Let go of the urge to ejaculate, I'll nourish your yin and you'll replenish your yang, a win-win situation!

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I've reached the most basic level of sexual activity.
If we understand that sex involves a process, and recognize that "women are slower to arouse, and men are even slower," and understand that at a certain stage, women are actually in control, and men are willing to relax and let women take the lead, then sex begins to enter a state that... you could say it's like "playing."
Men who truly begin to understand the art of the bedroom will find that: initially, the desire for sex stems from sexual desire and the urge to ejaculate. However, in this parasympathetic sex, men experience that the urge to ejaculate becomes increasingly weak—they're having a lot of fun, but the urge to ejaculate is getting weaker and weaker—eventually, the woman experiences many orgasms, and the man feels physically and mentally satisfied, but he finds that he no longer wants to ejaculate. This is because his nervous and endocrine systems have shifted to another system.
Therefore, we need to understand a second thing: the art of the bedroom advocates that men "do not need to end sex with ejaculation." Intermediate-level sexual techniques, in essence, involve getting men accustomed to the concept of "not ejaculating."
Many modern men mistakenly believe that ejaculation is the primary source of sexual pleasure, which is completely wrong. When a man today says, "Sex is all about pleasure!" he mostly means the few seconds of ejaculation itself. Many modern men are completely unaware of the other pleasures involved.
Some men who already had good sex lives know they've become less inclined to ejaculate, but due to a lack of knowledge, they force themselves to ejaculate, believing "it's necessary to ejaculate," which is a pity.
However, it is precisely by not ejaculating that the overall pleasure increases, becoming far greater than the pleasure of ejaculation itself.
Modern people mistakenly believe that ejaculation is the peak of pleasure, causing them to miss out on true pleasure. Ejaculating occasionally during several sexual encounters is sufficient; it doesn't need to happen every time.
But please don't misunderstand one thing! I'm not saying men should "hold back their ejaculation" or use some method to suppress it!
This state of "no longer wanting to ejaculate" must be achieved naturally through the process described earlier; that's the true essence of this discipline.
So, the idea of eliminating the urge to ejaculate through such complete sexual intercourse is, in Chinese tradition, a way for men to nourish themselves, allowing their systems to grow and strengthen.
Therefore, from this perspective, have you noticed that "regulating yin and yang" doesn't involve "absorbing yin to supplement yang" at all? It's simply an activity where two people cooperate to improve each other's health. There's no victim-perpetrator relationship of "being absorbed" or "being supplemented"; it's a win-win situation, perfectly respectable.

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