My thoughts on 3P in men's singles, and some advice for beginners.

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Introduction: Everyone'll probably laugh at me if I told you, but I did threesomes when I was 7 years old. It was with another boy and a girl from my village, playing house! Back then, I didn't even know what penetration was; I just put my penis inside! The other boy and I played for about 20 minutes in the woods behind the village. It wasn't really interesting; we were just curious. Looking back, I don't even know if it went into my vagina or urethra, or even if it went in at all, because there was no bleeding. Thank goodness, otherwise I probably would have cried from fright! The reason I joined threesomes: In high school and college, I had crushes on many girls, but from then until I graduated, I never touched a girl, not even holding hands! I got married right after graduation! My marriage is happy, and our child is smart and well-behaved. I feel blessed, but sometimes sex feels a bit bland, like something's missing! Speaking of sex, I'm quite confident because my wife's squirting proves it, but I think her pleasure is definitely greater than mine! So, in this dull life, I always want to find something to make up for it! My wife is old-fashioned and conservative, which makes me miserable! I've followed many people on 69.net and enjoy reading Yu Shunshun's blog. I deeply understand the saying: "A smart man or woman can still be happy even in worldly circumstances!" So I joined the ranks of threesomes and encountered problems! I can't deny that in worldly circumstances, we are all very cautious. As a single man, I'm fortunate, at least it's much safer than being married. So in dating, a single person should consider the other person's perspective. For both parties to be open, you must first give the other person a reason to be open. Once the other person is open, I will be open too! But often, perhaps the other person hasn't experienced it, or is still conflicted, so it ends up unresolved! It's like a beautiful apple, everyone wants to eat it, but everyone is afraid it's poisonous. In the end, the apple spoils, and we still don't have the courage to open our mouths! It's such a pity! How to choose a partner: So I personally believe there are the following ways to solve this: 1. Age selection: First of all, when meeting someone for the first time, choosing someone of similar age is very important, because people of the same age face similar problems and desires, and are more likely to have similar thoughts! 1. From a successful perspective, I think the age range is slightly suitable! 2. Regarding location selection, I think there are two "good" and two "bad" options. "Good" refers to those from the surrounding area and those from the same city! "Bad" refers to those from the same region and those from the same industry. Based on the above selection criteria, I think it's best if the partners are from different areas within the same city and their work types don't overlap! This makes dating easier and avoids the chance of future encounters! 3. Regarding taste selection, while threesomes are exciting, in traditional society, we should be smart and avoid unnecessary trouble! Therefore, we need to raise our standards to mitigate risks! Materially: The best way to eliminate scoundrels is whether they own a house and a car (sorry, I don't mean to belittle anyone)! People with stable family income and abundant material possessions are generally not scammers! A few dates will reveal this! Behaviorally: Communicate more, but not too much: Frequent communication allows you to understand the other person's thoughts and tastes through conversation. Frankly, the other person can sense whether someone calls when they're happy or unhappy! This is the purpose of communication. More communication isn't just about verifying identities, but also about understanding each other's interests and hobbies. Our goal isn't sex; the body is just a vehicle, but to achieve pleasure! However, I don't recommend too much communication, because if two strangers communicate too much, especially only on QQ, it will gradually become boring, they'll lose interest, and we'll stray from our true pursuit of pleasure! Rules for a 3P meeting: 1. Ask about occupations. This avoids the probability of future chance encounters. Being in the same industry in the same city can be troublesome. 2. Ask about age. The body is the vehicle for pleasure. People have different preferences; some like demure women, some like mature women. Age may not be the same as appearance, but it can be a reference point for similarity. 3. Ask about schedules. Even if two people have the same need, different schedules might prevent them from meeting. For example, I have plenty of time during the day, but not at night. If we talk for a long time and finally agree, only to find that our schedules don't overlap, it's a problem! 4. Ask about preferences. Some people are germaphobic, some don't like oral sex, and some don't like anal sex. Don't let these little preferences affect your enjoyment. You can ask what you should ask, but some you shouldn't. For example, don't ask for their home address, name, or family members. Giving them enough safety is giving yourself the opportunity to fulfill your desires! For beginners, I suggest starting as friends. There's no need to have the intention of sleeping together on the first meeting. Get to know each other better, go for a walk in a park together, and if you're both satisfied and have no concerns, then you can go to a hotel. As for splitting the bill, honestly, I agree with splitting the bill, but sometimes being too clear-cut can ruin the atmosphere. So, my suggestion is for couples to pay for meals (you two eat together), and the single person to book the hotel room. This avoids the couple leaving their information! It's more appropriate for the single person to leave their information. Also, it's best not to book the room in advance. First, to prevent cancellations and unnecessary losses, and second, to effectively prevent bad people from taking photos beforehand! It's best to book the room together, and the other person can choose a few room numbers! Upon entering the room, both parties should ideally turn off their phones. This helps prevent criminal gangs from finding you, haha. It's best not to leave the room midway (since you're both naked, someone with nothing to hide will definitely stay). If the woman is shy, you can start by wearing a blindfold; this helps her get into the mood and makes it difficult for her to distinguish between her husband and the other person! Once the prelude is done, the woman can remove the blindfold if she wants and enjoy herself! My own role as the male soloist is: First, I'm a substitute. Even if I can participate fully, I need to consider the other person's feelings so they'll be satisfied, and thus satisfied with you! My advice is to be brave and wise; being too afraid is foolish! Have confidence in yourself, and let's all cheer each other on! Also, don't be too picky about appearances; anything acceptable is fine, because everyone has their own positive energy, and we don't even know if it can inspire or motivate us! I work in Shenzhen; friends from the surrounding areas can add me as a QQ friend or a friend on this site. Remember to include "69.com + ID" in your verification message, thank you! We can exchange experiences, and even just be friends on dates!

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