Ethical discussion on couples' friendships

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I believe that couples who can truly make friends are at a very high level!
Firstly
, they can reach a consensus; otherwise, it wouldn't be called "changing partners," it would be "stealing."
Secondly, they genuinely care about each other's happiness, finding joy in the other's happiness; otherwise, they wouldn't do it openly but secretly.
Thirdly, they must want to maintain the family's existence to negotiate and resolve issues related to...; otherwise, they would be indifferent and unmoved by such problems. Considering these points, making friends is a good thing, certainly not a poison to family life.
The main difference between humans and animals is that humans are shy and hide what they consider undesirable. Thus, the body is often covered by clothing, especially the reproductive system, which is the most crucial part of the body to conceal. Consequently, the function of the reproductive system gradually transformed from a simple reproductive function into a private act, and later became associated with love and affection. The act of lovemaking became known as sexual intercourse, existing only between lovers. Because the consequence of sex can be "death," to control population, sex, marriage, and family were linked together, leading to the common belief that sexual intercourse is the exclusive domain of married couples.
The family is a cell of social life, essential for a stable existence. Maintaining harmony within a family involves multiple aspects: love, obligations, and responsibilities. Thus, the state has laws and regulations to protect marriage and uphold the family. But does sex truly exist only within the family?
Love is a need! Like hunger and thirst, it's a physiological requirement. Eating and drinking tea don't seem to be the sole domain of the family, and it's impossible for sex to exist only within the family and marriage! Therefore, extramarital and premarital sex are rampant in today's society, often disguised as love, attempting to elicit sympathy and understanding.
In reality, physiologically speaking, sex is sex, unrelated to love or family; it's something to do when you want, simple and clear. Emotionally speaking, sex and love are indeed inseparable. Humans are emotional beings, and having sex with someone you have no feelings for is a terrible thing! However, love doesn't necessarily lead to sex, because sex is indeed a higher level than ordinary emotions. Families who engage in sex swapping must have love in their relationships, which is why they consider each other's perspectives rather than simply seeking personal pleasure. Moreover, this love is of a very high level; they would only agree to accept sex swapping if their partner's happiness is their own.
Imagine if a wife enjoys getting her hair done, and a male hairdresser skillfully strokes her hair—would the husband object? If a wife enjoys beauty treatments, and a male beautician massages her face and forehead with smooth fingers—would the husband object? If a husband enjoys drinking and playing drinking games with several women, would the wife object? If a husband is tired and wants a massage or foot reflexology, and a female masseuse does it for him—would the wife object? Most families would accept any of these options. So why not give your partner an opportunity when they enjoy intimacy but you are unable to provide it? Why confine sex to family and marriage?
Some say sexual disharmony is the root of all crime, perhaps not, but the inability to fulfill desires is certainly the root of all disharmony. There's a culture to eating, a variety of drinks, and different kinds of sex. So, perhaps dating is truly a way to address the lack of passion and the blandness of many families where only affection exists?
In families where dating exists, men are tolerant, women are generous, and families where dating exists are likely stable. I think they don't intend to destroy anything but simply want to offer each other a fresher, more exciting experience; love governs their lives! I see nothing dirty or shameful in these families. Perhaps I have some lewd thoughts myself?
I feel that as understanding of sex deepens, more and more families will accept dating.

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