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I've been married to my husband for thirty years and we have one son and two daughters. Back then, due to the large number of children and the heavy housework, I stayed home as a housewife, taking care of the children and supporting my husband. This also allowed him to focus on his career with fewer worries. Gradually, his diligence and hard work earned him recognition from his superiors, and he has now been promoted to vice president of a group company.
Although our family is financially well-off and we don't lack money, we are a generation raised with a tradition of hard work and frugality, and we still live a very frugal and low-key life.
My father-in-law is over 80 years old and lives with us. Perhaps due to his advanced age, he has poor sleep quality and often suffers from insomnia. He also has severe cataracts. Because he has also had diabetes for many years, many hospitals have refused to perform cataract surgery on him. Therefore, the old man is both blind and has difficulty moving around.
After discussing it with his brother, my husband hired a caregiver named Xiaomei from another province three years ago. She lives with us and sleeps in the room next to my father-in-law downstairs, taking care of him 24 hours a day.
That year, Xiaomei was just over thirty. She had a husband and children back in her hometown. After coming to live with us, she was very diligent and meticulous. She was beautiful, patient, and gentle, possessing the competence of a mature young woman. She truly helped me with many household chores, and I liked her very much.
After Xiaomei integrated into our lives, I always treated her like my own younger sister. She basically did all the cooking and housework. One day at noon, I came home early from a relative's house and found my husband flirting with Xiaomei in the kitchen. At that time, Xiaomei was cooking, and my husband even tried to hug her. I felt very uncomfortable, so I deliberately coughed loudly a few times, pretended not to see, and went upstairs, locking myself in my room to go online.
However, I couldn't shake the scene I had just witnessed. I had heard from my girlfriends that my husband was a womanizer and had improper relationships with many women. But I didn't have concrete evidence, and I didn't want to make a fuss over nothing, so I just treated it as rumors.
Now that I've witnessed my husband's shameful behavior, I'm truly furious. However, I don't want to confront him or argue in front of Xiaomei, especially since my father-in-law also appreciates Xiaomei's diligence and understanding. If I were to drive her away due to my overreaction, frankly, it wouldn't be easy to find a nanny as hardworking as her anytime soon.
But keeping this bottled up is suffocating. And just because I don't explode in anger doesn't mean I'm not angry; just because I don't argue in front of them doesn't mean I don't care. Besides, they have indeed had an affair. Several times, my husband has sneaked downstairs to Xiaomei's room in the middle of the night, thinking I was asleep, to do this shameful thing.
He thought we wouldn't know because we sleep in separate rooms. At night, I know it's him as soon as I hear someone coming downstairs. And how could there be no sounds of lovemaking?
I didn't stop him or catch him in the act because my health has been poor since giving birth to three children. I often suffer from back pain and have lost interest in sex. I tire easily, and even when I'm not working or just going for a walk, I'm always out of breath. I also need a midday nap to feel better. Because of my
poor health, I naturally abhorred having sex with my husband. First, we slept in separate beds, and later, we slept in separate rooms. Therefore, after my third child, I stopped having sex with him.
I didn't catch him in the act because I genuinely felt I couldn't satisfy his sexual needs. A healthy man is also miserable if he has no outlet for his desires. However, I feel unwell for several days after sex, and I've become completely terrified of it. The doctor said I have frigidity and recommended treatment, but I still can't shake my aversion to that sordid thing and continue to prevent my husband from being near me.
I didn't catch him in the act, which made me realize that my own problems were the root cause of his infidelity. Our marriage had lost its physical intimacy; we acted like ordinary friends at home, and he rarely spoke to me unless absolutely necessary. I had been a Buddhist for over a decade, and usually after dinner, he would watch TV downstairs while I went upstairs to my room to chant.
I knew that my own problems were the reason he sought other outlets for his desires. Therefore, I pretended not to know and didn't blame Xiaomei at all, just asking her not to treat me like I wasn't there in front of me. After all, I was still his legal wife, and I was still the head of the household.
I knew I had many problems, so I always turned a blind eye to my husband's affair with Xiaomei, and I never reacted strongly. I even secretly gave Xiaomei money, saying it was a bonus for her. My married children are furious about their father's infidelity. They think his behavior is utterly despicable and inhuman. Sometimes, I try to persuade them to be more open-minded and magnanimous. Even the best men can have affairs. As long as he still cares about his family and fulfills his responsibilities as a father, there's no need to dwell on it too much.

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