Competition between the wife and the mistress

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What is love? It's spending every day with your beloved, mutual affection, and happily walking hand in hand into marriage; marriage is the best destination for love.
What is marriage? Different people have different answers. The answer is actually quite simple: marriage is essentially about sleeping! Food, clothing, shelter, and transportation are the four most important things in life. And in terms of food, clothing, and transportation, whether you live alone or with your partner, there's basically no qualitative change. The only qualitative change is in sleeping. Before, you warmed the bed yourself, and no one cared if it got too hot. When plagued by nightmares, you could only pretend not to be afraid, acting like a hero. But suddenly, with someone else by your side, everything changes. Every night, you rack your brains to have a blissful night or sweet dreams with him or her. Even without the luxurious material conditions for a romantic night, the phrase "a warm bed" in the proverb "wife, children, and a warm bed" is enough to illustrate the importance of sleep in marriage. Sexual intercourse truly plays a crucial role in marriage. Therefore, marriage is simply about two people sleeping together.
Even a single night of intimacy can leave a lasting impression. Men and women who fulfill their responsibilities and make sacrifices in marriage, even if they later separate, will rarely fail to cherish the memories of their passionate nights together. Even if they claim to have forgotten without a trace of emotion, no one can guarantee they won't compare their former lover to their new partner. Such thoughts are not deliberate but entirely unconscious, stemming from the human tendency to crave novelty.
Once a woman has had physical intimacy with a man, she wholeheartedly desires to spend her life with him. As for the past, it's difficult to completely forget it. Therefore, even if a mistress defeats the wife and wins the title of first wife, she has only possessed the man's body. No matter how alluring or capable she is, she can never erase the original wife from a man's heart. If she encounters a persistent and unreasonable woman who constantly speaks ill of the original wife to the man, the outcome is simple: get out! Even more immature abuse of a man's children with his first wife—only the weakest men might tolerate it; any other woman would be driven to even greater misery and humiliation.
While the man and his first wife may not have been immensely kind, the debt of gratitude is irreplaceable. After all, no matter how long you've been with him, it can never compare to his relationship with his first wife. The woman loses because she got to know him later! It's like eating; the first bite you take, whether it's a delicacy or simple fare, even if it's digested and little remains, its nutrients are absorbed by your body immediately.
Infidelity isn't a sin, but rather an unchangeable habit in human nature. If a man claims he's not unfaithful and only loves one woman, he's either hypocritical and pretentious, or he's impotent. A man with impotence is someone no normal woman wants, nor would she want! A smart woman won't mind a man's occasional infidelity, as long as he remembers his way home, gives you his entire salary, and maintains harmony in the marriage. Let him play. Men are like children; a child's nature is to play. When he's had his fill, he'll naturally come home. Just remember one thing: keep his private parts clean and prevent him from bringing back STDs! The best way to keep STDs out of the house is to keep enough condoms in his briefcase! Of course, you also need to make it a habit to open the door every day, so he can get into the house and your bed when he comes home late. That's like pushing him into the arms of a mistress!
As long as the wife can be tolerant and accommodating, even if there are great temptations and many other women outside, he will still willingly stay with you for the rest of his life. Because, after going through thick and thin, he will suddenly have a change of heart and realize that he can't live without you. More importantly, he'll get used to having you in his life day and night! Erasing the traces is impossible. But men can't do that. Otherwise, why do so many men waver between their wives and mistresses, unwilling to abandon their wives and marry the mistress who has waited for them for so many years?
Many wives, upon discovering their husbands' mistresses have children, unleash their fury like Wang Xifeng (a notorious female character in Chinese folklore known for her fierce and ruthless behavior). Don't overestimate yourself. Even a woman as formidable as Wang Xifeng couldn't escape being abandoned. You're not even as powerful as one of her fingers, yet you dare resort to such despicable tactics against your own man. This shows either you've lost your mind or you're so foolish you don't want your man back. You think your man's "thing" isn't a disposable item, it won't break, so what are you afraid of? Your outburst annoys him, he'll revoke your "use," and you won't be able to get back to him. Don't forget, you are the most authoritative permanent user of his "thing," while those mistresses may be happier and more fortunate than you temporarily. But they can't possess your man's "thing" forever, because no matter how good a mistress is, she's ultimately just a passerby. It's like a man occasionally having diarrhea and spending a little too long in the toilet. So, treat your husband's infidelity as a trip to the toilet; he'll come back when he's done.
There's a saying: "Couples quarrel at the head of the bed and make up at the foot of the bed." There's no grudge that lasts overnight. After a few arguments and playful fights, a good night's sleep and physical intimacy allow them to reconcile. The next morning, they're back to their usual cheerful selves, eating and drinking as usual, their affection undiminished. But a mistress is different. She dares not argue. She knows the secret to getting this married man to spend money on her is being as gentle as a kitten and so submissive as to have no dignity. It's rare for a mistress to continue being pampered after a big fight and a demand to "get out ." That's reality; mistresses are like snacks for men, and even the most delicious snack can become tiresome. The wife may be as bland as water, but she's absolutely indispensable for life.
Therefore, when faced with a man entangled with a mistress, first calm down, analyze the situation, and don't panic. Then, take appropriate measures depending on the circumstances. But no matter what method you use, don't forget to secretly learn various techniques of coquetry and sweet talk, using your unique charm to satisfy his desires, making him feel that leaving you is the biggest loss. Remember, men are more prone to being perverse than women. A woman's battlefield isn't outside, but in her own bed. Don't gossip and embarrass men everywhere, or argue with them like a shrew. Take control of your own bed and conquer your man there.

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