Clit Licking Guide

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Performing oral sex on a woman is a wonderful thing. From a sexual psychology perspective,
the feeling of watching a woman struggle and moan during oral sex is extremely pleasurable.
The following is about a man performing oral sex on a woman, based on my own experience. The feelings of the woman are
based on my observations and feedback from my girlfriend, which I have slightly edited.
I. Preparations before oral sex:
Sex is a wonderful thing. If you're not just doing it for release, you should create
some conditions and atmosphere, such as doing it at night and dimming the lights.
Both partners should take a shower first, especially the woman, because the female genitalia have a more complex structure with many folds,
making it easy for dirt to accumulate. Therefore, when showering, be sure to open the labia majora and minora and clean them thoroughly.
Men should play some music and wait for her in bed. After showering, women should get into the habit of applying perfume to their genitals, but
avoid using too much or too strong a perfume, as the man's nose is closest to
the genitals when he's licking her, and a strong perfume can easily choke him. Also, avoid applying perfume to the labia, as
the scent of vaginal fluid isn't created by perfume. Spray perfume on your palms and apply it to the pubic hair
and inner thighs; a light application to the anus is also beneficial.
Prepare two towels, one large and one small. Place the large towel on the bed for the woman to lie on, and the small towel for wiping away
sweat and moisture. Keep a glass of water nearby so she can easily reach it if thirsty, avoiding
interrupting her experience.
Secondly, regarding sensitive areas:
Men shouldn't assume that licking the genitals means immediately rushing to kiss her clitoris upon entering bed. Don't be so
hasty. A woman's body reacts slowly; give her time to adjust. The clitoris is extremely
sensitive; stimulating it immediately will be less effective.
Personally, I think the order should be like this: First, hug her and say a few sweet words, like "
You're beautiful," or "You're so sexy," to make her feel comfortable and relaxed. Then, start kissing her
lips, earlobes, behind her ears, neck, breasts, lower abdomen, and waist. Pay attention to spending more time on
her breasts, as they are a very important erogenous zone.
At this point, she should feel a slight tingling sensation throughout her body, and you should begin to approach her genitals.
Start kissing from the groin area, gently parting her legs. Usually, women are quite shy at this point because they
feel somewhat "resistant" to exposing their genitals to you. So,
don't be too hasty or forceful when parting her legs; do it gently, little by little.
Begin to lightly touch and sweep your tongue across her thighs, from the outer edge of her labia majora—the crease between her thighs—from
bottom to top, gently licking towards her hip bones (the left and right sides of her lower abdomen). Repeat this about ten times. She will feel a ticklish and tingling sensation
, and a tingling feeling near the vaginal opening. Gently sweep your tongue along the thigh down to the Zusanli acupoint below the knee
. Zusanli is a sensitive spot for women. If her skin is delicate, you can kiss this area
several times. If her skin is rough, it will feel like rubbing sandpaper with your tongue, so skip it and kiss
back .
Return to the groin and repeat the above steps. This technique is called "assistance" in military terms.
In bed, treat the woman as an "enemy, opponent." First, distract the "enemy," take the initiative
, and guide the "enemy's" senses to follow your tongue.
Engage in guerrilla warfare on any part of her body—the breasts, the lower abdomen, the groin, and the pubic area. Gradually, you
'll feel the woman begin to curl up, her legs will move involuntarily, and she may moan. More sensitive women
will experience vaginal lubrication.
After about ten minutes of this "assistance," begin the main attack!
By providing support, the man has essentially overcome the woman's shyness and dismantled her psychological defenses.
At this point she will be in a state of feigned resistance, allowing the man to launch his main offensive.
The woman should take the initiative, spreading her legs into a V-shape, ideally arching them backward to
expose her entire genitals to the man. There's nothing to be ashamed of; in fact, this slight initiative will
provide the man with greater motivation and engagement.
Once the woman has raised and spread her legs, the man should first target key areas:
the perineum, labia, and vaginal opening. The perineum is located at the junction of the vagina and anus.
Although the skin in this area is taut, it is extremely sensitive. Use a moist tongue to gently lick this area. When kissing the woman's inner thighs, she will feel a tingling or numb sensation from top to bottom around the vaginal opening; when kissing the perineum, she will experience a comfortable, expanding sensation
from bottom to top .
When kissing a woman's vulva, if you can overcome your psychological barriers, you can
surprise her by licking and touching her anus with your tongue. This will guarantee she screams with excitement
.
If you have psychological barriers, lick upwards from the vulva to the labia. At this point
, most women will be very wet. The vaginal fluid will be clear and thin; if you like
, you can drink it (not a joke). It's freshly secreted and not dirty.
How should you kiss the labia? Don't touch them yet. Use your tongue to gently
pry open the labia majora (some women have smaller labia majora, or the labia may separate on their own when they are more aroused).
Take one labia into your mouth and sweep your tongue over it, paying attention to both the inside and outside.
Then repeat the process with the other labia. Finally, turn your body slightly to the side, so that your lips are parallel to the woman's labia.
Gently take both labia into your mouth at the same time, sucking them in. Use your tongue
to make a sweeping, inserting and withdrawing motion between the labia. The woman will feel incredibly good.
Remember, when kissing the labia, try to suck them as much as possible into
your mouth, gently sweeping and licking with your tongue. The woman will feel a slight itch in the labia area; she'll want you
to kiss more areas and wider. Ignore her; just keep kissing
. Few women will say, "Darling, kiss me there, kiss me there..."
You can gently bite her labia while she's enjoying it. The flesh is in your mouth.
Whether or not to bite, and how to bite, is entirely up to you. But don't bite too hard; it needs to be just right. A sudden
scream is enough to basically destroy the sensation she's been building up.
Why ruin a woman's feelings when they're perfectly fine? Male sexual arousal is
achieved through the friction between the eyes and genitals. This direct stimulation allows men to reach orgasm quickly, which can be represented graphically
as Mount Everest, rising and falling vertically. Female sexual arousal, on the other hand, is built up through the ears (hearing your sweet words
) and the mind (imagination and feelings). Reaching orgasm requires multiple stimulations and accumulation
. Graphically, this can be represented as the Yunnan-Guizhou Plateau, a trapezoid.
After the previous round of kissing, the woman has reached a certain level of arousal and is a little dazed. Being too dazed
isn't good either, because when a woman is dazed, she won't know who's kissing her, haha! Just kidding. A light bite
can wake her from her dazed state, allowing her to accept your continued stimulation in a semi-conscious state, making her next
sexual arousal come faster and accumulate more. This technique should be repeated when licking a woman's vulva
, but don't do it too frequently, or you might get kicked off the bed. Hey! Be careful when biting, the labia are very delicate
.
If you gently bite a woman's labia, she will definitely let out a startled "Ah!" and her body will twitch.
Before can speak, quickly press your lips to her vaginal opening. This will make her
feel a warm and comfortable sensation throughout her genitals, turning her initial "Ah" into
a soft , wanting to scream but not daring to—it's quite fun.
After you've "conquered" the woman's "outer strongholds" (perineum, labia, anus, etc.), you can begin
the "Xuzhou-Bengbu Campaign." In sexual terminology, the woman's vagina is sometimes referred to as a "clam (labia)," which
is quite descriptive, and indeed, there is a "pearl" (clitoris) inside.
As mentioned above, after gently biting the woman's labia, quickly use your lips to block the woman's vaginal opening; this will give her a warm and comfortable
feeling . Now it's time to get started. Gently use your thumb to
separate her labia, exposing the vaginal opening. Use your tongue to circle around the opening, sometimes lightly, sometimes firmly, and sometimes with
your entire lips pressed against it. Remember, don't blow air into the vagina; it's not fun and can easily cause problems.
At this point, the woman's attention is entirely focused on her vagina, and her clitoris will begin to swell and become visible (some women
have very small clitoriss that are not easily visible; if you encounter such a woman, don't bother trying). If you haven't kissed her
clitoris yet, she'll only feel a swelling and probably won't feel much. At this point, you can pause briefly from
kissing the vaginal opening and instead gently tease her clitoris a few times with the tip of your wet tongue, arousing her sensation from within
. The woman will let out a few soft moans. Then you can return to kissing her vaginal opening and labia. At this point, the woman's
clitoris has just been stimulated and will be eager for you to kiss it again.
Remember, under no circumstances should you kiss her clitoris at this point. Keep her half-suspended in that feeling
. The man should begin by gently licking upwards from the vulva towards the clitoris, slowly and carefully.
When the tongue reaches the vaginal opening, move it from side to side, parting the labia while continuing to lick upwards, gradually approaching the clitoris.
At this point, the woman should be telling herself, "Almost there, almost there, hurry, hurry and take it in." No
matter what she says or pulls at you, just don't kiss the clitoris. When you're almost there, gently
, as lightly as possible, just lightly brush and touch her clitoris with the tip of your tongue (your tongue should have a little saliva on it). Then, immediately reverse the direction
and lick towards the vaginal opening. This will drive her crazy with anticipation, and her anticipation will naturally arouse her
.
When kissing the vaginal opening, men with long tongues can try inserting their tongues into the woman's vagina and stirring them around—
stirring them however you like, as long as you can get it moving. Women really enjoy this technique, but men should be careful with their tongues
; sticking them out too far can cause injury. Men with thick tongues (like me, poor thing!)
can only insert a small portion, but they can curl their tongues to insert it. Even though it's not much, it can make a woman feel
very aroused. The sensation of a thick tongue sweeping upwards from the vaginal opening is
something men with thin tongues can't provide. Men with thin tongues can use the tip to gently tease the cleft of the labia, which is also very pleasurable
; each has its own merits.
Now you can focus on getting the "pearl" (clitoris). Move your tongue up to the clitoris and concentrate
. Many men might think that simply licking the clitoris vigorously is enough to bring a woman to orgasm
, but this is a misconception. The clitoris is very sensitive; if you lick too hard, she'll feel more pain than
pleasure, which defeats the purpose.
When kissing the clitoris, keep a few things in mind: your tongue must be wet, light, and pointed, and it's essential to keep it moist (the water prepared in Chapter
1 will come in handy now). When licking the clitoris, be gentle and use only the tip of your tongue.
Use the five-word technique of "point, flick, pluck, press, stir": "Point" means lightly touching
the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your tongue; "Flick" means flicking the clitoris upwards from below; "
Pluck" means gently plucking the clitoris from side to side with your tongue; "Press" means
pressing the clitoris slightly with your tongue from time to time; "Stir" means stirring around the clitoris with your tongue while it's in your mouth.
At this point, you need to be aware of the woman's reactions, as she will be very engaged and excited .
You can feel a slight throbbing under her clitoris, which is
very noticeable when you're holding it in your mouth. Don't interrupt her sensations abruptly; maintain a steady pace, as sudden, rapid
movements can easily lead to orgasm.
Men often prefer longer sex and a later ejaculation for greater comfort. At this point, women
, like men, desire to prolong this exceptionally pleasurable sensation. Therefore, it's crucial to understand
this feeling.
Only resort to a faster pace to help her reach orgasm if she strongly requests it, or if your tongue becomes numb from prolonged kissing.
A very effective technique is to avoid the haphazard licking of the clitoris, as seen in pornography, and to avoid consistently kissing
the clitoris using the methods described above. Once you've performed these actions and feel ready to bring her to orgasm
, use your entire lip to envelop the clitoris, with your upper lip pressing against the base of the pubic hair above the clitoris, and your lower lip...
Part the woman's labia with your lips, getting as close to the vaginal opening as possible (depending on the size of your lips, hehe). Take
her clitoris into your mouth (leaving some space), making her feel as if it's floating inside.
Use the five-word technique to launch your attack. This is the most meaningful moment for a man to lick a woman's vulva, because you can
control her arousal and orgasm through your lips and tongue. Usually, I lick for a while
until she has a sudden spasm, and just as she's about to climax, I gently release her clitoris, making her
scream frustration. Or, just as she's about to scream, I immediately take her clitoris back in, and she's so comfortable she can't scream anymore.
How proud you feel when you can control a woman's emotions! But don't go too far, or she might
kick you off the bed.
When licking a woman's clitoris, you can simultaneously stroke her pubic hair, which feels very pleasurable.
You can also gently tease her anus with your fingers, or gently insert your fingers into her vagina and stir them. You can also
reach up and grab her breasts with both hands. These are all actions that can greatly enhance a woman's pleasure; in military terms, this is called "encircling the point to attack
the reinforcements."
At this point, whatever you ask of her, she will agree. If she doesn't agree,
stop these actions. In her desperation, she will likely agree, depending on whether your request is excessive. I usually
ask her to "go to the back door" for me, but she never agrees. :(
You can make her beg you to give her an orgasm, hehe, watching her plead with you to hurry up and give it to her, you'll feel
a great sense of conquest. Then you can lick her rapidly with your tongue while shaking your head, and the woman's thighs will
clench tighter and tighter (ladies, pay attention, if your boyfriend tells you his neck hurts the next day, it's because of your clenching,
hmph), then a strong spasm, and then her body relaxes.
If you're really interested, you can hold her clitoris in your mouth and not move, just hold and suck... Lick her clitoris, but don't
use your tongue to do anything or touch it. At this time, the clitoris is very swollen and congested, and
extremely sensitive during orgasm. Touching it will make her feel "pleasurably" painful. Unless
you want to "punish" her severely, then continue licking and watch her happily dodge and weave.
Female orgasms can last a long time, from ten to several tens of seconds. They will lie motionless on the bed, or even have
full-body convulsions. During this time, you can go do whatever you need to do, such as wiping sweat or drinking water. Because at this point,
the woman is practically oblivious to orgasms; her mind is completely absorbed in extreme excitement, leaving no room for you.
By the time you return, she'll have just recovered.
After a woman's clitoral orgasm, she desperately craves something like an eggplant to be immediately inserted into her vagina—that
goes without saying, right? But these days, eggplants are unreliable; you'll have to rely on yourself. If you've become
"soft" from focusing too much on clitoral stimulation, you can ask her to perform oral sex on you for a while. Once you've regained your erection,
you can move on to another round. It's a battle of wits.
Not every girl is suitable for genital licking. Some girls may have
excessive vaginal discharge and a strong body odor due to hormonal imbalances. Even after washing, their genitals may still have a strong smell, which is
difficult for men to accept. I wouldn't want to either. Women with this characteristic should be more understanding.
Also, avoid genital licking a few days before a woman's period, as vaginal discharge usually
increases during menstruation. Licking a woman's genitals at this time, with the vaginal fluid mixed with the discharge, is not hygienic.
You can add some... Use music to accompany your kisses, subtly suggesting that the rhythm of your genital
stimulation is inspired by the music. Let her listen to the music while you kiss her; this will create a romantic and
comfortable feeling. Try some music with a strong rhythm to see which one suits your kissing frequency best. Personally, I
recommend the guzheng piece "Wild Geese Descending on the Sandbank," the pipa piece "Ambush from Ten Sides," and the guitar piece "Hotel California." Definitely avoid
playing "Moon Reflected in the Second Spring"—that melancholic music will ruin the atmosphere.
Both men and women need practice to perfect genital stimulation; practice makes perfect. Three times and... I'm speechless. All you need
is your emotional investment. Don't think that licking a woman's genitals is shameful; you should know that it can provide a great sense of
conquest.
On the other hand, men need a sense of conquest, and women need it too. This makes them more engaged
, proactive, and cooperative during sex. Isn't a man's sense of conquest enough? Licking a woman's genitals shows
a man's chivalry and gives her satisfaction and a sense of conquest—why not?
If you want to show your girlfriend more love and respect... If you're willing to accept equality and
can overcome any patriarchal biases, you can try a different position, what we'll call the "enhanced
version." Start by having the woman lie on the bed and perform the basic genital stimulation. After stimulating various areas, the man
lies on the bed with his head elevated using a pillow, allowing the woman to "ride" on his head (hehe, this is
truly riding on his head and dominating him!). The man, face upwards, licks the woman's genitals. This method allows the woman to
more actively adjust the stimulated areas, and the man, getting more tired, often has to look up and kiss her, especially her neck. It will be very sore.
But this method of licking the vulva is several times more stimulating and satisfying for women than lying in bed.
Imagine yourself from a woman's perspective: a man you love is lying between your legs—in a broader sense,
a man is riding you and licking your vulva—how stimulating, satisfying, and sublime that is
!
Men will feel the vaginal fluids of an aroused woman flowing down their chin, even their neck and the corners of their mouth.
While licking, you can try gently rubbing the woman with your nose or beard; this will create a unique kind of stimulation.

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