(Repost) A woman's sexual liberation begins with sexual fantasies.

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Sexual fantasies exist in your subconscious, permeating every pore of your being, and can involuntarily arouse your sexual desire and physical organs. Women, especially those considered promiscuous, often consciously or unconsciously brew the "honey of sexual fantasies" in their minds, psychologically preparing for the next sexual encounter with a man. Women with rich sexual fantasies are generally easily aroused; so-called sexiness comes not only from physical allure but also from the ability to generate sexual fantasies. In fact, the definitions of sexy women and sexy men are the same. A truth is that people who lack sexual fantasies lead dull and uninteresting lives. Sexual fantasies and pornography are two different things; not all fantasies will necessarily become reality, which is precisely the advantage of fantasy. Sexologists point out that without sexual fantasies during sexual intercourse, it is difficult to achieve orgasm.

1. Sexual fantasies about real-life partners

: Like men, women first use their real-life sexual partners as objects of sexual fantasies, imagining making love with their lovers in ways they can imagine. The reason is simple: besides emotional factors, various sexual fantasies are most likely to be realized only through physical intimacy. It turns out that such sexual fantasies often more easily arouse pleasure during sex between lovers, preventing them from becoming bored.

2. Fantasizing about having sex with another man

. For women, they often fantasize about having sex with former lovers. Many women, after having such thoughts, doubt themselves, wondering if they are sexually frigid or feel guilty about their feelings for the other person. Therefore, once they have this "insincere" thought, they begin to secretly blame themselves and restrain themselves. Psychological questionnaire results show that almost all women, even when having sex with the most stimulating man, have more or less had this kind of "fantasy" about former lovers.

The type of fantasy about having sex with another man is: the object of the fantasy is usually a man who is "possibly possible, but not possible," a relationship that may not be possible due to moral reasons or other regrettable reasons (such as disability, AIDS, or geographical distance). Of course, women should abandon the idea of "having sex with all the men they like," but a momentary "improper thought" does not mean deceiving their partner or being sexually indifferent.

Another type is fantasizing about having sex with "unattainable" men, often public figures, stemming from a kind of "celebrity worship," common among teenage girls and young women. There's also a category of fantasies with "general objects," such as muscular, large-breasted men, violent criminals, or youthful-looking boys. These fantasies are more likely to arouse a woman's sexual desire than the average person.

3. Fantasizing about having sex with another woman .

Compared to men, more girls fantasize about having sex with other women, perhaps because it's more socially acceptable for women than for men, and fewer women worry about being labeled as lesbians. The object of the fantasy is usually a stranger, but they can accurately imagine what would happen between them.

4. Fantasizing about new ways of having sex.

This can also cause many "good girls" to feel guilty about "inappropriate" behavior, or fear their boyfriends' disapproval or unfounded suspicions. But they all know that even just imagining it in their minds can produce pleasure similar to real sex. Open-minded, free-spirited women often indulge in fantasies, but the expectation of real sexual experience diminishes afterward. These fantasies include "sweet threesomes," group sex solely for the purpose of sexual release, and voyeurism. The most common fantasy is promiscuity in public. This is not just about arousing their partner's desire, but also about satisfying themselves.

5. Fantasies of men performing oral sex on them:

For many women, oral sex is perhaps the most common and stimulating (and for some, even the only) form of indulgence, so it's not hard to understand why it's a common fantasy for almost all women. In a woman's fantasy, the man is always strong, handsome, tall, and sexy. He not only satisfies her special desires through oral sex out of love, but also displays intense passion, performing oral sex on her for hours, becoming her slave to desire… a pounding heart, rapid breathing, tense muscles… the man smears honey, ice cream, strawberries, cream, or adorns the woman with flowers… However, unfortunately, most women can only keep this desire in their sexual dreams.

6. Romantic Sexual Fantasies

Almost all women will readily admit this, as it is the most easily accepted and talked-about type of "sexual fantasy." If a woman says, "I dreamed that I was making love with a handsome young man on a sunny tropical beach," it is certainly more feminine than saying, "I dreamed of giving oral sex to a strong policeman." More reserved women dream of being on the beach, in the mountains, in castles, or in manors, under the shade of willows, on a small boat, in the sunlight, or in the moonlight… The scenes differ, and the language used varies, but in numerous surveys, almost no woman denies having had such or such romantic sexual fantasies.

7. Sexual Fantasies of Being "Raped":

Many women have fantasized about being "safely" raped. This might seem ridiculous, unbelievable, or far removed from reality to some. Women who fantasize about being "raped" focus primarily on the form of intercourse—forced, intense, rapid… For "good girls," the physical pain of being raped is rarely imagined. In reality, this "fantasy of being raped" is far removed from actual criminal rape. That is to say, the fantasy of sexual rape is merely a woman's imagination of herself as a cute doll, being "playfully" abused by an imagined man, without any real violence.

At the other extreme, some women tend to fantasize about being "raped by a rough man," and their relationship with this imagined man is often imagined as cold and indifferent, like a court case or a business negotiation. The reason such fantasies are so alluring is that this type of fantasy makes it easier for women to feel the "real existence" of the object of their fantasy.

8. Fantasies that fascinate men:

Almost every woman fantasizes about being a beautiful, tall, sexy, and charming woman, surrounded by a large group of men who flatter and fawn over her, while she is in control, controlling the men, and controlling the situation, always "bestowing" the favor of a certain outstanding man upon her… This fantasy is so common because what woman doesn't want as many men as possible to fall at her feet?

9. The fantasy of prostitution:

This is a very embarrassing "sexual fantasy" to talk about. Most women are shy about sex, and the fantasy of "having sex for money" can help them overcome this "social" shyness, stimulating their subconscious sexual desires in their fantasies. The reason for this is twofold. "Obligatory sex" involves more emotional and moral factors, which somewhat masks or suppresses primal desires. If a man pays for sex, the woman can temporarily escape this "mental constraint." Another reason is that men who pay will inevitably choose beautiful, sexy, and sexually capable women, demonstrating their immense appeal that men are willing to pay for sex. Yet another reason is that women, through this fantasy, can evoke a sense of guilt in their partners. This abnormal psychological state can excite their bodies, stimulate their sexual abilities, and satisfy their desire for sexual violence. 10.

Sexual fantasies about a strange man :

In real life, such sex rarely succeeds; however, these imagined scenarios can ignite strong passion in women. For many women, realistic, repetitive, and monotonous sex can become tedious and uninteresting. Fantasies about strange men, however, add a layer of "pure lust." Their imagined objects are "faceless men," who attack them from behind; they can't see them, only feel them. The mystery is the value of this fantasy. (
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