroy it!
Third, Single Men (Women) and Couples (Couples):
What's wrong with single men (women)? Often, when it comes to the issue of threesomes between couples, we hear the term "losing out."
First, let's analyze where the couple is supposedly "losing out." In threesomes, especially between single men and couples, many husbands feel they are giving away their wives' bodies. They believe the husband is getting a huge advantage by sharing his wife's body with another single man, and that he's getting a free benefit, even if it's voluntary. From the wife's perspective, the husband is usually the one who initiates most "partner swapping" games. It's rare for the wife to suggest it first; in most couples, it's the husband who, through extensive persuasion, emotional communication, and his own desires, gets his wife to agree. Therefore, when it comes to threesomes between single men and couples, the wife often sees it from her husband's perspective, believing she's at a disadvantage. This leads to situations where, from the very beginning, the single man is in a position of "taking advantage," meaning the couple has to make all the demands. This often results in awkward situations where the single man has to provide personal information, send photos, and video chat before the chat, or the couple won't let him see these things during the video chat. In my opinion, while it's true that single men (or women) and married couples cannot be on equal footing—married couples have a much wider range of choices—I hope married couples won't deliberately widen the status gap or overuse their perceived advantage. After all, sometimes, if a single man (or woman) shows great sincerity and you can't even meet their small requests, you'll miss many suitable opportunities.
However, is it only the married couple who "lose out" in threesomes? From a single man's perspective, enjoying another man's wife is undeniably "getting something for nothing." In fact, couples who are good at interpersonal relationships or have good manners take things slowly when communicating with single men. While they do need to see photos and videos, they don't force it. When a single man takes the initiative to show sincerity, they are happy to accept. Their attitude of not forcing things and letting things happen naturally is better, as it avoids petty calculations during conversations that could diminish their sincerity in making friends. Furthermore, to be honest, single men also suffer, as not all single men are promiscuous. Conversely, doesn't the married couple also "profit"? If you and your spouse always feel you're "losing out," then why are you even looking for single men (or women)? Why not just go with couples and avoid feeling cheated? I firmly believe that no one does business at a loss, which means that single men (or women) have significant value and prove that you can also benefit from them. From this perspective, you're not only not losing out, but actually gaining. Without single men (or women), where would the passion and fun of a threesome come from?
Finally, regardless of the circumstances, I hope that when couples are socializing, single men (or women) will show more sincerity, and married couples will show more respect. After all, everyone is out looking for fun and excitement; why make so many claims of "losing out" or "profiting"?
Fourth, we are all couples (lovers).
First of all, I want to declare that because I am currently single, I may not have a thorough understanding of certain issues related to "partner swapping" between couples, and I don't have many personal feelings about it. I mainly learned about it from netizens and some emotional sharing in forums, so I won't say more here for fear of making a fool of myself. I'll leave this blank for now and hope to fill in the gaps later when I have more insights.
In summary: Returning to the main topic, after the brief sharing above, I believe some of you understand the meaning of the title. What I want to express is that when starting a chat, please don't be too overtly purposeful, immediately asking for photos or video calls. After all, most people prefer to chat first, getting to know each other's situations or showing mutual interest before considering further communication (except for those who engage in quick chats). Another point worth noting is that some netizens, despite agreeing to exchange photos or videos, become dissatisfied after the other person sends the photos or starts a video call, without clearly telling the other person it's inappropriate, and then simply ignore them without a word. If you're looking for people with good manners to communicate with, where are your own manners? This brief explanation serves as a conclusion to the article.

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