The breakdown of humanity begins with a lack of money.

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1. An adult's breakdown begins with a lack of money.
I recently saw a news story online. A woman was trying to take the bus to work. The driver saw her stumbling and falling, getting up and rushing to catch the bus. When she finally boarded, the driver quickly helped her up, noticing her flushed face and tears streaming down her face. When asked why she was working so hard, she said, "If I'm late for work today, I'll lose 300 yuan of my perfect attendance bonus!" The driver advised her to go home and rest, but she refused. Finally, the driver had to call the police for help to get her home. Three hundred yuan might not even be enough for many people to have a hotpot meal, yet some people fight for it even when they're sick.
How easy is it to break an adult's spirit? Perhaps it's when parents are seriously ill, and because of a lack of money, you're helpless; perhaps it's when you're middle-aged and your career is stalled, and because of a lack of money, you have to beg and plead for help; perhaps it's when your child is about to start school, and because of a lack of money, you can only choose an ordinary school far from home, worrying all day about your child hanging out with delinquents.
A single instance of being short of money is enough to break a person's spirit.
2. You don't need to be rich, but you can't be poor.
Maugham said: "What people pursue is not wealth, but the ability to maintain a dignified life; to work without hindrance; to be generous, cheerful, and independent."
In youth, many people consider money external. They readily lend money, fearing any hesitation will make them seem stingy; they lavishly pay for meals, even when their salary is only a few digits, trying to appear wealthy.
A woman's lifelong pursuit is to live happily. But achieving this goal requires sufficient financial support. Some say women are becoming increasingly materialistic, but that's not true. The world is full of uncertainties. Today's close relationship may end tomorrow; today's friends may become enemies. The only things that won't betray you are the substantial balance in your hard-earned salary; the freedom to choose whether to love or not; and the unwavering belief that "I can do it" after repeated failures.
I really like this quote: "I work hard to earn money not because I love money so much, but because I don't want to be begging and groveling in times of emergency due to a lack of funds. I only hope that I can fulfill my filial duty to my parents when they are old, and that I won't be penniless when my children are growing up." You don't need to be incredibly wealthy, but you must have enough money to withstand potential risks and crises.
3. Earning money is a woman's greatest source of confidence
. This world is not fair. Some people are rolling in money and spend lavishly, while others struggle just to make ends meet. Because of a lack of money, some people argue fiercely with vendors at the market over a few cents; because of a lack of money, some people can only secretly glance at their favorite clothes in the window of a luxury store and walk away silently. As a woman, why should you strive to earn money? Because I don't want to become a subservient husband because of a lack of money, forced to swallow my anger when faced with unfair treatment; I don't want to hide in my rented room, weeping uncontrollably after a breakup; I don't want to be subservient to my mother-in-law, working like a free maid all day because of a lack of money.
Money isn't everything, but it's my last line of defense when I'm desperate. A life with money may not be happy every day, but it certainly allows for freedom, independence, and spontaneity. A woman with money has the weapons and leverage to fight against all injustice. When I love someone, I no longer expect him to have a house and a car; if there's love, we stay together; if not, I leave. When I'm feeling down, I can rent out a theater and watch a movie I like, crying when I want to cry, laughing when I want to laugh. What stings us most in life are often those moments of helplessness. Having witnessed enough of the bitterness of being poor gives one the motivation to keep striving. This world doesn't believe in tears, it only believes in your efforts. Few offer help in times of need, while many offer comfort in times of prosperity. Only by becoming strong yourself can you have a way out and the confidence to navigate difficulties. The older you get, the more you realize that good fortune is often hidden within your own efforts. When you become strong and excellent, other things will naturally fall into place.
Never be indifferent to money when you're young; you should constantly strive to make your remaining years precious and fulfilling.

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