How to guide your wife to become a "red master" (a term used in Chinese folklore) - Part 1

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To cultivate your wife into a dominant partner (PS: a type of S in the context of cuckoldry
), the primary task is to help her build "sexual confidence," which means cultivating her ability to feel a sense of conquest and control.
(PS: This doesn't mean cultivating these desires; desires don't need to be cultivated
.)
As men, we are familiar with these two desires. We can imagine a few scenarios:
① She kneels before you, performing oral sex until you ejaculate, then
swallows your semen, and may even enjoy a subsequent urine bath.
② In bed, you use only two fingers to make the beauty before you convulse
and squirt, then extend your fingers to her, and she opens
her mouth sucking on your fingers covered in her semen.
③ To please you, she willingly performs a penile thrusting .
④...
Doesn't just imagining it feel incredibly satisfying, and
make your penis incredibly hard? Even some novice cuckolds are starting to waver, thinking
they can do it too? Okay, stop thinking about it. That's the treatment only real men receive
, not something cuckolds with small penises, premature ejaculation, or impotence can enjoy.
The reason men can feel a desire to conquer and control through such behavior
is because of the collective confidence instilled by millennia of patriarchal culture
—a benefit enjoyed by all men, but often unavailable to women.
What we cuckolds aim to do is help our wives build the confidence to experience this desire.
So how do we do this? It sounds difficult, but it's actually quite simple
. Just start with the scenarios we just discussed, and reverse them to achieve
excellent results. Let me give you an example:
she kneels before you, performing oral sex until you ejaculate, then swallows your semen, and even prepares for a subsequent urine bath.
I've highlighted and bolded a few verbs. Did you notice the key point?
Yes, the key point is the service, the control, and the humiliation, not the simple
result. Ejaculation, swallowing semen, and urine baths are all results. If
the focus is only on the result, it becomes no different from ordinary foreplay. It would become something like this:
you perform oral sex on her until she orgasms, until her face is covered in semen, until she loses control of her bladder.
This loses much of its guiding significance.
Okay, so how do you do it the other way around? That's easy to understand:
you kneel in front of her and give her oral sex until she climaxes, then return her vagina, and you might even be able to prepare for a subsequent urine shower.
However, you must remember one thing: this stage should be gradual.
Let me briefly explain:

The following ①②③④… represent stages, and () are basically
supplementary explanations
. ① Add oral sex to foreplay. (If your sex life
has progressed, you can start directly from stage ②.)
② While showering, squat down and give her oral sex, burying your face as close to her genitals as possible,
and practice your oral techniques until she climaxes (ideally, you should be able to get her vaginal
fluid all over your face).
③ While showering, say that squatting is too tiring, and instead kneel down and give her oral sex until she climaxes
. (Make sure she realizes that you are kneeling in front of her.)
④ While showering, kneel down and give her oral sex until she climaxes, then start masturbating while giving her oral sex
. (It's best if she sees you masturbating.)
While showering, kneel down and give her oral sex, telling her you're thirsty and ask her
to give you some saliva to moisten your mouth. Catch the saliva as it drips onto you,
then give her oral sex until she climaxes. (If you can do this, she
'll basically start to think you're a bit lewd, and this lewdness, connected to her
pleasure, will help her connect these two feelings later.)
⑥ Building on ⑤, at the moment of her climax,
masturbate ejaculate on her feet. (At this stage, this guidance method is basically complete
. She will definitely begin to enjoy
your service, and no matter how much she loves you or how
well you treat her, a corner of her heart will feel a sense of contempt for you and a
corresponding thrill of conquest.) (The following stages are advanced and are best started
when other concurrent guidance has
also reached a mature stage, meaning your wife has developed a queen-like demeanor .) Change the environment—it could be the bedside, the sofa… It's best not to do this after a shower and cleaning, but rather after a day of pent-up desire. Kneel before her , smelling the scent of her unwashed genitals, begging for her saliva , performing oral sex on her, letting her hold your head down until she orgasms, making a mess of your face , while you humiliatingly ejaculate at her feet. ⑧ At this stage, you can add other actions as you like. It would be even better if your wife could express her requests, such as: licking the semen on her feet (claiming you want to taste it), or trying to get her to orgasm while showering and then giving her a urine bath (telling her it will feel good), etc. Okay, that's all for the guidance methods corresponding to the first scene . By analogy, you can find ways to make your wife the dominant one in many scenes, transforming the male's desire for conquest and control into a desire your wife can obtain with peace of mind. The second scene is also classic and a good guidance method ; you can think about it yourselves first, I'll talk about it next time.

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