How to create a sexual atmosphere? (Repost)

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Many young couples, who are usually so affectionate and inseparable, become awkward and uncomfortable in bed.
"Is it okay?" "Don't turn on the light!" "Shall we try a different position?" "Do you want me to wipe you down..."
They're incredibly stiff, even hiding their true feelings, afraid to let their partner know...
Their inner monologue in bed:
"I don't really feel anything, but should I make some noise to cooperate?"
"Oh my god, I just farted, did he hear me?"
"This makes me look so embarrassed... This position won't work! I can't let him see the boil on my butt!"
"Why does he keep asking me if I orgasmed, or how many times... Can he please stop asking? (Help!)..."
01. Why is sex so awkward?
① Lack of sex education:
If you know too little about sex, you'll be embarrassed when you encounter situations like "vaginal flatulence"; experienced partners understand this is normal and are much calmer.
Understanding sexual physiology is important, but learning "good bedroom etiquette" is equally important. There are many taboos in bed, such as:
hygiene (not cleaning properly, the smell is super embarrassing),
language (constantly asking "Is it big or hard?" is awkward whether you answer or not)
, and desire (unilaterally making certain requests will make the other person feel awkward).
② Reluctance to communicate:
Some couples feel that the feelings during sex are a private matter, which is wrong.
Sex is a matter for two people and requires joint effort.
Whether you are happy or not, and what makes you happy, you know best. If you don't say it, the other person won't know what to do or how to change.
Timely communication can solve 80% of couple problems.
③ Short sex duration:
Girls like the natural development in pure love movies, like a slow simmer. If
the guy is too impatient or too goal-oriented, it will make the girl feel awkward;
if it ends in just a few minutes, it's even more awkward.
So how long is the perfect duration? The main act should last at least 7-13 minutes, and foreplay at least 6 minutes.
In sex, taking it slow is more enjoyable.
02. How to create a non-awkward atmosphere for sex?
Step 1: Lay some groundwork beforehand
, such as having a romantic dinner together, finding a nice bar for a couple of drinks, chatting in a scenic spot...
Many girls dream of dating on a beach terrace, feeling the sea breeze and listening to the sound of the waves crashing—who wouldn't want a romantic getaway with that atmosphere?
Handsome guys and beautiful girls can lightly spray some perfume, just a spritz or two; too strong a scent will be overwhelming.
Girls can spray some in their hair; the subtle fragrance will waft out as you move your hair, and your partner will definitely be incredibly smitten!
Step 2: Turn off the glaring white lights!
Now that the atmosphere is right, it's time to move to the bedroom. But be careful!
Many people feel awkward taking off their clothes, especially girls who aren't happy with their figures—there are a lot of worries!
When glaring lights shine on you, everyone feels uncomfortable, and it's definitely not romantic anymore.
Turn off the lights, but some things can't be rushed! Then there's another foolproof trick: simply turn on the TV, tablet, or projector and play a romantic little movie you've prepared beforehand.
Of course, this doesn't mean you have to watch a full two-hour movie, but rather use the visuals and sound to keep things from getting awkward. The movie's plot can also liven things up and gradually warm things up.
Top choices are romantic but not erotic films:
* *Nine and a Half Weeks*: *cough cough*, many "romantic escapades" were learned from this movie.
* *The Handmaiden*: Both female leads are incredibly beautiful; the scene of them grinding their teeth in the shower is endlessly watchable.
* *Unbanned Men and Women*: Girls who like younger men and guys who like high heels should really enjoy this one.
*Malèna*: A classic by Monica Bellucci, no need to say more.
*365 Days with My Boss*: Overflowing with hormones, men will be jealous.
Step 3: Turn on a warm light/light a few candles.
If possible, create a bedroom scene like this—
in this environment, the expressions and bodies of both people are subtly revealed, like a soft light, instantly boosting attractiveness by 20%!
And you don't have to worry about losing control of your expressions; you can both fully express yourselves.
Step 4: Music!
Find some songs suitable for sex and play them softly during sex to effectively enhance the atmosphere and sexual desire!
And most importantly, sex isn't just about physical contact; it's about emotional exchange!
When love is there, there won't be so much awkwardness. The best atmosphere is "I love you."
That kind of eye contact, blushing, and heart-pounding feeling can't be deliberately created!

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