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Many husbands, after a period of marriage, perhaps due to familiarity with each other or increasing life pressures, feel they've gradually lost the passion they once had. Even sex feels like completing a task, lacking excitement. Looking at their wives, they often recall their shy demeanor, their initial awkwardness, curiosity, and desire during their first time together. They then hope to rekindle that passion through different activities, allowing their wives to experience more while they're still young, showcasing their more sensual and alluring side. This is believed to be the driving force behind cuckoldry tendencies.
However, cuckoldry and being cuckolded are quite different. The advice here primarily targets husbands with cuckoldry tendencies; cuckoldry will be discussed separately.
Before attempting cuckoldry, threesomes, or swapping, you must first ask yourself if you truly can handle it. Especially, consider whether you can overcome your possessiveness if your wife actually takes that step, potentially causing problems in your marriage. If you still have reservations, it's advisable not to proceed.
When you feel you can fully handle it and are determined to protect her and your family, then I can tell you two things:
1. If a husband truly wants to engage in cuckoldry, as long as the method is correct, there's no way he won't succeed.
2. Cuckoldry isn't something that happens overnight; you need to be prepared for a long-term battle. This process might take six months to a year.
To explain in detail, women are actually much more lustful than you imagine. Frequent stimulation can cause hormonal changes in women, making it difficult for them to control their desires. So, if the groundwork is laid, it will be easier for them to accept than you think. However, at the same time, women have many concerns beforehand. The most important thing for women is a lack of security—social and physical security. Only when their sense of security is satisfied will they feel at ease satisfying their desires.
When women are engaging in this, their biggest security concern is the stability of their family. This is why highly educated, high-income individuals are more likely to engage in cuckoldry. On the one hand, the pressure of survival is not as great; the wife isn't worried about whether she can afford the mortgage. Under this anxiety, desire is less likely to prevail. On the other hand, this group of people tends to have more confidence in themselves and their families, making it easier to address their
sense of security. Therefore, if a family is facing significant financial pressure, it's advisable to work on improving those aspects before engaging in this activity. Having understood this, we can discuss the correct approach. The key points are, as mentioned earlier, sex appeal and a sense
of security. Before starting, show her more care and attention, and satisfy her more during sex. It's impossible to engage in this activity when the relationship is strained. Loving her allows her to experience more; this is the positive mindset. A formal conversation is essential beforehand. Choose a relaxed and intimate time for a serious discussion. Avoid doing it during sex; often, wives agree with everything said at such times but later deny it.
The key points are:
1. Life is only once; what truly matters is experiencing more. Morality, etc., is for maintaining society, not absolute rules. There's no abstract entity judging anyone. You love her, so you want to experience more, and you want her to experience more too. You don't want things to remain stagnant, and then regret not having done more when you're older.
2. You've thought this through carefully. No matter what happens, you'll protect her and your family, hoping to maintain a relationship that's both fresh and long-lasting.
3. You're currently seeking her opinion, not starting anything yet. However, if you do proceed, you'll carefully consider her health, the possibility of being discovered, and other factors to ensure she doesn't get hurt.
This needs to be formally proposed, but don't expect her to agree on the first try; that's completely impossible. No words can instantly turn a wife into a slut, making her agree to threesomes or swapping. Similarly, you can't find an experienced person to "train" her and make her submit. It takes time. So, don't be impatient. Even if she's unhappy during this conversation, it's okay. Reassure her, saying that you won't do it if she doesn't agree. This is mainly to lay the groundwork, to establish a foundation.
Afterward, you need to praise and encourage her more, encouraging her to dress up and take more photos. Start with fashionable outfits, then move to something more sexy. Encourage her to share photos; you can also send photos to others with her permission. If possible, you can also engage in more outdoor exhibitionist activities. The main goal is to help her acknowledge her own sexiness and gradually become more open in front of others.
When the time is right, she can take it a step further and start meeting real people. Having a photographer take some boudoir photos is also a good idea; women always want to showcase their beauty. I highly recommend a massage with a male masseur. Compared to boudoir photography, a massage starts with body care, which is more natural. Also, the physical contact provides a completely different level of stimulation. A good masseur can arouse her subtly. Here, I want to mention some single male masseuses who, after a short massage, rush to touch her private parts. If the couple is already quite experienced, it's fine, but if the partner is still in the early stages of development and is impatient, the wife might immediately feel disgusted and realize this isn't what she wants, retreating to more conservative areas. Further development then requires significantly more effort, and she might never be able to take that step again.
Ideally, even if she knows it's a massage arranged by her husband, she should initially feel it's a legitimate relaxation massage. This gives her an excuse and prevents her from feeling too shy. At this point, use the atmosphere and words to gradually help her relax. For example, use disposable underwear, start with a bubble bath, or professionally introduce essential oils. Don't let her feel that the masseur is only after her body. The massage technique should start with a completely normal massage. Once her body is relaxed, slowly begin to tease her. During the process, deliberately avoid certain private areas, creating a sense of unfulfilled desire to arouse her. Then, gradually increase the teasing, and it will naturally lead to penetration. In my experience, wives usually accept penetration after two sessions at most. Some less assertive wives have even had a threesome on their first time. Regarding whether the husband should be present, I recommend it. It's about creating a sense of security. Although she might be shy and reserved at first, with proper guidance, this shyness can actually increase her sensitivity. The environment is also very important. A dirty environment where even showering is inconvenient will not create a sense of security. On a side note, initially, to determine if couples were genuinely interested in developing a relationship, I charged for massages, but it always felt a bit off. So now I require couples to book at least a four-star, usually five-star, hotel. This assesses the couple's seriousness and also ensures higher hygiene and safety for both parties.
If this step goes smoothly, the lock is unlocked, and the next step is finding like-minded people in the same city to continue the activity—that's a topic for another discussion.
I wish everyone a happy time and that you achieve your goals. Finally, I want to remind you again: don't forget your initial intention. Loving her, giving her the best, letting her experience more, and making her more sensual are the most important things. Don't let it gradually become just about having fun. I've encountered people who, wanting to "train" their wives but failing repeatedly, got stuck in a rut, considering hiring someone to drug or rape their wives. This goes against their initial intention to improve the family and marriage.
My principle has always been: don't harm others, don't jeopardize the future—anything is acceptable.

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