Why is "couple dating" so popular?

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What makes it so appealing? After
a couple's life reaches a stable point, and their work and careers are at a comfortable level, a situation arises where their sex life becomes bland, lacking passion and excitement. This can dull their relationship, making it dull and even leading to marital problems; many affairs stem from this. "Couples dating" seems to be the best way to solve this problem and rekindle passion between couples. I can't quite explain why "couples dating" works this way. However, couples I know who have engaged in swapping or threesomes have confirmed this. After such an experience, they became closer and more passionate.
One wife told me after a threesome that their relationship had previously been very lukewarm, and her husband had shown signs of infidelity, but after this experience, their passion returned, and her husband started to feel more "feeling" for her.
Regarding "couples dating," is swapping or threesomes better? Based on my conversations with many couples who have had this experience, I think it depends on individual circumstances. As everyone knows, couples often face this conflict as they age: wives' libido increases while husbands gradually experience erectile dysfunction. It's crucial to consider this when choosing ways to enhance intimacy. If the husband's sexual ability is still strong, while the wife is new to the activity and less open, then partner swapping might be a good option. However, it's best to avoid partner swapping if the husband is experiencing decline but the wife still has a high libido.
One couple shared their experience: they were middle-aged, the husband over forty, and they swapped with a similar partner. The husband's erection was also declining, and due to nervousness, neither man could achieve an erection after a short while, leading to awkwardness.
Based on my observations of couples in our group who have had similar experiences, I believe a threesome is the best option for middle-aged couples, though this isn't absolute. In middle age, most wives cannot be fully satisfied by their husbands; finding a sexually capable single man can provide greater satisfaction for the wife. In matters of sex, the effect of 1+1 is far greater than 2.
Many couples ask how to get their wives to accept "couples swapping" as a real-life activity. Generally speaking, wives who are more modern are more likely to accept it, provided the passion in the relationship is rekindled. Of course, if you have a wife who's a bit old-fashioned, there's nothing you can do; the point is to have fun, don't force it and hurt the relationship.
Usually, the husband proposes "couples swapping." First, the husband needs to determine whether it's couples swapping or a threesome; once the goal is clear, there's a direction to work towards. Generally, persuading the wife to accept swapping is easier. You can find a couple to swap with, and then chat with them together, encouraging the wife to participate in conversations to get to know them. Once trust is established, you can use more passionate methods for chatting, video chatting, video sex, and so on. Once the communication is sufficient and the wife is more open, the swapping will naturally move towards reality.
Relatively speaking, persuading the wife to accept a threesome is more difficult, as most wives today are still raised in the 1980s and are not very open-minded. Generally, after the husband has convinced her, the woman still needs to put in some effort, as reality and expectations often differ. First, the husband should find a man of high character with prior experience to discuss this topic with his wife. Whether or not they actually have sex is secondary; the main thing is to prepare her psychologically. At an appropriate time, the wife should try having her body shown to the man via video call, ideally with the husband present. This is the beginning of a virtual threesome. At a suitable time, the husband should be intimate with his wife and have sex with the man watching, asking him to participate as well. Initially, it's best not to ask the man to video call; instead, stimulate the wife with text or voice messages, which makes her more receptive. Once the wife is more open, she should have sex with the man via video call, for example, by having him display his penis—the method is up to her. At this point, the husband should verbally stimulate the wife, such as, "Want another penis?" or "How about we have sex together?" You can probably guess what that means. With this approach, the wife will open up in a short time. Finally, a word of caution: when choosing a single man, be sure to consider his character. He should be of high quality, have experience in threesomes, and be someone your wife likes and trusts. Whether you end up sleeping with him or not is secondary.
Take this experience as a reference, whether it's accurate or not!

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