Female-M masochistic psychology

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Why do women enjoy masochism
? What are the psychological reasons?
Masochism stems from female instincts. Surveys show that 80% of women have masochistic tendencies, which seems difficult to understand. However, if we look at this from the perspective of animal behavior, it becomes easier to comprehend. Female animals have two instincts: sexual instinct and the instinct to gain security or satisfaction under male control (which can also be understood as subservience).
Sexuality is not only a male instinct but also a female instinct, though it is severely suppressed
in the animal world. Sexual desire is a female animal's instinct; rape, gang rape,
adultery, and even incest frequently occur, and animals are not ashamed because mating during estrus is beneficial for reproduction—a result of natural selection. In human society, these behaviors are prohibited, but this doesn't mean that humans instinctively dislike them. Women are essentially female animals, but through education in human society, women have developed a sense of shame, hiding their animalistic instincts. However, these instincts haven't disappeared but have entered their subconscious. Studies have found that many women have dreams of being raped, gang-raped, or committing incest. Human instincts are often deeply repressed in the subconscious; only during dreams does this repression relax, allowing the subconscious to surface and become dreams. Subservience is also an important female instinct
. Subservience is a crucial instinct in female animals. In the animal kingdom, especially among social animals (such as gorillas, monkeys, lions, hippos, etc.), a common characteristic is that a very small number (even just one) of males hold a dominant position in the group, while numerous females are under their control. Female animals find it difficult to survive and raise offspring alone outside the group; therefore, they are forced to attach themselves to the dominant male, willingly submitting to the male leader's control (becoming his slave). Compared to gaining freedom but without security, female animals prefer to lose
freedom for security, because only in this way can they survive and reproduce. This is entirely a result of natural selection; it can be said that nature has cultivated the subservience of female animals.
Women, as female animals, also possess this so-called "nu" instinct—
the ability to gain a strong sense of security and satisfaction only under the complete control of a man. This is an instinct. Note that, like social animals, not every male has the opportunity to control other females; only the strongest male in the group has this opportunity. The same applies to humans. Most men are not strong enough to control women; this ability is possessed only by a few outstanding men. The monogamous system promoted by human society has allowed many mediocre men to have the opportunity to reproduce, but this also directly results in outstanding men not being able to legally control more women. However, women's nu-like instinct as female animals still exists; they crave to be
controlled by a strong man to gain security and satisfaction. This is the root of the pleasure that SM games can bring to women. Understanding this, a dominant should be more aware that only by becoming one of the elite in society can one be more
qualified to have female nuns, which is why SM is called an aristocratic game. Unsuccessful men are not qualified to call themselves dominant.
How to identify an excellent male S?
In my interactions with female Ms, I've found that many believe S is innate, possessing an inherent quality. This is a misconception. First, nothing is innate. Second, due to societal ethical constraints, men's desire for control is often suppressed; otherwise, society would be filled with violence, bloodshed, and war. We often find that excellent male Ss are, in daily life, refined in appearance, gentle in temperament, calm, and confident, rather than violent, impatient, or strong men. This is because the latter tend to overemphasize self-gratification and superficial dominance, failing to provide true release for their female slaves. Therefore, female slaves should never perceive their master as a stern or brute, nor should they equate beatings, scoldings, humiliation, and violence with the entirety of a master's role—this is far too simplistic.
From this perspective, a good S should possess the following characteristics:
1. Sufficient financial strength. Owning a house and a car is a basic requirement; having their own private room is considered a plus. They must be able to provide each female slave with a good living environment, although not every female slave necessarily needs it.
2. Sufficient time. Money alone isn't enough; you also need plenty of time to be considered a true aristocrat. Playing a female submissive requires a significant time commitment; those without time won't excel.
3. Sufficient self-control. Having money and time alone doesn't guarantee a dominant role. Many male submissives also possess these qualities, but only those with strong
control have a chance to become excellent submissives.
4. Sufficient love and kindness. Submissives need more than just sadism; they need love to fully ignite their submissive instincts and make them wholeheartedly devoted to the role. A simple and brutal approach doesn't make a good submissive.
What kind of woman is suitable to be a female submissive? Theoretically, every woman has
the potential to be a submissive; the key is who plays the role.
Women with the following characteristics are more likely to be submissive:
1. Women with a fit and well-proportioned figure. While not all women can be beautiful,
a good figure is essential, as many bondage positions require good flexibility and stamina.
2. Women with strong sexual desires. They are physically sensitive and crave intense and prolonged orgasms.
Those with low libido are not suitable.
3. Sensitive, able to easily perceive others' emotions, and easily influenced by suggestion. A dull
, carefree person is not suitable for being a submissive. In a crowd, passive, perceptive, and sentimental women are good candidates for female slaves.
4. Rich imagination. Women who enjoy art and literature.
What is the purpose of training a female submissive?
The fundamental reason why female submissives like SM lies in their instincts, namely sexual instincts and submissive instincts. The purpose of training is to stimulate these two instincts, making them completely unbound by social ethics and morality during the training process, acting entirely based on instinct.
Compared with animals, humans are obviously less happy because they rely more on instinct to live, do not engage in complex thinking, and therefore do not experience much pain. Educated people, while possessing the ability to think, are also bound by morality and cannot experience the same happiness as animals. The training process of SM is a process of letting people abandon thinking and return to animal instincts, thus bringing them complete release and ultimate pleasure. This is the essence of SM.
Anyone who has experienced this kind of pleasure is unable to resist its allure. Who can truly fight against their instincts?
Of course, since humans cannot live in isolation from society, the possibility of relying entirely on instinct is unlikely. Therefore, this ultimate pleasure of returning to one's instincts can only be experienced during sexual intercourse. Furthermore, due to ethical and moral constraints, many people never dare to take this step in their entire lives.

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