The moral bottom line of partner swappers

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Everyone has their own moral bottom line, and partner-swapping enthusiasts are no exception, although our morals differ from those of the average person.
Personally, I believe that partner-swapping, as well as BDSM and homosexuality, are perfectly normal sexual preferences and have nothing to do with infidelity. In China, the partner-swapping community is not small, and there are many potential individuals with similar tendencies. So, what are our moral bottom lines as partner-swapping enthusiasts?
First, concealment and deception.
Concealment and deception are not unforgivable. As a married couple, the partner who wants to swap partners may be hesitant and act like a gentleman, not letting the other person know. This concealment is normal; it's a phenomenon resulting from the relatively closed sexual culture in China, where sexual culture is always tied to moral constraints.
However, if you want to explore this further, you can only boldly try to communicate your thoughts, whether it's gradually instilling them, jokingly, or seriously. If it works out, great; if after communication there are still obstacles, or if each side holds their own opinion, then you can only give up. (Of course, some people are hypocritical and half-hearted; one must be able to recognize this.)
If the relationship doesn't develop, secretly going out alone to meet other men or pretending to be single is infidelity, a serious deception that directly jeopardizes the marriage if exposed.
Furthermore, pretending to be a couple to obtain photos during interactions with other couples who share this interest is despicable. Even worse, some bring lovers, casual sex partners, or prostitutes to pretend to be a couple for dates—utterly reprehensible.
Second, using coercion or violence during the relationship development process. "
Development" is just an external term; for the couple themselves, it's communication. This communication can be informal, but it must be equal. You can give a push or pull even when the other person is noncommittal or hypocritical, as they may be unfamiliar with partner swapping, unsure how to react, or find it both perverse and exciting.
However, using coercion or violence when the other person clearly disagrees is extremely wrong and may even be illegal. (Marital rape and domestic violence are illegal.)
Third, dangerous behavior.
Sex is undoubtedly wonderful, but it undeniably carries certain risks, especially unprotected sex—many diseases can be transmitted sexually, including but not limited to various STIs and HIV/AIDS.
When couples are alone, they know each other best and can do whatever they want. However, if a third or fourth party is involved, safety must be considered. This is not only about protecting your own body but also about being responsible to your partner. Furthermore, casual sex among spouses is a civilized behavior, unrelated to trust.
Fourth, prying into personal information
and partner swapping are still generally frowned upon. Outside of partner swapping, everyone has their own life and social interactions. Therefore, unless you intend to form a long-term partnership, do not reveal too much about yourself or pry into your partner's information. (Forming a long-term partnership usually requires extensive communication and mutual trust.)

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