Is this a sign of impotence?

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Is this a sign of impotence?
I'm in my 40s, and my wife is in her 30s. We've been married for 16 years. At first, we were a couple of times a night, but now it's once every two or three days. While I can't guarantee my wife will orgasm every time, I think she'll at least orgasm 8 out of 10 times. We always seem to have great intercourse.
In recent years, with the development of communication networks, I've met other women through WeChat, QQ, and Momo—all mature women, of course. I like mature women, I like women with a feminine charm. I've had some sexual contact with these women, but I don't know if it's something wrong with me or if I have poor mental fortitude, but with my wife, I naturally get an erection and can successfully complete intercourse, bringing her to orgasm. However, I'm quite skilled at foreplay with these women, and I'd say I'm an experienced flirt. Foreplay techniques like touching, kissing, and licking go smoothly and effectively. But when it comes to penetration, my penis just won't cooperate, making it impossible to complete the act. This is embarrassing, and it's frustrating when I'm the one who's aroused. It's also very disheartening to see my partner feeling frustrated.
Recently, my wife agreed to part of my request to have video sex with another couple—our first time. We both flirted with each other via video. The other couple is experienced and very sincere; they even showed their faces, and of course, we both showed ours too. It was my first time, and I was very excited. Holding the phone, I took on multiple roles—not just cameraman, but also director and lead actor. But halfway through, I lost my erection and failed. My wife wasn't initially keen on it, and I had to coax her into agreeing. I thought she'd be angry and might scold me. To my surprise, my wife was very understanding. Not only was she not angry with me, but she patiently comforted me, telling me it was our first time and this was bound to happen. She said women are fine in these situations, but men are different. We haven't video chatted with other couples since. I'm truly grateful for my wife's understanding and tolerance; it really made me feel the greatness of love.
I've consulted a doctor friend about this situation and researched related issues online, but I still can't shake the worry. I'd like to ask the men in my family: have any of you had something like this? Is this a sign of impotence?

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