She became the mistress of a 60-year-old man and was given over a dozen apartments in Shenzhen.

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The woman I'm going to tell you about today is named Yu'er. We met in 2006; we were both parents of children in kindergarten, and we'd nod and greet each other every morning and evening while waiting for the school bus.

As time went on, we naturally started chatting. I was quite familiar with three parents: Yu'er, Sister Hua, and Sister Ling.

One day, Sister Hua glanced at Yu'er's retreating figure and sighed, saying she was a pitiful person too.

My gossipy nature kicked in, and Sister Ling and I kept pressing her for details. The next day, after we'd all seen our children off on the school bus and Yu'er had left, Sister Hua invited Sister Ling and me for a walk in a nearby park. That's when we learned something shocking.

Yu'er was from Hubei, born in a remote rural area. Her parents had six children, and she was the fourth. In her teens, she was taken to Guangdong by a group of fellow villagers to work, working various factory jobs. She was very simple and filial, sending most of her hard-earned money back to her parents in the countryside.

No one knows how she met that man. She was very ordinary-looking and uneducated. Perhaps for these reasons, Yu'er ended up with a Hong Kong man 30 years her senior, becoming his mistress in mainland China.

Back then in Shenzhen, Yu'er's situation wasn't uncommon. Many Hong Kong businessmen, going north to do business, would secretly take mistresses without their wives' knowledge.

Yu'er was only a few months pregnant when the old man was diagnosed with late-stage rectal cancer. He received treatment at Beijing's 301 Hospital for a while and his condition improved, but he died shortly after returning to Hong Kong. When the old man passed away, Yu'er's daughter, Jiajia, was only four years old. It's pitiful that she lost her father at such a young age.

Ling and I were both surprised and asked, "So the old man didn't get to see Yu'er and her daughter one last time? How will he arrange for Yu'er and Jiajia's future?"

Hua sighed, "Arrange? A month before his death, the wife only learned of Yu'er and Jiajia's existence, and the whole family was in an uproar." However, we didn't need to worry too much about Yu'er. After all, the old man was wealthy, owning over a dozen properties in Shenzhen alone, all jointly registered with Yu'er. With so many properties, she wouldn't suddenly lose her support. At the time, Ling and I didn't think much of it, even rejoicing that the old man's death was a good thing

; Yu'er had suddenly become a single, wealthy woman, owning over a dozen properties in Shenzhen at only 30 years old. Logically, with the old man gone, Yu'er's life should have become increasingly comfortable. But every time I saw Yu'er, she looked exhausted. Her skin was simply unsightly, as if she had never properly cared for herself. Her eyes were often red and swollen, and her face was tense, looking like she had suffered a great deal. Since she didn't bring up her private affairs, we didn't dare to ask too much. Because Hua Jie mentioned her husband's passing, we felt it was difficult for her as a single mother raising her child, so we were all quite concerned for her and invited her to exercise together. At first, Yu'er was very wary and refused to join in. But I'm persistent, and the next time we exercised, I sincerely invited her again. Eventually, she agreed to join us moms. After spending more time together, I discovered that Yu'er was not only wary but also sometimes unreasonable. For example, after the four of us moms went to the park together, we would take turns treating each other to breakfast, which didn't cost much, but Yu'er almost never participated. Sometimes when we invited her to go shopping for clothes, she would always buy things and then be extremely picky, haggling over prices with the shopkeepers. If they didn't agree, she would keep dawdling, treating paying like it was a painful transaction. After many similar incidents, Hua Jie and Ling Jie didn't like her much. Especially after Yu'er once mentioned that her husband had shown her a copy of the page in his will that mentioned her, including an education fund for their daughter, and that her daughter would definitely inherit a large sum of money when she turned 18. Hua Jie and Ling Jie felt that things weren't as simple as Yu'er thought, and their comments were somewhat sarcastic and pointed. Later, in 2008, when my son started primary school, I moved to Hong Kong. Sister Ling and Sister Hua also moved there, while Yu'er remained on the mainland. Because Jiajia was born out of wedlock, she could have transferred her household registration to Hong Kong to apply for a public school, but since her father had died, she lost her reason for family reunification, and all the parentage documents were useless. Yu'er spent a lot of money and went through a lot of unnecessary trouble to buy her and her daughter's household registration in Huizhou, and our little group disbanded. Back then, there was no WeChat, and we were all busy with our own lives. A few years passed in the blink of an eye. Once, when I returned to Shenzhen to sign a lease with a tenant, I unexpectedly ran into Yu'er again. She was more cheerful than before and willing to share her troubles with her friends, especially about the dozen or so jointly owned properties left by the old man. She wanted my help to figure out how to clarify the ownership of these properties. Currently, she mainly relies on rental income, and most of the properties she owns are small one-bedroom apartments. She frequently needs to renovate and buy appliances after moving out, which is quite a hassle. Her daughter, Jiajia, is growing up, and there are many expenses. I asked why it took so many years to resolve this matter. Yu'er explained: "You know, Jiajia's father never let me make friends before he died, saying I was naive and afraid of being deceived. I was so foolish back then. When the old man was diagnosed with late-stage rectal cancer, he mentioned transferring the house to her alone. But to reassure him, Yu'er comforted him, saying she would definitely recover. And later, seeing how diligently Yu'er cared for him, he gave her peace of mind and bought several more small apartments. Sigh, that old man was putting shackles on Yu'er." Unfortunately, young Yu'er didn't understand. She had been used to being controlled by the old man. He manipulated her, forbidding her from making friends, instilling in her that outsiders would harm and deceive her, to the point that she was truly afraid to make friends. For a long time after his death, Yu'er couldn't get over it, thinking that this was how he arranged things, that the rent should be enough to support her and her daughter. I asked Yu'er, "Didn't he think about what if your house couldn't be rented out? What if there was an emergency requiring a lot of money? And you're only thirty years old, are you going to have to raise a child alone and grow old alone?" "I think the old man is afraid you'll sell the house and remarry with your daughter, right?" Yu'er stared at me, her eyes wide. I could tell she was shocked and still trying to avoid facing reality. After making inquiries, Yu'er managed to obtain the old man's death certificate. I asked a lawyer friend in Shenzhen why Yu'er hadn't received a notice of the will's reading, since she had seen her portion. Don't Hong Kong dramas often depict lawyers gathering everyone to read the will's arrangements in person? Yu'er hasn't changed her phone number or stayed in the same place for years; these questions need a lawyer to answer. Through a referral, I introduced Yu'er to Lawyer Wang in Shenzhen. I even took time to accompany her to the meeting. On the way, Yu'er asked me again if she could not mention owning more than ten houses. What did she mean? Oh, I understood then; she was worried the case would be too expensive, and the lawyer's fees too high. I told her she had to be honest, mentioning her financial difficulties so the lawyer could handle it accordingly. Because once the lawyer accepts the case and checks with the real estate bureau, wouldn't she be at a disadvantage? Sigh, I'm often baffled by Yu'er's thought process. A long time passed, and I'd almost forgotten about it, until I received an invitation from Attorney Wang to attend his new office move. I brought some money and gifts, and that's when Attorney Wang told me about Yu'er's situation. I never imagined it would end like this. It turns out that after showing Yu'er a copy of the will, the old man revised it. The latest will no longer includes provisions for Yu'er and her daughter. Regardless of the disputes or compromises this old man had with his wife and two adult children before his death, this will represents his final thoughts while he was lucid. Attorney Wang also mentioned that the old man must have consulted a professional lawyer before his death, knowing that not relinquishing ownership of the dozen or so jointly owned properties in Shenzhen would cause huge problems for his daughter's future inheritance, but he chose to ignore it. This means Yu'er and Jiajia can only live in or rent these properties, not sell them. I have to say, I'm stunned that wealthy people can be so calculating.

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suggests that it took Yu'er a long time to recover.

When we gathered again, she recounted with resentment how, from childhood to adolescence, she received no love and endured the pressure of supporting her family without a moment's respite. Later, she met her husband, and although she knew he had a family, she craved a bit of warmth and gradually settled into a life of comfort. The older man even brought her parents from the countryside and settled them in his own apartment.

Her parents were close in age to the older man, and with generous financial support and the entire family receiving equal care, Yu'er received the admiration of her parents and siblings for the first time. She treated the older man's words as gospel.

The older man was from the construction industry, and it was said that he specialized in buying back villas and village houses from local residents in Hong Kong at low prices, renovating them, and then selling them at higher prices. Years ago, he also spent millions to buy his children properties in upscale Shenzhen communities outright.

他多次给玉儿画大饼，叫玉儿安心，在广东的一整幢祖屋归她两母女（没立字据，只是在回乡祭祖时口头交待了一声）香港那边就别想了，会留大笔教育金供佳佳将来去海外留学。中港两头家井水不犯河水，各过各的，叫玉儿以后不要去香港争产，毕竟她女儿是有份继续爸爸遗产的。

当年我们的小群体玲姐就私下讲过，如果是她，会在老男人一提出改联名时马上去，哪怕只要一套完全属于自己房产就行了，因为毕竟女儿也生了，得为女儿打算一下，其实她的想法也是我们大多数正常人的做法，但是人生没有如果。

折腾一圈，玉儿的诉求又回到了原点，只确定老男人更改修订的最后遗嘱没有安排她俩母女，没有佳佳的教育金。十几套房子可以租可以住，但是没法变现。

如今已经过去这么久，当初玉儿和老男人在深圳几十万一套的小公寓，全部升到几百万一套，不知老男人原配及子女的生活状况如何。她还打着让原配和老头的子女放弃深圳房子的产权。

玉儿私下和我讲就是考虑到房子升值这么多，不想撕破脸，最后要分一半给原配他们，所以才拖拖拉拉到现在，她讲，佳佳本可以分香港的财产的。

哎，她这想法，真的让我脑壳疼。

想法是美好，但是要想到自己在十几年前是老男人在婚内出资买这十几套房子，原配是有权力追诉的。

关键人家生活的好好的，凭什么要配合你放弃深圳的房子产权，更何况房子这么多，原配同意、她两个儿女也不同意吧！

后来，这件事再一次搁置下来，玉儿想在佳佳18岁之前把房子联名产权处理又一次失败了。我不知道这么多年，她已经为这个当年自己的一念之差，付出多少懊恼，悔恨不已。 Sigh, you can only say that character determines destiny.

Later

, Yu'er found love again, this time with a short man from Zhejiang, a few years older than her. For ease of remembering, I'll call him Xiao Wang.

Xiao Wang took good care of both Yu'er and Jiajia, but his income was just average. I couldn't help but remind Yu'er to keep a close eye on her wallet; were they planning to get married?

Yu'er sighed heavily again; the mess left by Jiajia's father still hadn't been resolved. If I remarried, it would further affect Jiajia's inheritance.

I didn't see Yu'er often throughout the year, but I knew she still provided free accommodation for her parents, and she also bore all their living and medical expenses, because her younger brother and sister-in-law weren't highly educated and were low-level workers; as their older sister, she still had to help them.

Yu'er's parents looked down on Xiao Wang, and Xiao Wang also disapproved of Yu'er supporting her parents, feeling sorry for her heavy burden. But Jiajia was very attached to Xiao Wang, perhaps because she lacked fatherly love growing up!

Every family has its own troubles. It turns out that Yu'er had been pregnant with Xiao Wang's baby for six or seven months, but still had to have an abortion. Yu'er said that Xiao Wang was a good person, very kind to her and their daughter, but he had many flaws: he loved drinking, gambling, had many bad friends, and most importantly, he was in debt.

Xiao Wang had been married and divorced several times, and had ongoing debt disputes; it seemed he still owed money to his ex-wife, causing a lot of trouble. Yu'er even lent him tens of thousands of yuan to pay off his debts, which he later repaid in installments.

I suddenly understood why Yu'er's parents disliked Xiao Wang. In the past, Yu'er's husband had been a great help to their family, but now this man could barely support himself, so naturally they didn't treat him well.

As for why Yu'er had the abortion, she said she suddenly realized that she had made a mistake in the past, causing so much trouble for her daughter. Did she want to repeat the same mistake?

Not having children recklessly is indeed a woman's highest level of self-discipline. But I think Yu'er, after suffering so many losses, hasn't learned much from it and is still stuck in the mire.

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