A few complaints

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I've been on 69 for over half a year now, mostly lurking and rarely posting, but I've made a good friend. After reading so many posts and comments, I suddenly felt like sharing my own feelings, for both singles and couples.
First, how should we begin? I've never had a threesome, but I have experienced a foursome without changing partners, though not with my wife, but with a female friend of a friend. In the past six months, I've added many friends and chatted with some online, but it seems like after a few sentences, they either disappear completely or delete me. I've seen many posts from other users saying things aren't going smoothly or that the coordination is poor. I've been thinking about this: we're here seeking excitement, but without a certain level of familiarity, how can we expect to coordinate smoothly? I have a very good partner, so I understand why I'm not nervous having sex with my partner. I think it's because before becoming partners, there was a certain level of familiarity between us. Of course, when people come to 69, whether they are audience members or actors, everyone has the goal of seeking beautiful passion. However, when they don't know each other well, or only two people know each other, and one person is passively accepting, how can there be cooperation or passion? It seems that all that's left is excitement and stimulation, and of course, "coming in hastily and leaving hastily." So I think whether singles or couples can talk more to deepen their understanding before proceeding?
Second, besides P, what else do we have left? Many friends have put forward many criteria and then screened, which I think is understandable. After all, the primary goal is there, but I think there is also the purpose of making friends and sharing. I made a very good friend in the past six months. To be honest, we haven't met in person yet, and we've only exchanged messages related to P once on WeChat. But I feel that I have a lot of fun chatting with this friend. (They are a couple who can't accept it, and female friends don't chat on WeChat.) This brother and I share some of our feelings about this aspect of life and thoughts that we can't tell others. I think it's about making friends, and then it can extend to P, so sharing with friends is also a kind of happiness.
Third, how to determine the feelings of P? It seems that couples are looking for male models, and single men are looking for beautiful women. I'm not saying this because I'm small. I've been with eight or nine women since I started dating, and they all say my size and duration are pretty good (I haven't measured it, and I'm not just boasting). Personally, I think sex is a sensory experience, more about the subtlety and pleasure of the senses. Of course, men might focus more on sight and hearing, while women might focus more on feeling. But it's not like being with Fan Bingbing will guarantee you enjoy it, nor is it like having a super-sized penis will guarantee you comfort. It's about how men and women interact and cooperate, and how they consider each other's feelings.
Fourth, what is trust and security? I believe everyone considers this when making friends, including myself. Of course, everyone maintains a degree of vigilance, but I think there needs to be a limit. Many couples are unwilling to interact with single men, partly because they can't accept it and feel it's unfair, and partly because even if they are willing, they're afraid that single men are just looking for a free ride. If I were in their shoes, I would consider it the same way. However, I think it's like this: if both parties have communicated and gotten to know each other over time, and the single man is willing to travel a long distance to meet, shouldn't the couple/friends consider that he's not there to get a free ride? Otherwise, why not just pay for the travel expenses to see a prostitute
? Trust is mutual; one-sided efforts will never be reciprocated.
These are just my personal opinions; please don't be offended if you disagree, thank you! My old account has been banned!

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