licking a woman's genitals

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It's a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective, the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan during oral sex is extremely pleasurable.
The following guide to licking the vulva refers to a man performing licking the vulva on a woman. It's based on my personal experience, and the feelings of the woman are based on my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, which I've slightly edited.
I. Preparations before licking the vulva:
Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create some conditions and atmosphere, such as at night with the lights dimmed.
Both partners should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female vulva has a more complex structure with many folds, making it easy for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals, but avoid using too much or too strong a perfume, as the man's nose is closest to the genitals when he's licking her, and a strong perfume can easily choke him. Also, avoid applying perfume to the labia, as the scent of vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also beneficial.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water by the bedside so she can easily reach it if thirsty, avoiding interrupting her experience.
Secondly, regarding women's sensitive areas:
Men shouldn't assume that licking the genitals means immediately rushing to kiss her clitoris upon entering the bedroom. Don't be so hasty. A woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is extremely sensitive; stimulating it immediately will be less effective.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet words, like "You're so beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone.
At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals. Start kissing from the groin area, gently separating her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So, don't be too hasty or forceful when separating her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin to lightly touch and sweep her thighs with your tongue, from the outer edge of her labia majora—the crease between her thighs—upwards to her hip bones (the left and right sides of her lower abdomen), repeating this about ten times. She will feel a ticklish and tingling sensation, and a tingling feeling near the vaginal opening. Gently sweep your tongue along the thigh down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee. Zusanli is a sensitive spot for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and kiss back down.
Return to the groin and repeat the above steps. This technique is called "assistance" in military terms. In bed, treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract her attention, take the initiative, and guide her senses to follow your tongue. Engage in guerrilla warfare across her body—on any of her areas: breasts, lower abdomen, groin, and pubic hair. Gradually, you'll notice her starting to move, her legs involuntarily swinging, and she may moan. More sensitive women will experience vaginal lubrication.
After about ten minutes of this "assistance," begin your main attack!
By providing support, the man has essentially overcome the woman's shyness and dismantled her psychological defenses. At this point, she will be in a state of feigned resistance, allowing the man to launch his offensive.
The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them backward to expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first target key areas: the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus. Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation from bottom to top. When kissing a woman's vulva, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement.
If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the vulva to the labia. At this point, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be clear and thin; if you like, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? Don't touch them yet. Use your tongue to gently pry open the labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or the labia may separate on their own when they are more aroused). Take one labia into your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside. Then repeat the process with the other labia. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia. Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time, sucking them in. Use your tongue to make a sweeping, inserting and withdrawing motion between the labia. The woman will feel incredibly good.
Remember, when kissing the labia, try to suck them as much as possible into your mouth, lightly sweeping and licking with your tongue. The woman will feel a slight itch in the labia area and want you to kiss more areas and a wider area. Ignore her; just keep kissing. Few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying it. The flesh is in your mouth; whether to bite and how to bite is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; just enough to make her suddenly scream, basically ruining the sensation she's built up.
Why ruin a woman's sensation for no reason? Male sexual arousal is achieved through eye contact and friction with the genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is accumulated through the ears (sweet words) and through imagination and sensation. Achieving orgasm requires repeated stimulation and buildup. This can be represented graphically as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoidal shape.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who is kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next sexual arousal faster and more accumulated. This technique should be repeated when licking a woman's vulva, but not too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting; the labia are very delicate.
If you gently bite a woman's labia, she'll definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch. Before she can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into a soft "Oh." This creates a feeling of wanting to curse but not being able to, wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun!
After you've "conquered" the woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside the "clam."
After gently biting a woman's labia, quickly block her vaginal opening with your lips. This will give her a warm and comfortable feeling. Now it's time to get started. Gently part her labia with your thumb to expose her vaginal opening. Circle your tongue around the vaginal opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with your entire lip pressed against it. Remember not to blow air into her vagina; it's not fun and can easily lead to problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her clitoris yet, she will only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much. At this point, you can pause briefly from kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this point, the woman's clitoris has just been stimulated and she will be eager for you to kiss it again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. Keep her half-suspended in that feeling. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the vulva towards the clitoris, slowly and carefully. When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "Almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently, as lightly as possible, just lightly brush and touch her clitoris with the tip of your tongue (your tongue should have a little saliva in it). Then, lick in the opposite direction towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around. Stir however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this, but men should be careful with the back of their tongues; sticking it out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!) can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues to insert, and even though the insertion is limited, it can make a woman feel very full. Moreover, the sensation of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is something men with thin tongues can't provide. Men with thin tongues can use the tip of their tongue to gently tease the cleft of a woman's labia, which is also very pleasurable; each has its own merits.
Now you can focus on capturing the "pearl." Move your tongue up to the woman's clitoris and concentrate. Many men may think that simply licking a woman's clitoris vigorously will bring her to orgasm, which is a misconception. A woman's clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she will feel more pain than pleasure, which is pointless.
There are a few things to keep in mind when kissing the clitoris: the tongue must be wet, light, and pointed; the tongue must be kept moist (the water prepared in Chapter 1 will come in handy now); when licking the clitoris, be gentle and use the tip of your tongue. To penetrate the clitoris, use the five-step technique: "point, flick, pluck, press, stir." "Point" refers to lightly touching the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "pluck" means gently plucking the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; "press" means pressing down on the clitoris occasionally with your tongue; and "stir" means
swirling your tongue around the clitoris while it's in your mouth. At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be highly engaged and aroused. You can feel a throbbing sensation under her clitoris, which is very noticeable when you're
holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid movements can easily lead to orgasm. Men often prefer longer sex and a later ejaculation for greater pleasure. Women, like men, also crave prolonged pleasure, so be understanding. Only use a faster pace to help her reach orgasm if she strongly requests it or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.
Here's a very effective technique: Don't imitate the random licking of clitoris like the male protagonist in pornographic films, and don't always kiss the clitoris using the methods described above. Once you've done those actions well enough to give her an orgasm, you should use your entire lip to engulf her clitoris. Press your upper lip against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and use your lower lip to separate her labia, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Enclose the clitoris in your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel like it's floating in your mouth.
Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man licking a woman's clitoris because you can control her level of arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her scream in frustration. Or, just as I release her clitoris and see her about to scream, I immediately take it back into my mouth, and she'll be too comfortable to scream. How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or your partner will kick you off the bed.

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