Contemporary Social Relations

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In today's society, temptations abound, and no one can guarantee that either spouse will refrain from actions that could harm the other. A husband's extramarital affair and a wife's infidelity—just because it doesn't happen today doesn't mean it won't happen

in the future; just because it didn't happen during the honeymoon period doesn't mean it won't happen years later. We see and hear far too many examples of this. Whether it's the husband's or wife's behavior, it's a form of illicit activity, causing harm to each other and even jeopardizing family stability, thus endangering social stability. This is unacceptable.

From a fairness perspective, Chinese society is still patriarchal. Men can have relationships with many women without consequence, but if a woman has a relationship with another man, the problem becomes serious—this is extremely unfair.

From a physiological perspective, women's sexual needs far exceed those of men, yet they are constrained by traditional values and dare not pursue happiness. This is a tragedy for society and for women themselves.

To address these issues, we believe that couples engaging in sexual activity is an excellent way to resolve these problems and will be the mainstream approach to managing male-female relationships in the future.

The history of human sexual culture is essentially a history of millennia of exploration into how to rationally control sex, a history of repeatedly oscillating between sexual freedom and sexual repression, seeking a suitable balance. Due to differences in wealth, social status, and age, people's understanding of sex varies. If everyone were to have absolute freedom and indulge in unrestrained sexual behavior, it would inevitably lead to chaos and would not be in anyone's fundamental interest. In this sense, marital mutual assistance, built on the family unit and respecting each individual's wishes, is a process that maximizes sexual satisfaction without excessive release. It embodies the equality and freedom of the new era and perfectly aligns with modern human needs, encompassing both social and familial control over sex. Therefore, it is not indulgence, but rather development and progress.

As long as couples are loving, have a good relationship, and are open with each other, with no secrets between them, they can adopt a "let's all play together" approach, adhering to the principles of "adulthood," "voluntariness," and "privacy." With a positive attitude and progressive perspective, focusing on their spouse, they can make high-quality friends, communicate fully, and build deep friendships. Then, when the time is right, what is meant to happen will happen naturally, and it will be happy.

Families capable of sexual exchange certainly represent a very high level of achievement! Firstly, the couple must have reached a consensus; otherwise, it wouldn't be called exchanging partners, it would be called theft. Secondly, they genuinely care about each other's happiness, finding joy in the other's pleasure; otherwise, they wouldn't do it openly but secretly. Thirdly, they must want to maintain their family's existence to negotiate a solution to their sexual concerns; otherwise, they would be indifferent and unmoved by sexual issues. Considering these points, exchanging partners is a good thing, not a poison in family life.

The main difference between humans and animals is that humans are shy and hide what they consider undesirable. Thus, the body is often covered by clothing, especially the reproductive system, which is the most crucial part of this. Consequently, the function of the reproductive system gradually transformed from a simple reproductive function into a private act, and later became associated with love and affection. Sexual activity became known as sexual intercourse, existing only between lovers. Because the consequence of sex can be "death," to control population growth, sex, marriage, and family were linked together, leading to the common belief that sex is a prerogative between spouses.

The family is a cell of social life, essential for a stable existence. Maintaining harmony within a family involves multiple aspects: love, obligations, and responsibilities. Thus, the state has laws and regulations to protect marriage and uphold the family. But does sex truly exist only within the family?

Sex is a need! Like hunger and thirst, it's a physiological requirement. Eating and drinking tea don't seem to be the sole domain of the family, and it's impossible for sex to exist only within the family and marriage! Therefore, extramarital and premarital sex are rampant in today's society, often disguised as love, attempting to elicit sympathy and understanding.

In reality, physiologically speaking, sex is unrelated to love or family; it's something to do when you want, simple and clear. Emotionally speaking, sex and love are indeed inseparable. Humans are emotional beings, and having sex with someone you have no feelings for should be a terrible thing! However, love doesn't necessarily equate to sex, because sex is indeed a higher level than ordinary emotions. Couples who engage in sex swapping must have love in their relationships, which is why they consider each other's perspectives rather than simply seeking personal pleasure. Moreover, this love is of a very high level; they would only agree to accept sex swapping if their partner's happiness is their own.

Imagine if the wife enjoys getting her hair done, and a male hairdresser skillfully strokes her hair—would the husband object? If the wife enjoys beauty treatments, and a male beautician massages her face and forehead with smooth fingers—would the husband object? If the husband enjoys drinking and playing drinking games with several women, would the wife object? If the husband is tired and wants a massage or foot reflexology, and a female masseuse does it for him—would the wife object? Most families would accept any of these options. So why not give your partner an opportunity when they enjoy sex but you are unable to provide it? Why confine sex to family and marriage?

Some say sexual disharmony is the root of all crime, which may not be true, but the inability to fulfill desires is likely the root of all disharmony. There's a culture to eating, a variety of drinks, and different kinds of sex. Therefore, sex swapping might truly be a way to solve the bland, passionless lives of many families.

In sex-swapping families, men are tolerant, women are generous, and families that engage in sex swapping are likely stable. I think they don't intend to destroy anything but simply want to give each other a fresher, more exciting experience; love governs their lives! I see absolutely nothing dirty or shameful in these families.

Note: The above text is from an online article and is for discussion purposes only.

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