[Erotic Private] A two-year-long, mature relationship with my mother-in-law has reached a deep level of ambiguity. Will it end in heaven or hell? (Part Two)

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(II) A casual remark from my wife stirred up ripples in my heart that had been churning for a long time: Could dreams truly become reality? Could the events described by **** be realized? Was the future heaven or hell? That night, after finishing with my wife, I didn't fall into a deep sleep, but tossed and turned for a long time, finally deciding on one word—"Let's do it!" Although it was just one word, the decision was based on two points: first, a thorough and objective self-awareness; second, a thorough analysis of my mother-in-law's personality, upbringing, and family environment. These two points were the foundation for setting the strategy.
With the direction and strategy set, the actions and tactics had to be extremely cautious, otherwise, I might ruin my reputation and destroy my happy family. The real work is done offstage. The founding fathers had long ago pointed out the direction: the Huaihai Campaign was not won by direct confrontation on the front lines, but by millions of people pushing it out with wheelbarrows. Similarly, to win over this mature and charming mother-in-law, the answer was not just her.
Thus, I began a long journey that has lasted for nearly two years but has not yet been successfully completed. Enough with the small talk, here's a list of the efforts I made: 1) I worked twice as hard to secure a promotion and a position as a team leader, with increased compensation and income after the end of 2018. I also started a small financial leasing business with friends to ensure some passive income. While not affecting my regular job, I continued doing side jobs, but I made more of an open sale and spent it all on my family. 2) I treated my wife and children better, being a good stay-at-home dad, spending more time with them. 3) I sacrificed. The task I was undertaking was extremely difficult, allowing no room for error, requiring a clear mind and a gradual approach. Therefore, I gave up unnecessary social engagements and dinners, and even a casual fling (one a long-term partner, the other a mature woman I'd been flirting with for half a year, easily disposable), focusing solely on my family. 4) I strengthened my physique. With more free time, I added swimming and weightlifting to my existing workout routine. Without the other woman, my physical strength improved, and with my theoretical knowledge and practical skills (haha, I'm not exaggerating, please don't criticize), plus a whole box of tools to help, my wife, who had become spoiled and lazy, and whose physical strength had declined after childbirth, started to refuse my requests and advances, complaining of being tired, and sometimes even having dark circles under her eyes. 5) I take care of daily life to make things easier for my family. Specifically, I have a list of everything: mortgage payments, property fees, car maintenance, routine home repairs, living expenses, water, electricity, gas, internet fees, baby formula, diapers, and all other necessities for the baby, and I pay or prepare them in advance. This also includes taking care of my mother-in-law's family, so she has no worries. My wife is used to all of this, but she feels that I've become more considerate since becoming a father, and my mother-in-law is full of praise. 6) After the baby got a little older, my mother-in-law suggested that we stop using the nanny because of the considerable fees. I firmly disagreed, mainly because I was worried about tiring my mother-in-law. She was touched, but still insisted. The final compromise was to hire a slightly cheaper, on-call nanny, working from 9 am to 6 pm daily until the child turned one year old and was gradually weaned. 7) For the child's living expenses, I give them directly to my mother-in-law, in advance, more, or even if she doesn't want it! Haha, I withdraw the cash and put it directly in her bedside table. I also constantly transfer money to her Alipay and WeChat accounts, telling her to buy better quality groceries and take taxis when she's tired. Although I can't provide financial freedom for my family, it's easy for her to afford basic groceries and supermarkets. I even personally taught her how to use WeChat and Alipay, and how to use Didi and shared bikes—something even her own daughter wouldn't have the patience to do. Also, I give the nanny's salary in cash, which she then distributes. My wife and I play hard to get with the nanny, one being strict and the other lenient, but our goal is the same: to make the nanny understand that my mother-in-law is the one who decides her income and her job. 8) Most importantly, I treat her like a woman, a woman a few years older than my wife. So I started to recall the tricks I used to deal with her daughter when we were dating, and applied them to her (I absolutely couldn't copy Western methods; I needed Chinese characteristics). The key was to be attentive, to treat her like a woman, even a girl, who needed protection and care. When we went out together, I always made sure they walked on the side away from the vehicles. Most of the time, I would open the car door for her, especially when getting into the car; I would open the door for her first before driving. When buying gifts for my wife, I always included something for her too—not those hurtful gifts that remind her she's getting old, like a foot bath or baby formula, but gifts similar to my wife's, just perhaps different styles. In the past year or so, I've bought clothes, scarves, sunglasses, lipsticks, earrings, bracelets, anklets, bags, and shoes for both women. My wife's shoes are just a bit higher in heels, while my mother-in-law mostly wears flats or low heels. Occasionally, when I buy her a pair of high heels, she's a little embarrassed and says we (I always buy them under the guise of a joint purchase) are wasting money, and asks me to return them. I just say it's too much trouble to return them, but she still tries them on, unable to hide her excitement (don't ask me how sexy my mother-in-law's feet are, you can see the pictures in the first part of the article via the link at the beginning, hahaha) and takes them back to her room. 9) Praise her! As long as it's not too explicit, just shower her with compliments every day. Don't be shy, being thick-skinned is the key, it won't cost you anything. If you do lose weight, consider it a good thing. I praise my mother-in-law for her good face shape and figure, saying my wife clearly inherited her excellent genes (praising two at once, can't neglect the direct descendant!). I praise her for being sophisticated, cultured, and thoughtful, without any of the vulgarity of ordinary women. I praised her cooking skills, saying I love her dishes (specifically, which dishes I like and what makes them delicious), and I devour them in no time. The objective basis is that my mother-in-law is indeed a good cook; she's truly a remarkable woman. Now I've experienced her charm in the living room and kitchen, and her bedroom is also within reach. I believe it will absolutely exceed my expectations! 10) When doing all of the above, it's crucial to remember to maintain a balance. Chinese philosophy emphasizes moderation; many things are difficult to explain clearly, and two people doing the same thing can have drastically different results, all because of the concept of balance. These details are quite meticulous and detailed; while they can demonstrate a man's thoughtfulness and attentiveness, it's important to avoid leaving an impression of being fussy, indecisive, or even effeminate.
Enough said; this can be considered a "ten-sided ambush to capture the mother-in-law."
Now, let's talk about the attitude and changes in the mother-in-law that forum members are most eager to see. Gradually, my mother-in-law, already simple and optimistic, became even more cheerful and smiling. My son is quite clever and healthy, always helping his dad out and making his charming grandmother laugh. I joked, "Mom, stop laughing. You didn't have many wrinkles to begin with, don't let this little rascal make you get them. But it's okay, I'll just buy you the eye cream that XX (my wife's nickname) uses, it's really good." My mother-in-law was secretly pleased, but she was tough on the outside, giving me a reproachful look: "Don't talk nonsense, I'm so old, it's not normal for me to have wrinkles." Being able to joke with my mother-in-law so naturally, isn't that progress?
Comrades, encourage me to keep charging forward! Conquer that forbidden high ground exuding mature charm!
PS: Part (II) is finished. Thank you to all the supporters for your replies and likes. I will continue to write the sequel with care. The next chapter may describe our breakthrough progress to the ambiguous areas: the kitchen and the study. Thank you everyone! Attached is a photo of my mother-in-law when she was young, so you can roughly feel her facial contours and soft hands. For safety, I've covered up a little too much, please understand.
To be continued.

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