There are no shortcuts to success – single men need to be mindful.

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The topic of single men is ubiquitous in online forums. Whether it's about their character or conduct, they are a group that faces considerable scrutiny. Everyone has the right to participate in dating, but becoming a successful or qualified participant requires certain "conditions." First and foremost, one must have a good mindset: neither overly ambitious nor blindly confident, nor self-deprecating or self-destructive. Fellow participants
shouldn't assume that all couples participating in dating are sexually frustrated or that their wives are unsatisfied, nor that all husbands are cuckolded or adulterers. It's crucial to understand that the purpose of these couples' dating activities is to add spice and color to their lives, not because they lack sex.
Many couples say there are too few suitable single men. Many single men also lament that there are too few suitable couples. But is this really the case? Are there no suitable people? Or are suitable people hard to find? Or are your search methods and approaches wrong? There are no shortcuts to success, but some patterns can be observed. Let's discuss them together.
First of all, every circle has its thresholds, or entry standards. The circle of couples making friends is no exception. Making friends requires not only fate but also a degree of equality in terms of background and social standing.
As a single man, you must carefully read the couples' requirements, such as age, interests, appearance, and geographical location. Don't be blind to their preferences; if a couple's requirements clearly state "No single men, no out-of-towners," don't add them as a friend. Not only will you be rejected, but you'll also create resentment.
As a single man, you must maintain a good and calm attitude. Don't resort to slandering or reporting them in online forums after being rejected. This is not only a matter of "professional" conduct but also a matter of character.
It's best to select friends who are similar to yourself based on your own circumstances. This way, your efforts will be more targeted. For example, those of similar age can be your primary targets, because people of the same generation tend to have more in common, more topics to discuss, and more shared values. If there's a significant age gap, you might have fewer common topics to discuss. However, this isn't always the case; there are stories of friendships between people of different ages.
After adding someone as a friend, be sincere and honest about yourself. Don't hide anything or exaggerate. If your partner wants to know something, as long as it doesn't involve privacy, share it. You should truly cherish everyone who accepts your friend request, even if it doesn't lead to anything. Believe that becoming friends doesn't guarantee success, as everyone in the circle has their own preferences, choices, and standards; it's a two-way selection process.
As a single man, you need to have the financial means to participate in activities. Leaving aside appearance and other factors, you must cover the costs of accommodations and meals. If you struggle to afford these, it's best not to participate. Focus on working and earning money. Of course, if you're a super handsome young man and meet a well-off couple, it's possible they could cover all the expenses.
Secondly, location and distance are always major obstacles in making friends. Distance has broken up many potentially compatible friendships. Therefore, when selecting partners, those from the same city, province, or neighboring regions are most suitable. Distances that are too far are impractical and difficult to achieve. I once had a very pleasant and satisfying conversation with a couple from Suzhou, and we both wanted to find a suitable opportunity to meet. However, due to the three-year pandemic, we couldn't see each other. Another major reason was the distance; we never had the chance to meet.
I believe there are many couples in this community who cannot meet due to distance. However, there are also "traveling couples" who choose a specific city beforehand and then start looking for suitable partners. The timeframe might be a month or a year. Once they have a good chat, they travel to places they both like. This is also a good way to solve the problem of not being able to meet due to distance.
If all the above selection criteria are met, the conversation is enjoyable, and everything is ready except for the meeting, then you're one step closer to success. When you meet, just make sure you are clean and tidy. Shave cleanly, trim your nails; it would be embarrassing if you accidentally scratched your partner's delicate skin during activities. Find a convenient place for couples to meet, and the environment should be comfortable. Whether chatting over tea or drinks, be proactive and enthusiastic. Don't use beauty filters beforehand; you don't want to look like yourself a few days later. Make sure the couple feels that the real you and the photo are definitely the same person. Meeting
doesn't mean you have to do anything; sometimes it's to further confirm your feelings for each other. Single men shouldn't feel that meeting means something has to happen. Meeting is a mutual test and understanding; both parties can dislike each other, and the single man has the right to say no.
Whether it's an excellent couple or an excellent single man, they are certainly excellent in real life. Excellent single men don't lack female companions in real life, whether married or unmarried. An excellent single man's goal is also to add spice to the relationship; if the couple always seems aloof, the single man has the right to say no. For an excellent single
man choosing a partner, the first impression is definitely the photo; high-quality photos are the most attractive to him. Excellent single men aren't afraid of partners with many requirements; they're afraid of partners with few. The more requirements a partner has, the more interested the single man will be. More conditions indicate the couple's excellence and meticulousness, and also show their seriousness about the matter. Detailed introductions and high-quality photos can quickly increase a single man's interest.
Many people impersonate couples to scam money, and many single men, eager for quick success, suffer financial losses. Please be careful not to send large sums of money (except for the wealthy) to so-called couples before meeting them. Remember: truly excellent couples will not ask for money before meeting. Of course, a gift upon meeting is still necessary; if you're thoughtful, it's best to bring a small gift.
Even though there are some patterns to dating, you still need to be discerning. This circle is not so pure as to be unguarded. People who frequent this circle are usually wary. Learn from experienced predecessors, learn successful methods, and learn how to avoid pitfalls. For example, if a couple keeps asking you how you want to "play" with his wife, but never mentions when to meet, only frequently asking how you'll enjoy it, then be careful; you may have encountered a bored and perverted person. Single men should also be cautious of couples who ask for an upfront fee before meeting; they are likely scammers.
If everything goes smoothly, we can discuss the location when we meet up to play.

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